Hate to say it but ....... im intimidated by some of the women

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  I think there's this attitude that people who use dating sites are desperate, will do anyone who comes along, are more likely to have STDs, have some kinda hang-up about meeting people in real life, are very sexually experienced... There are probably heaps more judgments people make about dating sites, and most of them aren't true. The people on here are likely to be the same types of people you run into in real life. Lots of them probably haven't done half the things they joined up to try. Before we joined, I never thought we were the sort of people who'd use a dating site. So you will, just like in real life, bump into the slut, the exaggerater, the one who seems shy but has done half the people around... It's just harder to pick. And yes, most people lie on their profile. Sometimes they don't mean to, sometimes they do. Anyway, you can't tell much about someone from that short profile, so get in contact with people and start chatting!

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  I think that many are just far more relaxed and unprudish,but yes many are pretenders and the chat room shows this. Many women these days know what they want and how to get it !!!!!!

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  some profiles say exactly who they are and others do exaggerate to get more attention... as brissy said it's hard to know who they are unless u meet or chat to them in person ... even chatting to ppl in the chat room can b misleading... some ppl say they are nice in their profiles but are truly nasty in real life... i've organized a couple of meets... 2 in brisbane and i am currently organizing my second toowoomba meet... ur welcome to attend if u like to meet some of the ppl who do chat really meet ppl that are also those ppl who say they will meet and stand u up... that's the chances u take with dating sites... blind dates are so random... more chance at meeting ppl at the meet that are organized... if u like the person in the profile or the sound of their profile then send them a message or a flirt to let them know that u are interested... P.S... what i say on my profile about myself is true by the way... u can ask many ppl who have met me in person... anyhow... hope u have some luck... Cheers Pinky

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  yep sunnee you summed up my experiences so far as well. I figure to just stick with it and see what happens. Good luck mate.

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  I can vouch for pinky. She is who she says she is. How are ya mate... got a diferent name now but when i met you i was fastbikerider.... I never felt intimidated by the women on this site because they never responded to any mail I sent.... thems the brakes I suppose.... cyas

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  I totally agree with brissy_twosome! People are just people. Those online are part of a mixed bag - just like 'in real life'. There's no 'magic' about meeting someone online. It's just as time-consuming and potentially tragic as dating usually is! The only difference is, you get some idea of who people are before you meet them and are privy to some sexual info about them. I agree about some of the seemily sex-crazed sorts on here though! They kinda scare me too. I mean sure, I love sex but I'm not a porn star 24/7 who'll do anyone anytime - I'm just a regular person. lol On a slightly differently but related point, I think there's an assumption that people who join up to RHP and other dating sites know everything they are and know everything they want - but if that were true, they'd be super human. ;) So my policy is to be forgiving about it. People may or may not be exactly what their profiles describe them to be. It's all subjective - but hey, that's life. Another thing is that people seem to be constantly defensive about 'nonsense' behaviour on here I've noticed. People complaining about certain people not living up to their profiles or not being 'real' because they didn't put out or whatever. I really think we all need to be more forgiving about that. As brissy says, lots of people don't have that much experience and it's not unusual that they may chicken out, or panic and go silent, or cease correspondence after a mail or 2. That said, maybe after some correspondence they didn't think it'd work out for whatever reason - and they're perfectly within their rights to call it off. Anyhow, as someone who's been on here for a while, been stood up, been email ping-ponged to death, been flamed, been used as a swingers info line, met people only to find we're just somehow incompatible, I say it's a numbers game for everyone and we all have to remember that people are just people and we all have our flaws. If we don't get bitter and give up (and aren't utterly horrible), we'll probably find some compatible people eventually! - I do find them btw but the negative experiences are so much more interesting a read. haha :P

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  RHP User

  17 years ago

  This is a dating site genius, if you don't like it don't join. People only join these places for one reason it's obvious.

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  RHP User

  17 years ago

  On two occassions I have had partners insert a hand into thier vaginas and I have to admit it was a real turn on. I dont know why it just was perhapse that makes me a sico. It had no long term effects on their tightness what so ever. All I can say is that it was hot and I was very appreaciative that they did it for me. I believe they enjoyed the experiance aswell.

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