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Has anyone met a co-worker or friend in a swingers club/orgy?any experiences or problems??
November 02 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
But I did discover a fellow staff member is on RHP. I also discovered one of the builders at school is also on here after a few conversations. Can't look either of them in the eye now lol. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Give us the goss...what happened..was it embarrassment all round,or a meeting of like minds,what happened the next time you saw them at work..?..spill da beans 😜xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
The good thing is that they wont be going into work and telling everyone,"guess who I ran into at the swingers club on the weekend?"
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RHP User
10 years ago
No. But I have been at a private event where one of the guys that turned up, basically knew the male half of the host couple through work. But they didn't initially find this out until the four of us that stayed later were chatting after play.
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RHP User
10 years ago
at Staints and Sinners in Melbourne........ And once you get over the initial embarrassment you realise you are each in the same situation, and the world goes on as "normal"
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RHP User
10 years ago
Did ya.... staple her pages? If ya know what im sayinDid ya.... fax her good? if ya get my driftDid ya.... clock in and clock out.....if ya know what I mean (semi obscure Whos Line Is It Anyway reference) lol Presumably she wasnt there solo, and went with a partner.... so how did that work out... and were you hopeful of a little non-work-time sexual harrassment?! (PErsonally, Id leave it alone)
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compressor
10 years ago
I have always wondered about that or even if your next door neighbor or someone you know is on this site. Surprise
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usnow
10 years ago
Willowtree , See that's the funny thing , some will do that because they just don't care .Some people will brag about what they do so you must be a little careful . Swingnew
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RHP User
10 years ago
did you shake hands??? Lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
My office was located near the tea room. Its amazing the things people talk about when their guard is down and think no one can hear them. Anyway, the tradies and the owner (who were all very hot btw) talked about what they got upto and who they were seeing and some of their sex exploits. It always put a smile on my face. My ears pricked up when I heard the owner talking about a swingers party he was planning on going to the following weekend. He mentioned the location and a few details. To my horror I realised it was the same private RHP party I was going to attend. After that I paid particular attention to the guys talking and managed to avoid bumping into him at several events. We were a close group at work but I didn't want to include swinging with my boss on my resume...lol LG
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RHP User
10 years ago
My sons soccer coach and his wife. After the initial "OMG" of recognition we had a good laugh because they would be the last ppl I would expect to swing, and they said the same about me. We became good friends and still are, but they havent been in the lifestyle for quite a few years.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Not quiet but after chatting to someone for almost a year swapping naughty pics and emails and because of our jobs never quiet managed to met because of our work and commitments . Both used fake names as you do. Fast forward 12 months and this man who worked in a different field walked in as my new Ceo. A few emails since confirmed we both know who each other is. I flirted for a little while but then realised that's just playing with fire. Now I am polite but totally avoid him. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I was at a swingers club chatting to a young couple. It was their first time and they were rather nervous. Suddenly they realised that her high school dance teacher was there. They had no idea how to handle it. Eventually she (the teacher) came over and said "Hi. Nice ti see you. No need to be embarrassed. We're both here and we're both adults. I hope you have a great night." They seemed a lot more relaxed after that. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Littleinnocentme
10 years ago
From primary school. ..he is married I am separated. ..talk almost every day. I love him to bits.... Its a great relationship xxx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I work behind the scenes in retail and have been in the same place for 20 years . For the first few years I worked on the shop floor and got to know many of our customers as it's the type of business that has loyal and regular customers A couple of years ago I was at my first NBO (nude bi orgy) traipsing around nude and ran into one of those regular customers!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I haven't gone to an event but when i first joined rhp i clicked on a profile to discover it was a family member! thankfully she has not said anything! nor has she viewed my profile (that i know of) i would be pretty embarrassed if i were to run into her at a future event (when we finally go to one) as for accidentally running into a friend at a event it wouldn't bother me as much. as for running into a co worker that would be absolutely humiliating in a sense! I work in a male dominant industry so the last thing i want is to be treated differently! (i'm being treated as equal for the first time since joining said industry)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Seem clients there laughed then he asked me to please his wife for hrs - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I haven't been in this situation myself (probably because I've never been to a swinger's club, haha) but I can't really see any drama coming out of it, given that to create said drama you'd have to pretty much out yourself in the process. I have seen a couple of colleagues and former colleagues on here - and as far as I'm concerned that's completely their business and none of mine, and I'm not going to make it awkward for them. If they made a pass at me on here I'd have to come clean right away about who I am, but I don't think I'm their type so it's hardly an issue, heh.
