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Help a girl out
May 13 2014
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RHP User
12 years ago
What would you say if i said to you ? Hey Belladonna888 i have worked you out finally now i can read you like a book !!!!!! Most men and women take a lifetime to work themselves out ! Let alone another . - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Things are only as complicated as you make them by failing to listen and observe. ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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belladonna888
12 years ago
That's true, but I find it hard to see the truth among the lies. Before you shoot me, I know its not just men !
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belladonna888
12 years ago
Quoting 'Bigocean72' What would you say if i said to you ? Hey Belladonna888 i have worked you out finally now i can read you like a book !!!!!! Most men and women take a lifetime to work themselves out ! Let alone another . - Posted from rhpmobile I am a open book
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RHP User
12 years ago
men , men ..... wants to be left alone, shag and do not need nagging
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Dryphuz
12 years ago
The one thing that always ruins it for me is not any space. A time to be ourselves in is essential. Now commonly women think, "well why can't he be himself with me?" Simple. He actually can't. He can't fart, pick his nose, play computer games, watch porn, pour frootloops into our mouths straight from the box, drink from the carton, comment on other hot women, make sexist jokes, sleep on the bed like a starfish on a square of cardboard, think about nothing without having to explain that when we say we're thinking about nothing that's exactly what we're doing, drink as much beer as we feel like without having to worry about driving or feeling guilty for making you drive, etc. these are just a few of the things we need to be able to do without worrying about what you're going to think about it. Now not every guy is gonna need to do all these things, but space ladies space.
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RHP User
12 years ago
when you say one thing and do another. Just like us women, I don't think you guys know what you want either.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Focus not on the Differences of Men and Women but on their Similarities . GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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belladonna888
12 years ago
Quoting 'MisterGreen' Focus not on the Differences of Men and Women but on their Similarities . GG♒️ What are they - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Things are only as complicated as you make them by failing to listen and observe. ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile His whole life is military, then fireman and now another government enforcement jobhis whole life has been in the world of me I have no idea what he is thinking and he never vocalises a single thing about emotions he is wired that way and with all that training its set in concrete and I have been watching him for 30 plus yearsand he knows nothing about me in my woman land. that is why I do all my thinking and talking on here
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RHP User
12 years ago
MEN looking for that missing N
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yankmychain56
12 years ago
all we desire is to have a woman let us play with their tits:)I guess that has been our fascination since the cradle, and it takes us a lifetime to get over it.We never grow up:)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Miss Bella nice that makes the pages your legs !!! And a great fucking book .:-)) - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
12 years ago
Thinking about sex makes a bloke hungry, having sex makes a bloke hungry. Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Who knows we want one thing and end up doing another and that's for both sexes. Time to do you own thing is very important for men and women. Also to be open to each others needs as well. Don't set out to change a person but to live along side each other. Don't harbour negative feelings be open if your pissed be pissed but talk about it and get over it and move on. Better to ask from each other what your needs are, as they have a better chance of being met. Simple really we never understand fully what makes men and women different. Just thank god that we are different as life would be so boring.
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belladonna888
12 years ago
Quoting 'Bigocean72' Miss Bella nice that makes the pages your legs !!! And a great fucking book .:-)) - Posted from rhpmobile See a easy read ..lolThanks Sunshine
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RHP User
12 years ago
That all men are like books...some are closed,some have transparent pages,some have blank pages,some are an opus and then there are the pamphlets :-) xx Q
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tamworthguy46
12 years ago
I think men are afraid to be men, because they think woman want them to be something else ! I also think women are pressured by society to not be women ! I think we should treat each other as Different Equals ? Tam
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'RunAwayJoinCircz' The question is the answer in this case! Men are compelled to succeed, so they want a woman who will recognise their successes. Men are all useless with practicalities so they want someone to balance the books. Men want a Madonna, Men want a Whore, only the good ones can handle that.... And most of all Men want someone to put them at the top, to value them beyond all else, And If you can cook WITH a man It's a bonus :D Sounds like you need to build a time machine and travel back to the 1950s to find your perfect 'good' woman.
