M50
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July 26 2019
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RHP User
6 years ago
Are you channeling your inner Mr.Bond ?:) Perhaps most women would want a combination of the two.. a handsome ,polite good conversationalist with a rocking bod Hugs Q
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RHP User
6 years ago
Yes they matter, there has to be physical attraction, but if they're a dick or show signs of being lazy, plenty of hot guys get rejected. There isn't a single one I'd meet, no matter how hot he was, if the rest of his 'person' turned me off But I never meet anyone I'm not physically attracted to. I'm not here to make friends aside from chit chat on the forum
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wildcrazyloving
6 years ago
My most memorable lovers have ordinary bodies, there were other aspects of attraction that consumed me with want. I love that moment when your heart flips ordinary into most attractive.
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RHP User
6 years ago
But personally if you're single and not a good looking bloke (in the top 80%) I wouldn't bother with a subscription to this site. I know that sounds harsh but it's to do with the difference in numbers, the vast majority of people on this site are single guys so couples and women have the luxury of choosing. There was a survey done one time on a dating site with the women members judging 80% of men as "below average" in terms of looks. This is not to say you won't do much better in real life. On this site the opportunity to show personality is seriously limited and displays of humour, sarcasm and satire can be taken the wrong way and appropriated on face value.
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MsSuperFoxy
6 years ago
It's all in my profile. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
6 years ago
I choose someone I'm attracted to, and that doesn't mean just physically. Myself I prefer the mature rugged look with confidence and intellect. Not much of a fan for men that look/behave nerdy or needy. Or beefcakes for that matter. If they spend more time in front of the mirror (usually the gym mirror in their case) than me then it's a total turn off.
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RHP User
6 years ago
If I had to choose between those 2 options I'd go for overweight and good conversation. Good conversation is such a turn on. There are very few of us perfect when we're naked
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Mask_007
6 years ago
Thank you all, very nice response... Thank you all so much for such response... please keep coming...
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sweetas_j
6 years ago
Personally, I need to be attracted to a face. I’m not too fussed about body if the attraction is there. Having said that, I have met up with a few guys who I was a bit ‘meh’ about at first, but upon meeting and chatting, was absolutely smitten 😜 There’s someone for everyone x
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RHP User
6 years ago
Yeh this site is a luxury for me 😂😂😂
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RHP User
6 years ago
Wish I got the chance to converse with woman haha im actually pretty funny, like an unpaid comedian 😂 but i get it, most apps these days are just sausage fests 🍆
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FeistyFatty
6 years ago
Face is VERY important. Body is negotiable if he's cute...... I dont like the real lean gym bods and Abs some men have...... more attracted to a solid dad bod. Conversation and connection are paramount. Without that I don't care what you look like.
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Mask_007
6 years ago
I do understand that so far the majority prefers some with a but more then just looks. In saying that is looks what firs gets you started and potentially interested? Or you give it a go to someone not so great, that is considering you are under so much to choose from.
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Mask_007
6 years ago
Wildcrazyloving I like your point, and don't get me wrong, for me someone like you is away out of my league. And that is what i ask you: you: Quote you: "My most memorable lovers have ordinary bodies, there were other aspects of attraction that consumed me with want. I love that moment when your heart flips ordinary into most attractive" When you first receive somebody flirt how much conversation do you take to his looks due to all the 100 flirts you get per hour.
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RHP User
6 years ago
"What would you chose: A not so good looking woman, polite, a bit over weight, and with a good conversation- or - A good looking woman, fit, totally eye candy, with not much conversation, a but rude and just interested in a quickie... " Sorry, my friend...but the choices are pretty limited and either side would most likely choose the prancing pony. That's not to say that you should quit trying but rather, redouble you efforts selling yourself for top dollar rather than selling yourself short. Could be this site is not a perfect fit and there are others that do cater...love, romance, combed hair, brushed teeth and all the accouterments? Me? I'm both! Now really, you didn't think I'd miss a single shout out...did ya? Best of luck...... ʗɱ
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RHP User
6 years ago
...Bullshit! Oh dearie me, that cough is quite bad, and here it comes again... … Bullshit!