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JohnAnn2227
10 years ago
We were at Couples Club one night and I kept noticing a lady across the room and she kept looking back at me. In the spa later we met and started chatting and we both felt like we knew each other from somewhere. It turned out the we both work at neighbouring schools and had seen each other at staff development days but never actually met. We never played with her and her hubby but when I do run into her now we have a secret laugh together.We were at a house party which began in the afternoon as a nude pool party and there were about 30-40 couples there. We ran into John's parents' next door neighbours and also later on the sister of one John's mates. We had no idea either the neighbours or friend's sister were swingers. The neighbours gave us a laugh and we played the "imagine if.. " game but we were not worried about the friends sister as the last thing she would want is for her brother to find out what her and her husband were getting up to. My greatest fear is coming across parents from the school I work at. That would a major disaster!Ann & John
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RHP User
10 years ago
There's a couple of ladies (friends/friends of friends) that I would luv to come across there profile on this site or similar one. Ladies that I've always imagined what it would be like making them cum again n again. These girls (2) and I had mutual feelings and both knew it just by the look towards each other. But unfortunately she or me were involved with another during this amazing feeling. Well one day we will cross paths on these sites and that's when it's time to fuck like never b4.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Both times with people I know through work. We were newbies, not long into the scene, we were at a Swingers Spa night...I noticed her across the room and instead of hiding and being embarrassed I just plonked myself down at her table and said..."So what happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas". She agreed and we proceeded to chat on and off all night. Second time I was helping to arrange a M&G, going through the list of interested attendees...looked at the profile pic of a singe M, thought Hmmmm I recognise that face. Let him know who I was, as I didn't think it would be fair for him to rock up and freak out lol. In the end its worked out well, no change in the dynamic of the work relationship or how we relate to each other. As has been said previously, we are all in the same boat, living the same lifestyle...so to out me they would need to out themselves. Shaz
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xxXfuntimesXxx
10 years ago
2 lots of cousins (one from each side of the family) Old school friends x 2 Clients x 4 Co workers x 2 Neighbors from around the corner x 1 A good friend from a fitness group People working in the same building It's really not that bad. To use a couple of cliches, "we are all there for the same reason" and "what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas". It's a little awkward at first then a great laugh. It can be fun after comparing notes! We have never played with any of them though and definitely don't want to. If it happens stay cool, don't let it spoil your journey and remember the above cliches!
