RHP

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Has anyone had a gay friend of the opposite sex and thought,YEP I can turn them?

September 30 2017

I had a girlfriend that was 100% gay before we were together..then afterwards she went back to women lol maybe it says more about me than anything else - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Sometimes people try something different. because it is unknown or they are peer presured into what they think society should be or says. Yes even in this modern day. She may have found you as a trusted guy to see what is out there outside the world of 100 percent female gay. So in a way you helped out as a good friend to experiment her sexuality curiousity, but it kindah came at a cost. Hopefully you are still friends. Think of it as helping her in her sexual soul seeking journey.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    We were together for a couple of years - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Definitely not taking it personally,I agree that it was an experience for both of us. It was something that has happened to me so I thought I'd ask the question - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    8 years ago

    A Lesbian friend who l ended up playing with. First dick she ever had at 35 yrs of age.Guess l sold her on them. She ended up marrying a guy and has 3 children. Not sure if she still plays with women.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Lol that is a classic story 😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • cbdlivin

    cbdlivin

    8 years ago

    I was seeing a woman for a while, but you could say 80% orientated towards woman but like good hard cock on occasion, but she always had a female relationship on as well as she knew her orientation.

  • tylannister

    tylannister

    8 years ago

    One of my best friends in high school had a bad experience with her first boyfriend and didn't date at all through the rest of high school. A few of us thought she might be a lesbian, but didn't come out and ask her about it. When she did come out in college, we were all really happy for her and she seemed much more confident in her skin and her identity. She spent about 10 years in committed, long-term relationships with women, until after a break-up she decided she was craving dick and hooked up with a co-worker. She kinda never looked back after that. She dated a few guys, married one of them and now has two kids with him. I think she may still play with women, but she seems pretty happy with who she is now.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Sounds like you have the script for a great movie there lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Some people spend most of their lives straight and then turn gay so it's not unheard of for it to happen the other way round

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Slow clap for you buddy.. I was asking a question,not making a point mate - Posted from rhpmobile

  • tylannister

    tylannister

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'giddyup' Sounds like you have the script for a great movie there lol - Posted from rhpmobile If it were, it'd have been a cross between some angsty 90's grunge dramedy like 'Singles' and the Ashton Kutcher/Natalie Portman 'No Strings Attached', and I would have wound up with my friend in the end...which aside for a three month period in the summer of 1995 before she came out as gay...is not something I ever wanted.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Maybe don't pigeon hole everyone into a single sexuality. The spectrum is greater than just straight and gay. To an observer I am in a same sex committed relationship and prefer that when it comes to who i love and matters of the heart and it has always been that way since my teens. But behind closed doors in my private life who i share my bed with for fun, gender isn't an issue. I didn't sleep with a guy til i was 32. For my partner it was the other way around where she dated men until she was 30 and found she has same sex attraction in her 20's but came out at 30. Yet we play with any gender but we would be typically observed as lesbians. I used to embrace that label but the older i get... i realise that labels are for jars. I'm just me. Queer in the streets. Pansexual in the sheets. Love is love. Lust is lust. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I was only asking a question but thanks for your input x - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I had a lesbian couple as neighbours a few years back, one or the other would sometimes drop in to chat (we would look after one another's pets when we were away) and they would almost always drop it in how they like a bit of dick every now and then. I never allowed the conversation to go anywhere else, it's hard to describe but they were weird. I know it's every bloke's fantasy (way down the list for me, I'm honestly not fussed on the whole FFM thing) - if it were a slightly less batshit-crazy couple I'd probably offer my services.