M56
Hatchet Job
November 03 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
Just recently i fired a canon at a posting thinking it was attacking my lifestyle and choices, turns out it was more like a box of fluffy kittens just wanting a glass of milk BANG!!!! The canon was fired, kittens everywhere. Then it does'nt take long for your comrades in sex to start screaming Wooooo sorentto.. There are a lot of people on here that wish they could take stuff back, And you've had some great input too. We need our canons but just maybe with the safety on
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RHP User
16 years ago
Mate... I've often pleaded for a delete or edit button. Sometimes the things I say dont come out the way I meant.. and sometimes the things I say I really regret. The bit in bold that says "Please do not post anything that defames or villifies" just above the part we fill in.... I can often smack myself for not taking any notice of it... and we all have buttons that when pushed, we respond passionately.. which I suppose makes for a good read so far as spectators are concerned but can ruin the experience for those involved... and sometimes drive people away... and that would be a shame. HUgs Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
SHOULD say... vilifies...Drive??? I've got a car...
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RHP User
16 years ago
These forums can get carried away, sometimes I feel like every one is against me, other times I give it as good as I get. I don't know the in and outs of the post of which you speak, but any one who posts a public apology like you have done is a pretty good guy in my book!!! lovebittenxoxoxox
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RHP User
16 years ago
Lol Mrs P..... the word "vilify" is spelled "Villifies" by RHP.... (IM not even sure "villifies" is even a word) so all I did was cut and paste... and I got a gold star for cut and paste! Hugs Gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
The sentence mentioned by Gaz where RHP says, 'Please do not post anything that defames or villifies.' SHOULD say... 'Please do not post anything that defames or vilifies.'
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RHP User
16 years ago
sometimes in here...people forget that it's usually the subject they are upset at...not the person talking about it.Some people tend to make personal attacks....which to me says much about the type of person they are.But sometimes....we all get a little hot under the collar...myself included....and say things I really shouldn't....for they only demean ME....not the person bearing the brunt of them.I always try to speak my mind....but in a positive and uplifting way.Sometimes that's just not possible....if the person you are trying to talk to refuses to listen or let it go.I too wish there was a delete button....'tis indeed cringe-worthy to go back and read something you have written when you have let anger and nastiness take control of your fingers.All i can hope for is that i learn the lessons the world shows me each day....and become a better person.Can we have a group hug now?? (feel free to grope my ass!!)Just my opinion...BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
I wonder have abusive you have to get before they do something? i'll run a little test.'' HEY YOU BUNCH SUCK MY HEAD MOTHER YOU THINK YOUR SO HOT BUT YOU ARE A FACE '' lets see what they do about that.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey they stole my words !!
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RHP User
16 years ago
BadBadDog, I think your a champ for getting back on here and voicing your apology for all to read - it shows true heart, humility and courage!MissBJ - you are truly a wise head on sexy shoulders! You are totally right when you say the anger or passion should I say is aimed at the topic, not the person. I'm all for the group hug, and you can certainly grope my ass any day hun! mwahMany times have all of us said or written something that is unfair or untruthful about someone.My father once told me "Our mouth is like a weapon, once the trigger has been pulled, like a bullet from a gun aimed at someones heart, words can never be unspoken. If your aim is true there is nothing you can do!"... Or something like that :)Anyways new to RHP so in need of some friends ppl!Love and hugs passionateman_99 xxxoooxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
The sooner people stop making/taking the forums personally, the more enjoyable it would be for EVERYONE.