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AnnieWhichway
6 years ago
Love your work
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Mask_007
6 years ago
CM and OD. No one have forced you to read or participate. So please just pretend you have something more then aggressivety, grow some manners and put yourself in the wright place. With no offense to your comment. These is a open forum designed to hepl other clear some questions they may have and have to courage to ask publicly. I am just ask opinion of people interested in sharing they opinion that may not just clarify me but maybe others there. Like unsecured people like your selfs. Thank you for your time. Now back to the post. Thank you everyone for all the response.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Polite and overweight and not attractive to me at all. I would rather someone who takes care of themselves with a wicked sense of humor, keeps me on my toes mentally and physically.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I was being a little bitch about your Trojan Horse topic OP, but to get back on track... Like BritandTaiwan stated, it's looks that are going to get you clicks here. If not your face then your body at least. Remember the classic album cover of Fatboy Slim's "You've Come A Long Way Baby''? If Mr "I'm #1 so why try harder'' put that pic as a profile pic on any dating site, he would get zero clicks (except from a few curious souls who were checking if it were for real). His profile could read like Don Juans, dude could be an intellectual and romantic giant and it wouldn't matter. Put him in any pub/club scenario and he would most like be shunned (not to mention snickered at). Let's be honest about ourselves on here, we click on looks alone and hope that we are compatible in other ways. We are never truly going to know if we gel in our personalities (people can and do say anything to please online) or be attracted to each other enough to go home with them unless we actually meet up, and I am only going to meet up with those whose profiles grabbed my attention - first by their profile pic, second by their profile itself. This is different to a pub/club scenario, as other posters here I think are talking more about, where you can start talking to someone you otherwise would not have looked twice at, only to start being attracted to them whilst interacting due to that mysterious X factor. The online world though? Looks first.
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RHP User
6 years ago
All ill say is, we know a bunch of really fit good loooking gys on here who easily find attractive single women and couples . They dont even try actually lol they get contacted most of the time. Then we know some not so fit attractive blokes who struggle . Alot lol Not criticizing women . Just an observation and dont see anything wrong with it either. Sexual attraction is important right?
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RHP User
6 years ago
The majority of male profiles will state they're looking for nsa fun or words to that effect. Sooooo they're looking for a root, BUT women (and many bi or gay men) need more than that. The visual is a big part of it, given we're online, but I need to have them make me feel a bit/lot special, not necessarily by showering me with compliments, but to make me feel like they're not going to treat me like a number, like today's root but I'll never see them again. The trick is to be patient first and foremost and try to engage in activities in RL (real life) where you might potentially meet someone. Whatever your interests are, whether it be a book club or horse riding, enjoy the social aspect and who knows who you might meet. The biggest piece of advice U could give to all men is to get physically active, always be looking to improve your physical fitness, so many, including out of shape married men, make zero effort in that regard. While I'm busting my arse exercising to give myself the best chance of hooking my desired catch 😉 they do nothing but sit around and whine about no interest. Look at Annie. There's a perfect example of how successful you can be if you put the effort in. Just a thought and not specific to anyone, just an observation from my experience
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Mask_007
6 years ago
I could not be happier with thr last 3 posts... OKD.... Mate, such a turn around, oh my goodness... you absolutely start that kind of revolution and hight level of conversation I believe we all have been looking for. Smart, direct, full of sense and actually really good reading. You just bring to our conversation to a total up level... Thank you, thank you, thank you... And Fun_times / I_touch You two just give me so much pleasure in reading your posts is all.must orgasmic... Does make as participate of such a nicer level of discussion. thank you very very much. And i do agree with the 3 of you to a extant. Yes is a very big majority that is superficial and just look at looks and don't bother in reading and looking for signs of compatibility. What makes really interesting, and in saying that is a very little percentage of people that is to shy in personal life, and work they selfless personality to the best of then selfs in a website. Unfortunately does small numbers have a extremely small chance to succeed. That is one thing that always i did want to see. How many of us ar ruble enough to admit what they really do. And the 3 of you, just open a complete new can of worms... as been spoken before... Thank you...
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RHP User
6 years ago
Canned worms, the trick is to put them in wet weetgerm for a few days so they don't taste too earthy 😋
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RHP User
6 years ago
Oh yeah faces and character when the friends list is headless ripped hunks. Nothing wrong with being honest people.
