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Guys who can dance

June 13 2015

Dancers are sexy. I don't think there's much debate about this one. Just watch the mesmerizing hips of salsa dancers, the elegance and pizzazz of ballroom dancers or the (to some tastes) confidence and attitude of modern interpretations. It has sensual, beautiful bodies that know how to move and be in touch not only within themselves but also the rhythm of each other. So the question is, do guys who can dance get your immediate attention? Or might you find their gyrating hips all a little too intimidating?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Hello, you've changed your name. :-) . Bring it on but don't be surprised if I'm looking into your eyes rather than at your gyrating hips...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Dabbled in ballroom, latin (salsa etc), old school rock n roll, and certain dancing associated with us country folk... (yes I know how many of you have a certain non-interest in country music) ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    11 years ago

    Take for example Latin dances! I love watching anyone dance and why would anyone be intimidated by girating hips? I'd be thinking more in line of where else I'd like to see that rhythm be used. But given your height and my lack of it, I'd probably be at eye level with your girating hips 😜 Mary xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Professional dancers don't really grab my attention, but guys on the dance floor (who wave their hands in the air like they just don't care) certainly do. I think it's great when both men and women can dance like nobody's watching, especially if they can poke a little fun at themselves while they're at it. Is was at a Ceilidh last night with a couple of other members (and we even spotted another RHP-er!). It's a Scottish dance event with lots of traditional group dances and lots of men in kilts. Half of us didn't have a clue what we were doing, but seeing everyone laughing and not caring was so sexy! Turned out all the guys I liked were either gay or taken though. Damnit.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Just read your validation, OP, and I'm jealous!

  • Forus1234

    Forus1234

    11 years ago

    Not intimidating, as we like to dance ourselves, we find it extremely sexy, using your body to talk, however equally there is also something sexy about a man that can sing, or a woman. Also, love watching people on the dance floor that have their own unique qwerky moves, in their own world. Love it when Mr Forus gets on the dance floor, being from a country town, out comes the sprinkler, feedin' the chooks, driving the tractor!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I've been known to bust a move or two once I've dusted off the dancing shoes! Some would say sexy most would say not! I had a friend who was a natural dancer, he used to get lots of attention when we're out in clubs! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    A little while back I was getting down and dirty on the dance floor when this sexy young Irishman come up and joined in with me. It was a total turn-on as we moved in a rhythm that spelled SEXY. It didn't go any further but I enjoyed the fun while it lasted. I love seeing people dance whether it be as a couple, a group or solo. To me it is about the connection with the body and allowing our whole selves to be immersed in the the music and the energy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Dancing is sexy..... but that doesn't necessarily make dancers sexy to me. But as Merander eluded to..... someone who dances like they love it, whether they're any good at it (as assumed by others)..... does convey an attitude of fun and self-sufficiency.... and that can be sexy. DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Peachy, yes changing my name to better reflect who I am. I head out dancing 3-4 nights a week, so could say is a reasonable part of my life :) Plus I will admit that I'm much more attracted to a woman that can dance... There's certainly something to her having greater control in moving her hips ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    yep, unfortunately that does also happen. Many times I laugh with the women saying I'm more likely to have a better chance picking up than they do :p And with what's on offer, I certainly can see frustrations which is all the more fun to laugh at ;) Hey, I'm guessing it's the one place where guys can gain back sexual equality, as I find everywhere else (especially on here) that's it's lady's bidding :p

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Banned it for very good reason.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I've been dancing since I went to my first rave in Sydney at 16. I'm not interested in ballroom or latin, but I'm a great dancer to house and club music. Girls love it......some get intimidated by it, but most get wet because they know what's in store later!! Dancing is the vertical expression of a horizontal desire. I love expressing myself through dancing

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    there is something incredibly hot about guys who can dance !! Good lord they are a huge turn on for me !! That and guys who can play the guitar ! Drool - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Is very likely to be a naturally sensuous person but ultimately it all comes down to chemistry if you're looking for a great sensual experience with someone. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'VerticalDancer'Peachy, yes changing my name to better reflect who I am. I head out dancing 3-4 nights a week, so could say is a reasonable part of my life :) Plus I will admit that I'm much more attracted to a woman that can dance... There's certainly something to her having greater control in moving her hips ;)I'm not too sure I'm all that good at it sometimes but I try. Boot scooting was my last effort, lol. I think your new name has a daring edge, a nice twist, and it's suggestive as well . It suits you...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Dancing is sex with your cloths on. A good dancer is sexy because he/she will also be good in between the sheets, or against the hallway wall. Though there is much more than sexual attraction, to dance with a good dancer is joy in its own right, the story narrated without words is powerful and creates a deep and intimate connection. You know it will be fun, when as you stand ready waiting to start you look deep and see that shared eager need to move.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I am always a fan of watching a man dance, its either impressive or funny, so win win! But then, I am also a sucker (pardon the pun ;)) for very tall men. A combination of both, mmmmm.......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    But that doesn't stop me, don't care what people think ! Sometimes at the local the rock and roll crew take over the floor and most people retire to the bar, fuck that, if I'm in their way bad luck. Everybody needs a laugh !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Exactly!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Yep, I've found the most fun is in learning a new routine... laughing at each other's mistakes is a lot of fun... once the routine is learnt though it just becomes quite repetitive... Yep, laughing, dancing and a little clowning around... all my favourite things ;) Even more fun with a little spontaneity to surprise each other ;) Hmmm... now I forget if I was talking about dance or sex :p