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RHP User
16 years ago
There is no way EVERYONE is going to be happy cos that is just not human nature...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Does anyone know what happened to SalAndy - I used to love reading their contributions to the forums?? BadBadDog - I am impressed....Trev and I often read the forums and then cringe over what is said / asked....if I have learnt anything in my lifetime it is that perception is reality. Meaning it doesn't matter what your intentions are how the receiver perceives the comment / action is their reality and thats all that counts. A public apology - my hat ummm I mean undies off to you! Can we get in on that group hug - although after the weekends antics Trev will just take all his clothes off. K.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Wow Mrs trev, if that's what it takes to get your undies off!Which pub do you guys frequent, I'll start an argument and then publically apologise. See if I can get a peak under those cute panties! :P
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think this post would have been better served with a different heading... imho...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Along with that edit and delete button, jeez I'd like the Block feature to work in the forums too. Last time I tried, even though I had someone blocked I could still see all their posts. Pity, cos everything they say reeeeeeaalllly annoys me and I'd prefer to not see their responses rather than constantly have to bite my tongue. Oh well, c'est la vie. T.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'gazpacho41'Some days I just can't wait for tomorrow to come so I can put it all behind me!I know jusssst what you want behind you lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
sydneyboy3au.. lmfao... I suppose sweetpetite has been blabbing about me again.. hehe... Damb her and that double ender.. lolz. Hugs Gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
The thing alot of people forget is that in non-personal communications mediums such as SMS, Email and forums, the intended inflection and tone originally intended for a message is easily lost or not conveyed in a manner which some will clearly understand. It's easy to lose the intent of a message which is often easily conveyed through the spoken word. As such any message in such a medium should never be taken too seriously.My opinion.Mr FF.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Any props to BBD for the public hatchet burying.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well i truely hope i have not hurt you! I Will Warn one and all tho ... i say whats on my mind... i think i have really only responded to one or two.. but if i Offend anyone that is not my intention! I really hope not to offend anyone.. but i stick up for my views..! Best of luck to you hunni~ muah :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Bad dog what have you done? Must have been a storm in a tea cup, I missed it completely!
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RHP User
16 years ago
...BadBadDog, you are a true example for me, of the following:For things to be different, I need to be differentFor things to change, I need to change.Excellent work, give yourself a pat on the back
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well some of your here know about my experience not long ago....I hung my head in shame and messaged all my friends in private....2 weeks of tears..and the care of my friends has kept me here. Badbaddog....love ya babe xoxooxoxoxoxoxooxoxox Love to all my friends here who still love me after my stupid screw up. xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxxo err is human to forgive is devine. LOVE LOVE LOVE P.S ..Gaz.thankyou for your message to me on the weekend...mwa babe....ohhh...and since I adore ya..my dble ender is lubed up ready......bend over darlin...mmmmmmmmm sweetpetite41 xxxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
I was taught to apologise to the people that you hurt first not the people that witnessed it. I think the witnesses are more interested in the conflict resolution and that there will be no further reoccurences then an apology. If it is personal you deal with it personally, not bring it in here again. Avoidance of the real issue, will make this insincere to those hurt, and seem like a very selfish attempt of clever butt covering, with no regard for the way they feel. Everyone involved needs to be heard. Conflict resolution is about, discussing it with the people involved, often the conflict is a misunderstanding and sorted out quickly and everyone gets back to being happy again. Burying heads in the sand and not dealing with what occurred, just leaves it festering, to rear its ugly head later and usually bigger then before. Attempts to rectify this situation have been offered to you several times, and rejected each time. I think your kudos have been given prematurely Dog, the situation should be rectified, before an announcement can be made. There is never one casualty of war. So how about you take it away from here and sort it out, privately as you said you would do, and we can all get back to having some fun in here. My thoughts. xx Miss Honey xx <<< revs up her Kanga and off to work
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RHP User
16 years ago
Every time someone types thier message' theres a clear statement above the box they type in from RHP.. it reads ... quote' ' Please do not post anything that defames or villifies. Cant be much clearer than that can it ? Its true'... If you cant say something good then its best you say nothing at all. Some have tryed to bait us into a reaction to a post some time back.. We wont be drawn... its just too petty so why bother. ? There is a clear difference between a response that promotes some helpfull feedback compared to those just wanting to beat thier chest. Live and let live... a old saying.. but true.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting justjuice: ' Please do not post anything that defames or villifies. Cant be much clearer than that can it ? Its true'... If you cant say something good then its best you say nothing at all. justjuice M 51yrs F 44yrs Penshurst Oct 04, 2009 Quoting justjuice from another thread: Gazza.. Maybe ur too old...Gazza' I didnt read your profile before I wrote this so I can only guess you might be a old 48 years of age. As for you checking our profile to see 'my handsome man'... we keep our face pics in our PG which we only release to those who we choose' and not for the whole world to see .As for our criterea for male and age.. well' thats our choice ... We would much rather a sexy couple or sensual girl' before a single male so if we are going to include a male (straight ) and not be bombarded with the dic pic brigade.. we state what we want. And NO Gazza.... my man is not too old for sex... but sadly I think you might be. Quoting justjuice: Some have tryed to bait us into a reaction to a post some time back.. Yeah, that's right, I remember posting several times on that thread suggesting you apologise which you never did.It's all about perspective ain't it!Speaking for myself... Mrs P
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RHP User
16 years ago
bit surprised to see you here justjuice... seeing that people had to jump in to defend me from your nastiness on the post in question...
