Have you ever asked for feedback after play?

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  .......but i've never been asked!

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  Paradisepair

  13 years ago

  Went a bit pearshaped, as I've heard they do, we asked and the reply was honest and practical and helped us get back on the horse. As for asking for technical feedback, we gauge it at the time, if they are moaning you are doing it right :-P

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Quoting 'Paradisepair' ...if they are moaning you are doing it right...Amen!Never asked or been asked, nor thought that others would actually - so I found this an interesting topic.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  If they ask to see us again (or we ask to see them again) and we all agree...I think thats a grade A pass...;-) After all....you wouldn't go back for seconds if you were not even satisfied the first time. :-)

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Told him in no uncertain terms why he would never get a rerun. He took it well, considering. I just assume that if a guy doesn't ask for seconds from me, that it wasn't good for him, or he's just a wombat!

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Yes sometimes I will ask during play time. Is this good for you?, harder/slower/softer, etc. Come to think of it I have asked afterwards too if their was things I could do differently etc. No shame in doing that. :D

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  wingman2014

  13 years ago

  I got to play with a very special RHP member after an obviously strong mental and phyiscal connection .Everything pointed to a potentially mind blowing playtime. What a disaster It was nothing as we had expected...no spark at all. I decided to just rack it up to being part of the learning curve, and forget about her. a few months later i bumped into her through work and out of curiosity i asked her what she thought went wrong? We sat down and honestly opened up about our expectations on the day and where we could improve things if we tried again.....so glad I did ask . We have recently tried again and it is absolutely the most intense passionate sex of my life.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  get asked is that ok? do u like that? to hard kind of thing. If asked I will always give an honest answer as nicely as I can. Ill ask if they want me to do something or if they like what Im doing but I don't ask after wards. I think if they come back for more they must have liked it Mrs B

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I'd rather not formally ask, all sounds a bit too serious to me. It's not like a competitive sport or an olympic event. Or is it?

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I have of late, given feedback when the person wanted to meet me again.   One man was really good about it and said thanks for the feedback, the other I can hear crickets curping.   As for me, well nobody has told me after the event if I was good or bad in the sack.   I was no good at school so hate to get a Fail on my fuck card as well.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Yes, I can just imagine the morning-after text: 'Do I get an A for my performance last night??' Hahahaha. Surely you can tell during the moment, and if not, asking what they like and how they like it can't get you wrong. And if one said that they would have loved it had you been a bit more soft and sensual, the next people you meet might not like it that way at all! Regardless, a return invitation is always an indication of your 'results' :P

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Because I have had feedback before, just in a different form. It comes up in conversation from time to time when speaking to more regular playmates. I've never had someone come out and ask for feedback or a debriefing session afterwards, but general conversations will sometimes make it around to the last time's fun. One will mention that they or their partner really enjoyed this or that, or would like to try XYZ, and you'll reciprocate with your ideas about it or what you found hot or would like to give a go. But during the act, yes the moaning is usually a good sign (I get annoyed by the quiet lovers cos I never know if I'm doing it right). And return invitations are usually a good indication.

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