Hey Ladies! A Q for you

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Now you are getting a handle on what lots of single guys go through, the self doubt thing, not the safety thing. Cheers Nev

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  i used to attend play parties alone, a few years ago - i don't think you'll have any problem whatsoever; single females are never left alone for long! and you get to know other people a little better, in my opinion - you're much more likely to chat to others in more detail when you're not with your partner. equally, not being with your partner means you don't have to say a word. i used to love being free to walk around and play the voyeur (voyeuse?), which, more often than not, would lead to an invitation to join in. so you have more freedom to walk around and choose your play! it's sensible to think about safety, though. i'd always ask the party organisers at the point of RSVPing for their suggestions about calling taxis and such - being somewhat of a commodity, the single girls are usually looked after, and i always had organisers offer to walk me to my cab, or car. kudos to you! have a ball! and let us know how it goes...

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Nev, Going solo is hard for anyone I think...to any event not just swinging. In some ways swinging events are easier because people are going to meet new people. Regular events are hard because people dont always chat & make eye contact. I think its just the start of any function that sucks...you know when you stand there trying to look comfy & not worried, when you are really feeling awkward & obvious! Thanks MsV, hopefully I get an invite...but maybe not. I was tossing up with driving or cab...Cabs are so unreliable think I would rather stay sober & not get stuck ...but we will see. My hat really is off to those who turn up solo for a first time event! xx Mrs H

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Hi Mrs H, I go on my own regularily to a swingers club. I find it easy and relaxed and I have a great time. I have become friendly with many regulars and minders there and I feel like they have my back. The only times I have felt uncomfortable is going out the back to watch some play time (I am a voyeur - first and foremost) and (discovered how aroused I became by watching live sex) but standing there can be fraught with males and their intentions (or what they believe are your intentions) One particular night stands out - when I was intent on watching some action on the swing, when I overheard a man talking to another, saying "Just pull up her skirt, we know she really wants it" and glancing back and realizing that they were talking about me. I was actually quite offended because yes we are at a swingers club - granted but each person goes there for their own gratifications - what ever they may be.... Ladyalways...

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Hi mrssweetiepie you could cum and play with me and the lovley lady check profile shores55

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