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RHP User
16 years ago
...there's nothing to see here!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm from that race in Star Wars 3 that has complete resistance to the force... FRIEND :-PYes you're right Sophie, I can't believe I managed to forget that! Aaahhh well, looks like age does have it's advantages after all... :-Deb
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RHP User
16 years ago
lmfao... Casualsexboy is one funny young fukr... hehe. Cute bum too. Hugs Gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
sigh....................................................
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RHP User
16 years ago
funny haha... seriously.
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RHP User
16 years ago
sorry casualsexboy... you're absolutely right... but hypocritical comments annoy me no end...my fingers itch and I can't control them.... gaz is right... you're funny and cute... gaz and I agree on everything... well... almost... lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
How did one forum end up being part of this one...must say it keeps me amused and constantly checking for the update Casualsexboy - I could tell you which pubs we frequent but then I would have to kill you and hope you have been nominated in the best butt forum...just going to check! K.
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RHP User
16 years ago
For those of who sit on your high horses with your holier than though attitudes, dragging old shit up, not letting things go and taking this all way too seriously, really, can't we all just MOVE ALONG? I am so sick of some members thinking they are the moral bloody police in here, dictators of what they believe is right and wrong, what spelling, grammar, opinions and in this case, apologies are acceptable, and pulling people up left, right and centre. Honestly sometimes it makes me wanna puke, with the few of you who feel it necessary to not live and let live. Please RHP, make the Block feature that we all love so much work in the forums too. Trixie.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Imagine if you could block others from your forum posts! All you buggas would block me and it would feel like I was in my own private forum... asking questions and then answering... flirting with myself.... all lonely... sitting in here.... rhp would dim the lights to save electricity in my section. :( .... Talking to myself... I'd end up like Tom Hanks talking to a basketball named Wilson. Startun ta feel that way already. Hugs self Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
lol, thanks for the compliment, but save me the bad news of coming below you - I'm a bad loser! Go on, share your favourite pub with me, I would be game for a drink with you guys.I'd reply to Gaz, but I've blocked his posts!I don't know what it was you did BBD, but kudos to you for publically apologising.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Trixie' Well said.. enough said.
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RHP User
16 years ago
A block feature in the forum! Moderation for the masses. I love it! I'll just read the posts by people that agree with me and ignore the possibility the others might have something of value to say in the future. It would also give me the opportunity to ignore the goads of nasties who bring up blasts from the past from their own special viewpoint, without the intent of attempting any sort of conflict resolution.I can't say my sense of humour is top notch every day and I'd like to say a random thnx for reminding me of what a saving grace it can be when I allow it ;-)Lol Gaz, heaps of people talk to you every day in the forums and as much as I hate to correct people considering I know I should just keep letting them make their own mistakes until they learn better all by theirselves, rather than take the chance of offending anyone... but... Wilson... was... a volleyball :-*Have a great day all!... Mrs P :-PPS: I agree with Miss Honey that conflict resolution IS a wonderful thing... I have a board game based on it. One of the ways to score bonus points is to introduce ideas that support what the other teams is saying. The goal is to resolve conflict in a mutually beneficial way that leaves both parties in a win situation.
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RHP User
16 years ago
You've got me slightly wrong on the blocking thing Mrs Peachypearz. I love good debate and discussion, even if I am not participating in it. That's why I come into these forums. My desire for the block feature is not so I can ignore those people who disagree with my opinion, but rather so I can ignore those people who annoy the shit out of me. I just don't see why a feature that we all love using in the chatrooms can't extend into the forums. *shrug. On the subject of moderation, any form of moderation or censorship is 'moderation for the masses', and unfortunately it's usually instigated by the minority. Good on you BadBadDog for apologising the way you did. Trixie.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Trix, Im not sure what you mean about censorship being instigated by the minority. The moderator is Rhp staff isn't it? I mean there is no democrasy on this site. They're dictators so far as what is and isn't acceptable on the forum. Hugs Gaz
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tamworthguy46
16 years ago
Re Gaza's reference to Wilson the Basket ball....Thank you mrs P....for pointing out that Wilson was actually a volley ball....I think what gaz meant was that, Wilson was actually a Basket ball traped in a voley Balls body, Wilson was actually on the way to the ball change factory at the time of hollywood plane crash....to get ready for his new documentry- reality show.... "Something about Wilson" Just though i better clear that up ! Tam
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RHP User
16 years ago
I had no idea you were so deeply into balls Tammy. You continue to thrill me with your versatility! :p Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'gazpacho41'Imagine if you could block others from your forum posts! All you buggas would block me and it would feel like I was in my own private forum... asking questions and then answering... flirting with myself.... all lonely... sitting in here.... rhp would dim the lights to save electricity in my section. :( .... Talking to myself... I'd end up like Tom Hanks talking to a basketball named Wilson. Startun ta feel that way already. Hugs self Gaz Awwwwwwww Gaz... I would still talk to you....esp with such a cute bum pic in your profile . Naughty Geoff.
