RHP

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M57

Hairy bodies

March 21 2014

Ok girls I need to know. I have a condition called Addison's disease (which is not really a disease) but it just means I have to take cortisone every day like a diabetic has to take insulan. One of the side effects is an increased testosterone level (which is good for sex!) but it also increases my body hair. You could say I am quite hairy all over. A turn on or a turn off for you women as I would hate to undress infront of a date and have her curl her toes up and refuse to go any further because of what she sees. Suggest I break the news to her first?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    hairy like a bear? I love a hairy chest on a man, very masculine. Hairy arms and legs are nice, not so much backs and butts but it doesn't turn me off. There are options for hair removal if it bothers you that much. :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hair free or not too much hair ..... But in saying that I have had lovers that are quite hairy and it's not a turn off.... If the chemistry and connection is there then that's all that matters to me.... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    12 years ago

    Not into hairy men so a heads up would be just plain courtesy. Excessive hair scares the bejesus out of me, my issue. I wouldl be shocked and run out screaming like a banshee if I have this surprise and it will be traumatic for both of us. So where's the fun in that. But not all women are like me. Some women may like excessive hair on men. To avoid awkward situations why not make a trip to your beauty shop and have an IPL, a more permanent approach to hair removal. Not too painful and results last longer than waxing. A bit more costly but a regular trip may help out in minimising hair growth. Online shops like living social and groupon have regular IPL offers at 60-80% off. Take advantage of these offers and good luck.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'lilyorchid' Not into hairy men so a heads up would be just plain courtesy. Excessive hair scares the bejesus out of me, my issue. I wouldl be shocked and run out screaming like a banshee if I have this surprise and it will be traumatic for both of us. So where's the fun in that. But not all women are like me. Some women may like excessive hair on men. To avoid awkward situations why not make a trip to your beauty shop and have an IPL, a more permanent approach to hair removal. Not too painful and results last longer than waxing. A bit more costly but a regular trip may help out in minimising hair growth. Online shops like living social and groupon have regular IPL offers at 60-80% off. Take advantage of these offers and good luck. I don't go in telling people all my bad bits before I go. Example being the guy who was offended by the 'apron' on the woman he slept with. I don't imagine any woman would go in say, btw, guess what?? I have a third nipple, 6 toes, excessive moles, stretch marks, piles etc. Sure some of these may come up in conversation and if you shared pics, then I think whoever you are communicating with is going to get the gist that you have body hair and how much of it there is.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'ralf74' I don't go in telling people all my bad bits before I go. You don't say you've had any negative reactions to your hair, so why point it out? I'm not going to say "Oh yes, by the way, I have cellulite and spider veins, just so you know." But showing some pics before a meet could help, if only to make you feel more at ease about taking your kit off.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'lilyorchid' To avoid awkward situations why not make a trip to your beauty shop and have an IPL, a more permanent approach to hair removal. If I had posted the same forum about my cellulite, would you have advised me to get it removed too? In my opinion you're making it sound like there is something wrong with the OP, when there is not. What's undesirable to you, is a turn-on for others. There have been several threads about smooth vs hairy men, and many women love hairy blokes!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Some accept, some are repulsed and some are endeared.But critics abound.OP, you will find the right path, but only with the right people.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Thanks Ladies for all the comments, keep them coming. My situation is not quite as easy as it sounds! Now I know some of you women wont agree and wont bother chatting on here any more and that I understand but I am married and since our son was born 2.5 years ago our sex life has been nil. That is why I am looking for a discrete meet. So the topic of having waxing done or any otner hair removal would be too obvious. I am texting a lovely lady at the moment and hope to meet in the not too distant future for some raunchy times. I will just have to tell her beforehand so she is not suprised. I am not overly hair just moreso than your average man.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I love running my fingers down a mans chest/back feeling the texture of hair there. Hair on thighs tickles my face when I have my head buried down there. I say embrace it. It is a part of who you are. Unless it overly bothers you. If it bothers you then possibly talk to s beauty therapist. Make sure to tell them about your medication. But you really shouldn't change who you are to impress others. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    women are constantly being told we need to wax,loose weight,go to the gym yada,yada....so your dilemma OP is that if you wax or shave you wife is gonna wonder ? Q...grumps back into her cave

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Q if you read his profile you will see. And I love how he is happy for more than one girl at time....... got any sisters Q?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Meeka,but I do have an Auntie :-) :-) :-) :-) xxQ