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RHP User
6 years ago
"The story revolves around Hal (Jack Black) who, taking his dying father's advice, dates only the embodiments of female physical perfection. But that all changes after Hal has an unexpected run-in with self-help guru Tony Robbins. Intrigued by Hal's shallowness, Robbins hypnotizes him into seeing the beauty that exists even in the least physically appealing women."Initial release: 1 November 2001 (USA)Box office: 141.1 Million USDBudget: 40 Million USDThe critic's called this a box office bomb so without hanging around any longer...now I'm gone!ʗɱ...who this time did exercise the parochial prerogative dash of "aggronegativity" accidentally upon the crowd.
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countrytouch82
6 years ago
CM I liked Shallow Hal the movie. I would say in general that attraction does matter, but attraction is not always immediate, and can build. As it happens that is one of the arguments Hal tries to use to get people interested in him (the average Joe). My experience is that I tend to see people as more attractive when I know they are interested in me. Maybe I am seeing them deeper, or seeing them in a different light re: possibilities. In any case without massive injections of Botox and surgery, we are all going to end up old wrinkled and saggy, so even if I had the killer body now, I wouldn't date someone that was looking for that, as I would just get ditched at a later date for someone better/younger when my body inevitably changes.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Looks do indicate personality. An athletic body indicates an energetic person who works hard for what they want and respects themselves. Many fall for the lie that good looking people can't be nice and unattractive people are beautiful on the inside. Unattractive assholes just try harder for what they want. I fell for that in my youth once. I would suggest that all the nice guys who are self conscious about their weight find an exercise they enjoy. The opportunities it may bring may astound you.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Your post is disturbingly logical and is disqualified. It’s not about the future it’s about now. I want I deserve I’m entitled.
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Seachange73
6 years ago
I don't subscribe to the binary approach you have presented as I believe we are complex beings. We are certainly attracted to our preferred aesthetics and for me in this site, I have to be physically attracted to a man first before going further. I suppose my expectations for long term relationship in this site is extremely low and if the opportunities to play with attractive, funny and decently smart men presents itself, why not? And there are plenty to choose from. Just being honest. It's contextual for me. In real life, where I meet men in social or work settings, I don't really expect fireworks or instant attraction. I usually would engaged mentally first. I have been attracted to men who are not traditionally handsome yet their intellect and charm had me melting in their hands. It's complicated.
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Seachange73
6 years ago
Just brings to mind to me that this very narrow selection of men would only be applicable post-apocalyptic world where there's just Moi and them. 😄 At which point, there's no point choosing. I'll play with both. One would fill in the void (so to speak 😂😋) where necessary - intellectually, emotionally, physically and spiritually. Amen.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Gutsy comment. I agree 100%
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RHP User
6 years ago
I_touch_myself thank you. I think people should go for similar types. Often,the nice guy with extra padding wants the attractive, athletic girl with great boobs instead of the nice girl with extra padding.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Yes exactly
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Mask_007
6 years ago
XH Very interesting point you made. And is good to see that. Is a lot of "nice girl with extra padding" as you mentioned around that don't think that way,amd is some "attractive, athletic girl with great boobs" out there that are looking and enjoy guy a bit with extra padding on. Is a world of possibilities i believe. And say that as mentioned at your post: "Looks do indicate personality. An athletic body indicates an energetic person who works hard for what they want and respects them selves." That is a enormous generalization. Is 80/ 20 Standar. 80% of people are not nice(they thinnk they are) and 20% are genuinely nice. Unfortunately 20% of nice people look after they physical appearance the other 80% consider that irrelevant and possibly believe is more to life then physical appearance. I can say with confidence that i am part of those 80% extra weight and think life is much more then just the way I look to others. I do care a about that contact and connection. Looks is a bonus if you have good if not, does not mettar.
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RHP User
6 years ago
I so agree with your comment, Ive experienced that moment a few times. Ive also experienced the opposite. I was talking to a hot guy, he had a few validations so I thought, ah, he has met a few people, must be a social kind of guy, and I was looking forward to meeting him. Halfway through our drinks date my heart sank. Very little conversation other than his swinging exploits. It became boring. I like a guy who can make me laugh. If I had to choose between good looking but shallow or average looking and great fun to be with Id go for number 2 every time. Im aware thst Im pretty average myself but as a woman on here I get quite a few messages and compliments and it could really go to your head if you dont remind yourself that its only online dating.
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