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MissBishere
12 years ago
That's exactly all the reasons I want to be alone sometimes ....lol... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
What the fuck is wrong with that picture.... You know who you are hahaha
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RHP User
12 years ago
well well well people in the sand pit ,,,youv all got me tottaly confuzzled ,,,,,even a he ,she ,,,,,cant answer this question ,,,,,,giggle ,,,,,xxxx catherine
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
And If you can cook WITH a man It's a bonus :D Stuff that!!! I ain't sharing my kitchen with no one... They can have the LOT!! Welcome to the 21st century where women left the kitchen and the men do all the cooking!! Foxy
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Lovinit28andKC72
12 years ago
I gave up trying to work men out years ago, it's in the to hard basket for now......💋
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madotara69
12 years ago
I'm cooking chicken and vegetable soup tonight, in the slow cooker, the little one has been sitting up on the sink helping me peel the veggies. Wondering why I can't put a head back on the chook. Tara has allowed me into the kitchen under strict conditions, it's very limiting. How is one supposed to be creative if one can't use every plate, dish, utensil, a bit of this and a bit of that. Thinking she would prefer to go too a restaurant. he he. Mado Tara xx
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
hahaha! Tara is a good woman...staying out the kitchen while you figure out how to put the head back on the chook! Just don't stick it up it's bum.. Go ahead....use everything in the kitchen, however that won't help solve the 3rd world issues of Venus and Mars! Foxy *big hugs to the little one*
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madotara69
12 years ago
It is more like the big bang when I get into the kitchen, I haven't learned the art of not destroying it. Compassion can be very testing. he he.
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smo669
12 years ago
Hungry or horny? Where does beer and wine fit into the equation?
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madotara69
12 years ago
But I do remember Granddad giving me some constructive advice about women "It's not the chasing a woman that wears a man out, it is once they let that man catch them it does"
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RHP User
12 years ago
You just have to remember you have to clean it when you are done I finished kicking my ex wife out of the kitchen she loved to use every pot and pan in it then leave it when she was done she loved making the mess but not cleaning itI cook and clean as I go by the time dinner is ready the only things left to clean are the plates, knives and forks
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belladonna888
12 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' But I do remember Granddad giving me some constructive advice about women "It's not the chasing a woman that wears a man out, it is once they let that man catch them it does" Did your Grand dad know how many sugar's he had in his cup of tea ?
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
HAHA Bless Granddads cotton socks! My grandma used to say.... "Stay away from them boys dear child, they are nothing but trouble....boyz drool and once you kiss them they become addictive and boyz love girls who are mean.....And if they pull your hair it means they like you." I do like my hair pulled and a little drool, however I am not that mean in the bedroom! Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
We aren't that complex. Women aren't either. We are just different from each other. And for some - this makes things complicated. But with a little bit of empathy, it isn't that hard :).
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Dryphuz
12 years ago
Quoting 'Missb72' That's exactly all the reasons I want to be alone sometimes ....lol... - Posted from rhpmobile but the OP was about men. I can cook without making a mess, but i'm not very good at tasty. I don't undercook or burn, but i don't know my way around a spice rack. Here's a tip for all the blokes who suck at cooking. Learn to make the simple egg in a basket (cut a whole in bread and fry egg using bread as egg ring... simple), but make the whole heart shaped. She will be impressed you actually cooked her something and go all gooey when she sees the heart.
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RHP User
12 years ago
the answer is simple - a man wants more, or what is not his. Men always want more, even if more is less. eg this could mean he wants to do the sultry blonde who moved in next door OR he wants the lifestyle of the guy down the road with the job, car, travel etc. When a man has these things, he still WANTS MORE. This man wants: - a BJ, HJ, or sex more mornings than not every week. You can decide which it will be if you like;- to watch or play sport during the day and get paid very well for it;- to perve on scantily clad flirtatious women - mrs to be a whore in the bedroom but respectable yet flirtatious in public- mrs to be open to group sex encounters (including ff bisexual) what this man wants and what he receives are not necessarily the same ;) You must remember these are "wants" and may never be achievable. By the way, men dont want to talk about emotions UNLESS they bring it up and the discussion finishes when they say it is over.
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belladonna888
12 years ago
Quoting '2playcouple' the answer is simple - a man wants more, or what is not his. Men always want more, even if more is less. eg this could mean he wants to do the sultry blonde who moved in next door OR he wants the lifestyle of the guy down the road with the job, car, travel etc. When a man has these things, he still WANTS MORE. This man wants: - a BJ, HJ, or sex more mornings than not every week. You can decide which it will be if you like;- to watch or play sport during the day and get paid very well for it;- to perve on scantily clad flirtatious women - mrs to be a whore in the bedroom but respectable yet flirtatious in public- mrs to be open to group sex encounters (including ff bisexual) what this man wants and what he receives are not necessarily the same ;) You must remember these are "wants" and may never be achievable. By the way, men dont want to talk about emotions UNLESS they bring it up and the discussion finishes when they say it is over. I had that theory for a while , the grass is greener , his car is faster...I guess when it goes past the want stage to the have to have stage is when the trouble begins . That's not just a man thing, I don't like to talk about emotions .