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Mctag9
10 years ago
Rocked up at a GB late and saw the wife of an old friend who I hadn't seen for years sitting on a cock and playing with another :) - Did the handshake thing and recognised friend sitting and watching..... Had a quiet word to make sure he didn't have an issue with me being there - He laughed and said don't tell his missus until we had played as he was worried it would spin her out ..... So after a playing we told her in the next break and she was laughing after the initial shock.... We left the GB together and went to another swingers party and later spent the night at their motel...... Was at Couples International in Brisbane @2003 and saw two couples who were neighbours from Tamworth come across each other!! Turns out they often have barbies at each others place. At a GB and one of the Ladies was the mother of one of the fella's ex-girlfriend a few years ago - They both had a laugh and played anyway..... It is a small world - especially in Perth!!! :)
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cbdlivin
10 years ago
Was part of a private GB with a very flexible woman and a couple of weeks later started a new contract and there she was, a senior manager at the company. She only had a slightly horrified look at seeing me, but she relaxed when I did not bring it up. B
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Skinnydippin
10 years ago
I headed to the Couples Club one Saturday night with female client of mine and her female friend. The 1st person we ran into was another one of my clients who works in a medical practice with a Dr from the practice, My clients had seen each other before at my place of work, after the initial awkwardness we all got together and played all night. the Monday at work was all smiles when we ran into each other.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I had a friend who was at a club and the owners had worked out some sort of game where all the guys sat in a musical chair system and the girls went around going down on the guys... Well at one point this lady is going down on him and she looks up to see its his Boss' receptionist. Then it looks over to her partner and its his boss! Her eye bulged at the recognition, he freaked out but tried to keep his cool, they ended up talking and it was all cool they even had a couple plays later on a couple and couple. So I guess the moral to the story is its taboo to talk about but if you are there, you are BOTH there so its time to relax and not feel judged! :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Littleinnocentme' From primary school. ..he is married I am separated. ..talk almost every day. I love him to bits.... Its a great relationship xxx - Posted from rhpmobile You gonna introduce me to this friend of yours? ;) Sounds like a top bloke.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Had organised to meet with a woman from a similar site to this, she told me she had a guy that she liked to make watch and clean her up afterwards and asked if I'd be ok with that. I said yes so we agreed to meet in a very secluded outdoors area. When she arrived she informed me the other guy couldn't make it but she had someone else she invited so this other guy walked over and turned out to be a guy that worked at the same place as me but in a different department. She made him strip and caged his cock then made him get on his knees and watch while I fingered her then she made him suck me till I was rock hard then he went down on her while she sucked me then she told him to keep going while I entered her from behind took a while but I eventually blew in her which she made him clean out then she reached into a bag and got a small strap on out.... She bent him over made him suck me clean then took him from behind after that she uncaged him and let him wank onto her tits which she also made him lick off her he left and she and I had another session then went home.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yup My sister !!! We both thought WTF, then pretended we didn't know each other - Posted from rhpmobile
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ExTECpl
10 years ago
Well johnann2227, we have had that very thing happen with one of our daughters high school teachers. We played with a couple at a party and a month or two later Mrs ExTECpl was at the school assembly when she saw the female of the couple across the room. She went over and said hello, turned out it was one of our daughters teachers! A few weeks later our daughter nervously gave us a note from her teacher. It was innocent enough but along the lines of OMG! Let's catch up sometime. We've also heard of a co-worker of a host turning up at one of the parties they ran. - Posted from rhpmobile
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JohnAnn2227
10 years ago
We recently were at Couples Club and we were approached while changing by a lady and her partner. She said "Hello Mrs %^&*() do you remember me? I looked and vaguely recognised her. She went on to tell me that she was the mother of a girl that I had taught in Kindergarten 10 years before!!!!!! I freaked! I didn't know what to say. I looked at her partner and didn't recognise him at all. She told me this was her new husband. We eventually laughed it all off and had a few drinks before hopping in the spa together. We eventually swapped partners but I didn't have girl play with her as that just seemed a bit too much yet. We have seen each other since a number of times and everything is fine.Life can be very exciting!
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RHP User
10 years ago
When i had my couple profile i did..... Whilst at work one afternoon having beers and laughs with the boys and boss's i was a little cheeky towards one of my boss's at the time we both ayed on it a bit he then told me he had something on me took me into the office opened up his laptop then proceeded to the Rhp site and pulled up our old profile!! Awkward yes but many laughs had needless to say we both kept it quite a work as we now had a little something on each other after going home that night telling my partner at the time she was a little embarrassed but then saw the funny side we checked our profile and noticed the boss had been checking our profile quite regularly in saying that though neither of us took it any further. In this lifestyle at some point we are all bound to cross paths with someone we know it just the law of nature.....
