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December 19 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
not love, I don't fall so easily but I have certainly had a couple of men who felt like an obsession for me, I couldn't get enough and unfortunately they had to end.
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RHP User
11 years ago
For me, love has to be reciprocated to be real. I believe that if it's meant to happen it'll be a mutual thing. If it's not, there is something to be learned - I mean, what is it about the potential relationship that I want? Is it how he makes me feel about myself? If so, how can I get that from myself and not rely on someone else for validation. Is it something physical? If so, there is always someone else coming along that could do something similar. Or I can teach someone else what it is that I want. Then it's just a case of accepting the lesson and letting go :-) It's hard to express myself using this teeny keypad on my phone. Lol. I think better on a real keyboard...
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RHP User
11 years ago
I didn't think I had a heart - he made me realise that I do.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm in love with all you Rhp girls' , but alas.....unless I get loyalty and orgasm's, that's all I need... oh and food, don't forget food, it will never happen....knots
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Nope... Maybe desired but not been in love with. I think there's a difference.. Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
To me love is kind and gentle... NOT hurt like a biatch!! No thank you.. I'd rather go with out, own 100 cats!!! 😃😃😃. Lol Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
In love three times in my life...the last two were not reciprocated...took me a while to figure it out..I much prefer to be in like.I hate the feeling of being subsumed by another,that crazy dizzy out of control.chemical rush..blerrr ...xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
... due to circumstances beyond control with no closure on both counts. Both remain the greatest loves of my life to date - the best of thieves couldn't take that away! The jury is still out as to wether or not I'm lucky for the experiences as it makes it extremely difficult to even begin to contemplate settling for anything less BUT ... on the bright side ... I have since learnt (among other things) not to be dependent on anyone else for my own happiness regardless.
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aussian43
11 years ago
I am in lust with someone I can't be with. Spent a wonderful night with her and a few days later she has a boyfriend! We still talk and she is a good friend. I just miss her benefits.
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RHP User
11 years ago
and LOVE has always been a stranger to me..... never been in Love.... my friends think I am immune to compassion, warm feelings and love..... perhaps they are right. Not sure... if Love actually exists or its just wants needs mutually trade-able benefits or simply hormones imbalanced... Never found the answer. May be me being overly rational and being an existentialist has killed the LOVE organ in me.
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RHP User
11 years ago
that I've ever been truly in love, with anyone, let alone someone I can't have. I've been in relationships of course and have had affection, fondness and lust for many people. But that all-encompassing feeling of being in love that everyone talks about? Never happened for me. Being the control freak I am though, I don't think I'd like it much. The idea of someone having that much power over my state of mind is terrifying!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Keepitsimple72' that I've ever been truly in love, with anyone, let alone someone I can't have. I've been in relationships of course and have had affection, fondness and lust for many people. But that all-encompassing feeling of being in love that everyone talks about? Never happened for me. Being the control freak I am though, I don't think I'd like it much. The idea of someone having that much power over my state of mind is terrifying! I think it might be a problem related with being a Sagittarius ...... lol.... :) just saying ;)
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Quoting 'Keepitsimple72' that I've ever been truly in love, with anyone, let alone someone I can't have. I've been in relationships of course and have had affection, fondness and lust for many people. But that all-encompassing feeling of being in love that everyone talks about? Never happened for me. Being the control freak I am though, I don't think I'd like it much. The idea of someone having that much power over my state of mind is terrifying! I agree...with all of the above! Foxy
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
Love, love, love your new picture......💋 I've been in love with someone I had no right to be in love with, I gave him up because I couldn't keep doing it and I was the wrong thing to do, that was 5 years ago... Now I just look at it as I haven't met anyone that I'm willing to give up my freedom for... I'm happy to share most things, lust, sex, fun, experiences, knowledge, adventures, but I don't know if I can share my independence or my freedom anymore....I like them way to much.....💋
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RHP User
11 years ago
..and I still loved my ex after she fell out of love with me. It was painful because we worked together and still shared our house for 5 months after breaking up.I could tell I loved her because afterwards I actually felt physically sick...nauseous at times…when thinking of her. Which was often. I'd used to think that must be an urban myth. Apparently not.But it was worth it for the good times.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Lovinit28' Love, love, love your new picture......💋 Thanks love
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RHP User
11 years ago