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' Quoting 'RunAwayJoinCircz' The question is the answer in this case! Men are compelled to succeed, so they want a woman who will recognise their successes. Men are all useless with practicalities so they want someone to balance the books. Men want a Madonna, Men want a Whore, only the good ones can handle that.... And most of all Men want someone to put them at the top, to value them beyond all else, And If you can cook WITH a man It's a bonus :D Sounds like you need to build a time machine and travel back to the 1950s to find your perfect 'good' woman. after I got to stop working my bum off and now I can put my apron on and cook and clean and hum at the same time beats working out on the coal face and I give my hubby all of the above
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'allsorts72' You just have to remember you have to clean it when you are done I finished kicking my ex wife out of the kitchen she loved to use every pot and pan in it then leave it when she was done she loved making the mess but not cleaning itI cook and clean as I go by the time dinner is ready the only things left to clean are the plates, knives and forks picturing you cleaning the kitchen, is not quite the same as watching Tara in her little maids outfit, all frilly and lace, wearing her duo balls and jiggling around in the kitchen, fuck if I cleaned it all up, it would not be any where near as much fun for her. Plus we bought a beaut vacuum cleaner, one with the biggest motor, blue and I love firing it up and doing the vacuuming, I used the mop to clean the dunny once, so that is off limits, I used the kitchen broom to clean off the cobb webbs under the eaves, so that is off limits, oh and I scorched her wooden table whilst soldering a toy she managed to break, somehow. But generally everything is quite reciprocating really.
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On_Safari
12 years ago
And if they can't have it they want it more. Simple really.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Food and fucking! I should have been a boy, because I love both of them :(
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi Belladonna888, I think if a lot of men were just honest things would be a lot simpler. Some guys are too afraid to be honest and really say what they want. Its breaking men down and peeling back the layers like an onion - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I take no issue with what Run off with the circus said about what men what in a woman. I do and am all off those things for my husband. You've obviously not met the right man that you WANT to do/be that woman for your man Luckdragon😞 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ladies, Listen up I am only going to say this Once,Shut up ! and Keep on sucking ! That's what a men want
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happy0450
12 years ago
Generalisation they may be - however, Men have; # Similar hopes, dreams and fears as Women, we want to be liked, have successful and meaningful relationships with our family and intimate partner.# Had to adapt (like Woman) to a new world of expectations, be much more involved with home and family, share emotions - this is an evolution and we are still learning. #A need to be valued for doing bloke things well (Men are from Mars, Women form Venus covers this well) So when we fix things, hunt and gather well, we value being praised for this#Ultimately, we crave genuine intimacy as much as Women#As Big Ocean said, like women, we are working ourselves out
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happy0450
12 years ago
"Celebrate any progress, don't wait to get perfect" Ann McGee Cooper
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RHP User
12 years ago
Indagine nothing more to say but yep that about sums it up lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
How about a sandwich?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Folks... here's my take on it.... Things are rapidly rushing toward entropy... Culture and race will become a thing of the past, as globalisation gradually homogenises everything, and creates one generic global 'culture'. Similarly, what we would consider as traditional gender roles, are becoming not only blurred, but damn difficult to define now. Women are demonstrating behaviours traditionally displayed by men, and visa versa.... We would have once only recognised men & women, and their perceived roles in society. Now we recognise men, women, and all variations in between. At the end of the day, does it all really matter...? As long as we're comfortable in our own skin, and confident with who we are, and are true to ourselves - we don't have to answer to anyone else. As long as we're good people, and treat others as we would wish to be treated ourselves - that's what counts. For what it's worth...
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Dryphuz
12 years ago
Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E' And if they can't have it they want it more. Simple really. Although having said that, we don't NEED everything. Its like we NEED to want things or we get bored. If you actually manage the first 2 things from the OP often enough that will still keep us happy... And you don't have to cook, take out, delivery or microwaved whatever will probably do. I'm paraphrasing Chris Rock here Men only want three things; food, sex and silence. Feed me, fuck me, shut the fuck up. Now its not that we never want to talk its just that we rarely have the capacity to talk as much as women like. If a man doesn't want to talk its not because we're not interested, its because we only have so much concentration for talking and we may have used it up convincing you to feed and fuck us. But it doesn't take that long to recharge. Put on a TV show or 2 and don't talk to him, then try again. You'd be surprised at how much more communicative we get after an hour of not talking.
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RHP User
12 years ago
short term = Horny and hungryLong term = i think we want much the same , someone to love, someone to respect and share life with. the question is short term vs long term, guys are a lot more immediate, and can generally ( and i say generally cause everyone is different) separate these two states easily. So a guy will want to bonk now and get a sandwich , but a partner will hang round for breakfast :)thats where the lines blurr
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belladonna888
12 years ago
Quoting 'strava7' Hi Belladonna888, I think if a lot of men were just honest things would be a lot simpler. Some guys are too afraid to be honest and really say what they want. Its breaking men down and peeling back the layers like an onion - Posted from rhpmobile I agree !!
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RHP User
12 years ago
a) its about people versus the sexes.b) men and women are different, (some more so than others)c) relationship: "Someone who gets who I am, and vice versa."
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RHP User
12 years ago
Tru that
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