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RHP User
10 years ago
omg has anyone had a 'celebrity' moment lol I had this man do a double take, thinking he knew me, he was convinced, rattled off a couple of places he thought he must have met me, never seen him before in my life and never been to those places. Guess where he would have seen me before? So zero discretion because he didn't make the connection, but it was the same as when you see a famous person, you think you know them, that's happened to me before. So everyone around heard what he was saying. God, maybe I should take my face pictures off
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm a nurse, and put 2 n 2 together on my workmates Facebook page questioning how she goes to so many dress up parties. Non other then swinger clubs regularly holding these events, anyway to cut the storie short I go with them, we don't play but, we always have time for a giggle at work and to share a storie about the night before. On the first night we attended together, I bumped into one of the Drs, and besides dropping n smashing my drink in shock, it was all okey, maybe it was his leather getup not actually him being their, any way we played, and occasionally do still. At the end of the day we're all their for the same thing so embrace it and try not to be embarrassed x - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
has not happened to me yet but im not worried about it i got told once i was really brave for putting my face and cock on a website i was like why ? if anyone sees it that i know , what are they going to say ? omg i saw your dick on a swingers website ! oh really ? so whats your user name? only paid members can see R rated images yeah its not going to happen now is it , they would be outing themselves more than me discretion is a natural part of the community also
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RHP User
9 years ago
A couple who i met on here had played around with my cousin although we were never in the ame place at the same time and a guy who worked with my dad was friends with this couple too
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RHP User
9 years ago
Yes we have bumped into Mrs Adelaides patients at a swingers party in Darwin, no play ensued.Darwin was very small for swinging i've known quite a few of the people at parties from living there for so long, no issues though as if we think there may be we simply don't play with those people.
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RHP User
9 years ago
In three years I have never met anyone from work. I've met 2 people I knew years before, but didn't care. We are all in the same place, right!? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Went to a swingers club in Sydney, was chatting to a younger woman and took her off to a room spent a good while in there with her when we came back out we had a shower and went back to the cruise area where she introduced me to a supervisor of a different section at my work.... She told him how he needs to learn my oral technique or she is inviting me over on a weekly basis haha he smiled and sort of gave a I'm going to kill you laugh/snort. We told her that we worked together and the colour drained from her face. I assured them that it would never get back to work from me... They thanked me and said the same. Never got properly invited to their house for my weekly visit though haha
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RHP User
9 years ago
A female friend and I went to a swingers night a few years ago. After a few drinks and the action commenced and things got really hot. During the party my friend and I had swapped with one couple and then moved onto another. The woman was hot in more ways than one (very attractive and very horny) so I spent the most of the rest of the party with her. It was fantastic night. Three weeks later I put on a night for my employees and their partners in recognition for all their hard work in landing a big contract. I had been called out of the room to take a phone call and on walking back in there was Tony my number one employee arriving with his beautiful wife. I thought that she was going to pass out when he introduced her to me. She was totally speechless. I got the opportunity to catch up with her later in the evening and she was so pleased that i did not let on that we had met. As fate would have it, I met her again at another swingers party two months later when Tony was away on business. Damn she was good.
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RHP User
9 years ago
So this guy off RHP messaged me for a threesome with his wife as she loved big cocks ...We exchanged few emails on here and then he asked for face pics....I said lets exchange face pics on personal email and continue chatting there...Anyways he asked for dozen more cock shots/videos before he asked me to send my face pics...I wasn't sure as they both were Indians and I was Indian too and the Indian community here is small...So I said lets meet up face to face without exchanging face pics and we planned a meeting 2 weekends after as he was in process of changing jobs...In the meanwhile this new Indian guy joined my work and I was to mentor him....As his work email address wasn't ready and he wanted some work notes sent to him, he gave me his personal email address. The moment he gave me the email address I realized it is the same couple from RHP....I was shocked!! lol....Long story short - I blocked him on emails after sending a short email saying I am not keen to play due to some unrelated reasons...I did curse myself a lot when I saw his hot wife at work parties later though....lol..But its better this way....
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