on how you define being "in love." I was talking to my folks just recently about them being together for 45 years this year... I also spoke to my older brother and his fiancée as well as my little brother and his wife.. I came to the conclusion that:- 1. They don't handle loneliness well at all to a point that they all seem to hinge their happiness on being with someone. 2. My parents don't seem to possess any analytical processes. That they are together because they are....not because they're in love...but they're happy and wouldn't change it for the world....more power to them too I say. Love is all around us, and I think we just need to open our eyes wider and see past all of the things we want, that we cannot achieve on our own and simply focus on what we do have, as life will pass you by if you keep looking under every rock instead of seeing the landscape that's already breathtaking..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am in love with the man that I am with and I have a "great fondness" for the men that I can't be with. As far as I am concerned, we all have a "perfect understanding". When it comes to "sex", however, I intend on giving each man, my "undivided" attention. I will be "passionate" because for me, it comes naturally. Amy
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RHP User
11 years ago
... but really missing someone that I can't be with anymore because he's moved to the other side of the country :/. Can't imagine how much worse it would be if I was in love with him, which is the situation I'm assuming you're in Burning_Love.? Much love, Elle xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
.......and I have been for years.He is the most wonderful gentleman and if he would give a relationship between us a chance I would cherish him forever.But he doesn't love me and never has.Doesn't even keep in touch with me as a friend these days.His loss because as he gets older and is alone, he will have no-one to care for him in his old age.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thanks for your kindness :) Yes, it is true for me. Much like kiwi described, I've had the privilege of an extraordinary love and the grief of losing it, but worst of all the awareness of how unlikely it is that anything will ever match it. But luckily some years have passed and now it's more a dull thud in the back of my heart, rather than a searing pain :) But my post wasn't prompted by me. My story is old news. A couple of my male friends are so sad right now about losing the women they love and it made me wonder how many of us are walking around with this sadness. It's interesting that it's mostly women responding ... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Time and time again I find my self standing there, stinging tear soaked eyes looking pitifully down to the sodden icky battered lump of flesh that is my heart, squirting out the last few drops of pointless life, then I feel the massive haggard hole deep in my chest where it had been ripped mercilessly from, its phantom pounding beat relentless, deafening, maddening. I just want to SCREAM...... That was yesterday, oh look a butterfly.. Oh what joy. Gone, history, wisdom, experience, baggage, call it what you will. All one can do is look forward, life is too short to want something that one can not have.
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RHP User
11 years ago
The Ancient Greeks had six words for love,we on the other hand have many different words for coffee.but only one for love...we struggle to even differentiate between loving someone and being in love. So here are the Greeks thoughts on the subject of love.... Eros....Sexual passion..It was viewed as dangerous.fiery and irrational...the chemical cocktail of endorphins,serotonin, and the adrenaline rush....Eros involved a loss of control that could take hold of you and possess you.......... Philia deep friendship..it concerned deep comrades,friendship,showing loyalty,making sacrifices and sharing emotions.Storge was another form of Philia which embodied the love of a parent for a child... Ludus was playful love,flirting and teasing...bantering with friends and strangers or new lovers.Laughing even dancing with strangers,light heartedness... Agape,selfless love...in Buddhism it is referred to as Universal loving kindness...the love we have for everyone. Pragma..the deep love and understanding that develops between long standing couples ... Philautia..Love of the self...the unhealthy kind..self obsessed,narcissistic love,and the healthy kind,where you are secure in yourself and have plenty of the other forms of love to give others..... This way of thinking contrasts with our narrow view of finding a single romantic relationship where we hope to find all the different loves in one single person xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
Due to percieved incompability problems from her perspective and other issues including distance, lifestyles etc etc, I had to do the old "set them free" for my now ex-girlfriend, even though we still communicate. In the end she said she fell out of love with me, but still maintains I "didn't do anything wrong". If anything, I am still in love with the girl she used to be - the one that used to tell me she loved me - but I know that person is gone.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I wouldn't go as far as saying in love with him, but def liked him more than I should of. Hard not too when so much in common. Live and learn I guess :/
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RHP User
11 years ago
Is it better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all ? XxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Freya79' Is it better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all ? XxFreya Yes it is better, even though at some rough times you might think otherwise. Quote from a movie: "And one day you catch yourself wishing the person you loved had never existed, so you'd be spared your pain". They say the first loss of love is the hardest... But of course I've emerged with much more sexual confidence among other things, as she was my first in other ways :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Freya79' Is it better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all ? XxFreya So much harder when you never get to say goodbye the way you both deserve
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've been weighing up that question for some years. The jury is still out for me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
While I have some regrets about how much losing love hurts, whether or not you instigate the ending, I have no regrets about giving of myself. You only Live once
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RHP User
11 years ago
Is there anything like love Virgin? 😋😈 💕????? Now here is a cherry 🍒 I would like to be popped someday hahaha...... 😈 👍
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RHP User
11 years ago
Keen to hear from a few more of RHP's fellas ... - Posted from rhpmobile
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