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RHP User
16 years ago
after following your wise words about apologising to the people that you hurt and being completely ignored... oh well, I'll have to be satisfied that at least I tried... Mrs P Quoting 'xxmiss_honeyxx' I was taught to apologise to the people that you hurt first not the people that witnessed it. I think the witnesses are more interested in the conflict resolution and that there will be no further reoccurences then an apology. If it is personal you deal with it personally, not bring it in here again. Avoidance of the real issue, will make this insincere to those hurt, and seem like a very selfish attempt of clever butt covering, with no regard for the way they feel. Everyone involved needs to be heard. Conflict resolution is about, discussing it with the people involved, often the conflict is a misunderstanding and sorted out quickly and everyone gets back to being happy again. Burying heads in the sand and not dealing with what occurred, just leaves it festering, to rear its ugly head later and usually bigger then before. Attempts to rectify this situation have been offered to you several times, and rejected each time. I think your kudos have been given prematurely Dog, the situation should be rectified, before an announcement can be made. There is never one casualty of war. So how about you take it away from here and sort it out, privately as you said you would do, and we can all get back to having some fun in here. My thoughts. xx Miss Honey xx <<< revs up her Kanga and off to work
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RHP User
16 years ago
for making assumptions about you and your motives... I'm glad you've continued to post in the forums tho I have yet to see a return of the previous good humour you shared with us and I do miss it.Lastly, oh yes I have learned and doubt that I will need to try hard to remember my lesson in future.Humble hugs... Mrs P'
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RHP User
16 years ago
No need to apologise peachy....but thanks for the sentiment..... Yes I still post but I am much more guarded about what I say.....and to whom. The sense of humour is still there. You'll see. lol Xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
but I would like to add that I only did what I thought was the right thing when I posted my apology I almost stopped posting myself, but with my mind working more clearly and reliably atm, I know my posts, like yours, would be dearly missed! (Thanks to the friends that have shared that sentiment with me :-*) It's the variety of different opinions that make these forums what they are... everybody sees things differently and a person might be entitled to think that it would make sense to respect and appreciate that... we are always learning and lessons can come from the most unexpected sources I'll anticipate your return of good humour in the future with great pleasure lol! Cheers, hugs n kissesMrs Peachy'z xoxoxo
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RHP User
16 years ago
Peachypearz and Sophie_74. Im so sorry you still harbor such ill feelings. What Gazz had to say was his opinion and what Mrs JJ replied in turn was her opinion. It is a forum... if you cant dissagree with someone's opinion once in awhile what the point ?? Gazz in his wisdom seems to be big enough to accept the difference in opinion and from what I see has moved on completely. ? Reading Gazz posts from time to time Im sure he would'nt have any trouble dealing with what was or wasnt said on a particular subject anyway... What I (Mr JJ) took exception to was the abuse aimed at Mrs JJ for not agreeing with someone you obviously admire. IT IS A FORUM for everyone' for god's sake not just for a selected few who think its their roll to become the forum police and then demand apoligys when it doesnt suit. ? Gazz has moved on.. we have moved on ... Merry Xmas Yours Truly.. Mr Justjuice
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RHP User
16 years ago
RE; let's put it to rest re: http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Couples-who-likes-She-and-not-He-25043I would like to point out to those reading this thread or the thread mentioned by Mr justjuice in his last post...... that Mr Peachpearz has nothing whatsoever to do with the posts Mr justjuice mentioned above, something I have made sure Mr justjuice knows which he chooses to disrespect by ignoring the fact every time he uses our Peachpearz profile name when he is speaking to me, Mrs Peachypearz!Mrs P' luvs Mr P' 4eva!!!
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