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Here we go again And again
May 02 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
Looking for single bi or straight women to play with. Consider setting up a solo female profile, making it clear that Ms CNS is attached, allowed to play with a couple and that Mr likes to watch but not join in. At least then the profile might turn up in more searches and you might get some more hits. Apologies if your current profile does state these things, I didn't think to check. All the best :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sorry I had to read your profile to get a better view. I hate to say this, but what if I were interested?? I'm a single male, but your profile clearly states couples, wouldn't that too, be judgemental?? The point is, we are all after something specific, and well this medium allows us to be selective. All you can do is keep on swimming
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RHP User
14 years ago
You don't actually say that you just like to watch Mr.cnf,people have preferences and If they are saying no, they aren't judging, just saying that is not what they want.Perhaps a strategy as suggested by lil_bit_angelic might be helpfull. You say that you have been on RHP for five years,a long time.Perhaps by attending events or parties you might meet compatible people.x Hugs H.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I agree with lil-bit-angelic, maybe a single female profile (as well as your current couple profile) might help you to find what you are looking for. Having said that, I did go look at your profile, and would suggest a rewrite is in order. It doesn't say that Mr really only likes to watch, with minimal involvement. Being more specific, will help to weed out those who (regardless of whether they are being judgemental or not) don't suit what you two are looking for. Yes, I know a lot of folk here, both singles and couples, wont/cant read ALL of a profile. But, the more specific you make it, the better, as folk then have a better understanding of where you are coming from, what you want and need, and thus whether they are likely to suit you two or not.
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RHP User
14 years ago
i don't think it is a judgmental thing, try to think of it from the other side, if you were messaged by a couple wanting the same thing from you, is that something you would be into???It is not judgment it is PREFERENCE in the same way some ladies only want men hung like donkeys, some guys only want girls with big boobs, some people prefer non smokers.......................... the list goes on.For us sex is not a spectator sport and we like for everyone to be involved and it wouldn't be our choice to play with a couple where hubby just watches, (or the wife just watches for that matter) sorry just how it is.I understand that this is your kink and power to you for being upfront in what you want, I am sure that there are other couples out there who share this kink and would be happy to oblige it might just take a little longer to find them.Mrs
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RHP User
14 years ago
Just let things ride mate..if others dont get what you need then scratch them off your list..unfortanately you have to go through the quantity to get quality..
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RHP User
14 years ago
Just because they are not into you doesn't mean they shouldn't have both taken one for your team!Some people just insist on having and expressing personal preferences. The way they think they are so superior and sit back and judge others makes me sick. If everyone just liked everything and was prepared to fuck anybody the RHP world would be a much happier place.End sarcasm.Mr C
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RHP User
14 years ago
thats funny..... so..having a preference is judging? how so? we need to find both attractive, and to be willing to play with both of us....are we bad?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Mr c well said !! That senario would suck for me , you need to do what turns you on for sure, but allow others to do the same ! Mrs D
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QLDtwo4fun
14 years ago
Why not put exactly what your looking for in your profile. There are probably couples out there looking for a single girl who may also be interested in what you have to offer.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I agree with other posters,Your profile doesn't reflect any of your desires at all, you've really got to state what you want up front, it's a sure way to avoid those unnecessary contacts . You could also try another site.There are hundreds of couples out there seeking that elusive female and I'm sure many won't mind a voyeur present.have fun playing - ed
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RHP User
14 years ago
All was good untill they pushed the point about his wife wanting to have sex with me, and when I said that I won't play without ms cns permission they dropped us cold. Now I know that we all have different preferences and totally respect that, but when they the part about me playing they didn't want to know us. Read carefully untill Ms cns said so ,,NOT NEVER. The main reason i don't jump straight in is because a lot of females are intimidated by my size ( no not cock size ) body size I'm 6'5 and 130 kg. So I think most girls are affraid I'm going to crush them LOL.
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DonnaBrett
14 years ago
First..to save any confusion you should really spell out exactly what you want in your profile. However, that being said if we contacted a couple and then they layed that request on us we'd say sure, no worries. Whatever floats your boat as they say.We have on a few occasions met couples at swingers' clubs...chatted ...got along well...decided to play and then when we get into the room the male of the other couple has come up with some excuse not to play...one was "I've been working all day..very tired, but you three go ahead" . We say "Are you sure?" (as we don't want any incidents or freak outs once things start to happen). He says "Definite"...then play starts..he falls asleep on the next bed!!! Who the hell is gonna knock that back? Another time we chat to couple but before play starts she tells us that she can full swap but he only does foreplay...we ask him if he's cool with that? He says yep!! So that's what we do. Different strokes for different folks!
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NudesRus
14 years ago
Just what every woman wants to hear,I don't want to fuck you! Their not being judgmental , unless their profile said , " wife doesn't mind if she misses out, long as your happy" Couples generally look for couples so everyone can have some fun, I think you may need to be a bit more specific in your profile.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think you would probably have a lot more luck if you started looking for a single guy if you only want to watch the would be a lot of willing participants on here.
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LoveFrenzy
14 years ago
Donna and Brett are so cool!
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RHP User
14 years ago
These people probably mean, "We are not judging you harshly". At what stage does Mrs. C decide whether or not Mr. C is to be included in proceedings? I know that you also have a selection process where you rule people out. You shouldn't take offence when other people do it. Early last year, you were chatting with Jennylee for a while and then stopped. That's okay, we didn't take offence but it seems a little hypocritical to complain that others do it to you.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Im sure there's lots of couples or married men who wouldnt mind sitting back while the wife or partner is pleasured.. ?I think it's a very unselfish act of a man or a woman who can approve and not deny their spouse some latitude , specially those who have been together for a long time .. The urges are still there so why not address them ?
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DonnaBrett
14 years ago
Hahaha...thanks! Jusdt say it like we see it! Quoting 'LoveFrenzy' Donna and Brett are so cool!
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