M40

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September 19 2014

Ok guys, I've been wanting to change my profile for a while now, as I don't really think that it does me any good, because striking up conversation with girls (or whoever) on here is rather difficult. It's always hard to get either a reply, or if I do it's generally a no thanks. Now, I might not be gods gift to women, but when I meet new women out and about, I generally do far better, whether it be just having a good conversation, or going a bit further. Anyway, where should I start to make it better, and what are the do's and don't's to getting a good profile set up. Any thoughts or suggestions would be greatly appreciated! Be as mean or critical as you like too btw, I'm a big kid and can handle it! Lol Cheers... Matt - Posted from rhpmobile

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Hottie1

11 years ago

I like your profile and any comments we put here are because we have seen your profile through the lens of our own experience, please remember that! I would start with Hi I'm Matt and people say I'm the life of the party ..... I would skip the bits in between. You are mostly confident in your descriptions of your self which is sexy. When it comes to your sexual prowess you start with ' I suppose' , not so confident. I would change that. Photos are fun and friendly and supports your description but what I did notice you have alcohol in your hands in each photo, that wouldn't appeal to me, but I'm not your target audience either. All the best, Mary xx

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RHP User

11 years ago

A couple of things I noticed about your Profile : Too many pics of you and beer . Although many of us like a drink , pictures of grog consumption may not been seen as an attractive trait . Also , call me nuts , but Typos and spelling mistakes really stand out to me . On your second line , you say " my mane is ..." . Sometimes , the smallest error may make people look elsewhere . Best of Luck & Happy Hunting . GG♒️

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RHP User

11 years ago

Nothing wrong with your profile. You're just in the wrong state. Come to SA ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

Is you maybe targeting my poor old granny. Really , 90 years old ? - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

Beer,life and soul of the party....beer,beer,and more beer...typos speeeling mistakes...weird comment about what happens in RHP world....BUT,you are a good looking bloke Matt and if you are meeting women in real life,why worry about here? xxQ

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RHP User

11 years ago

Ok, thanks for the input guys, any more from anyone is welcome too! So I should change my pics, which will be a little difficult, because the only pics anyone takes of me is at parties etc! Lol. I'll make sure there isn't a single spelling mistake at all, and change some wording around a little. I think a little more straight to the point and less ramble would be better too? Cheers!! - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

My immediate thought was...He's a cool guy - cheeky, good looking, adventurous, honest & fun... BUT..Also young, kaddish & bohemian... Maybe its all the pics of beer & combi's (as others have said). I like this fun & carefree vibe,, but I feel many older women would be put off by it, or else feel intimidated by the alternative lifestyle. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

you look like an alcoholic, other than that, your profile reads fine but I didn't finish it as it was a bit long winded for me.

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RHP User

11 years ago

Brave man for putting the question out there... but kudos for doing so. Hopefully the responses you receive will be as constructive and kind as the ones you've got so far :). Your photos... I have to say that I didn't notice the beers in almost all of them until I read the comments From the others. What the hell does that say about me lol!? What I did notice is that they showed you in a few different situations, gave an indication that you don't take yourself too seriously, and that you seem like a fun, friendly guy. I also liked that you didn't have any cock shots in your public gallery - big tick! If you have them in your PG, great... that's where they belong :) Profile... I love that you've obviously put some time and effort into it. Template profiles are an instant turn off. For me personally however, I found it was too long. Just shorten each section up a bit. Other than that, I don't have any more advice that the others haven't given you already :). But I have to agree with Qefenta... if you're having success IRL, why are you here:)? Much love, Mickelle

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MissBishere

11 years ago

As others have mentioned the beer really does stand out in your pics and the spelling mistake. I thought it was well written what I read of it but I didn't read it all as it was to long. Good luck and welcome to the forums. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

I know how ya feel man but at the end of the day a profile is not everything send messages to girls say hi and a bit about ur aelf and ur pictures are grand with the drink im irish and every one thinks at first im a alcoholic but its not my fault we got vodka instead of milk as a kid ha ha ha so keep the head up lad just keep talking to girls - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

You look lovely and I get a clear picture of who you are and what you like. You come across as having a s.o.h. and like a carefree life but still have a foot in reality. If people aren't going for you based on your profile, they must be looking for something different. And why would you want to attract those who aren't looking for you anyway? By the way, if you're down this way. ......; p - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

Take of the ones that have other people in the frame. You need their permission to be on rhp. Next time your with a woman ask her to take some with your phone. You do not need cock shots. Reason being if I meet you, I can always validate that for ya.....just tricking ;)

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Tall74nHard9

11 years ago

Quoting 'tallguykiw' Is you maybe targeting my poor old granny. Really , 90 years old ? - Posted from rhpmobile How do you know your granny is on site ??????

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RHP User

11 years ago

I agree, though, lose the beginning and go from the life of the party stuff. I like your pics. I think, The messages you send are just as important as your profile. Make sure you read profiles well before sending a message and really try to engage on a personal level. You can use a template but make sure you tweak each message a bit to make it more personal. I'm not doing meets but if I was the only reason I'd send you a "thanks but no thanks" reply would be your age as you're under my preferred age range. You're adorable. Good luck! - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

11 years ago

Thanks for all the input ladies and gents! I'll start finding some other pics and re write my profile, keeping it shorter and more to the point. Pretty much still want to let people know that I'm easy going, care free and don't take things too seriously, though still having my shit together! Lol. And as for people asking why I'm in here, well I don't really have too much time to go out that much anymore, and this sea like a good way to meet new people, and as it turns out, it's a bit if a challenge it seems! There's a lot if good people on here, and I want to meet as many of them as I can, even if it's just as friends, there's just a few idiots on here too that seem to ruin it for the rest of us from time to time. :( Anyway, I'll get to it! Matt - Posted from rhpmobile

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