Hi ladies

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Darn it , I have been writing to much on the honesty post....sigh Your pictures are ok but you got a fag in one hand, so that is a turn off. Bit like a fish or a beer in your hand. Your looking for a perfect partner by the loo of it, and there is no such thing as Miss Right. I guess put what your looking for, in more words and more about you. Its nice you love your kids but most people do, and its best to leave that out of the profile. For now, you can shock the woman later when on that first date you say Hi kids, I would like you to meet your new mum Its just a numbers game on here, men are disadvantaged so look up a few male profiles and see how yours compares you have people on your friends list, so why not ask them? good luck and welcome to the sand pit

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  6exxy

  11 years ago

  Pure numbers here as men significantly out number the ladies. They are picky because they can be so don't lose hope, keep plugging away. ✊

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  I suggest writing more about yourself in your "Introduction". At present, it contains only a few lines. Women like to see that a man has gone to some effort in constructing his "Introduction" to tell his audience more about himself. Have a read of the other RHP Forums concerning "Profiles" and have a look at what the other Members have to say. Personally, what attracts me to a male Profile, is seeing a man in a suit !!! It is the "smartness" of the clothes that a man is wearing, that says a lot about the man. Hope this helps, just persevere and give it some time. Regards, Amy

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  MsSuperFoxy

  11 years ago

  Hello there Shaun. *waves* Here, check this out - there's some great tips and suggestions especially designed for single men. :) http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Article/Top-Tips-For-Single-Male-Profiles-1073 All the best and hope you find what ever it is your looking for on here. Foxy PS- At the end of the day it's your choice what you put on your profile...as it's yours and reflects who YOU are. :)

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  C'mon,tell us who you are,what you enjoy doing...out of the bedroom that is....I know it's difficult to talk about yourself,but why would. We want to meet YOU ....the photo you have as your profile shot is IMO not the best one you have...it's a little scary...change it to the one where you are smiling...we want to see you smile Shaun xxFreys

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  "Your pictures are ok but you got a fag in one hand, so that is a turn off. Bit like a fish or a beer in your hand." Yes, you say you are a light smoker, but since you're smoking in two of your pics I think you smoke regularly. Many women here are looking for non-smokers, so you have that going against you. "I suggest writing more about yourself in your "Introduction". At present, it contains only a few lines. Women like to see that a man has gone to some effort in constructing his "Introduction" to tell his audience more about himself." I feel that if a guy doesn't put any effort into his profile, he won't put the effort into dating either. It really says nothing about you, and women here see many profiles like that a day. They all look the same after a while, and don't inspire me. "the photo you have as your profile shot is IMO not the best one you have...it's a little scary..." Yes, your first pic makes you look like you're leering in my opinion. The smiling one is nice. Good luck!

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  rethink the pictures !!

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  like the others have said,its a numbers game on here. i've known about this site for over 8 years and only ever met a few people..some reply to hello messages and flirts.a lot don't.you have to wonder though,when you read how rhp was taken to high court and admitted to stacking site with fake profiles to entice people to join at hope of getting laid ,how many people are actually for real.if you do a search of females on line and see how many have the same group of friends ,you can bet your life you wont be hearing from or meeting them.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Try not to take the constructive criticism your receiving personally :) These friendly people are just trying to help you! :) I also have some ideas but I would rather pass them on via message so PM me if you want some idea :)

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  cleopatrababe

  11 years ago

  Your pics need to look a little softer , cut out the smoking ones , tell us something about yourself what u like and yes kids we dont need to know how much u love them ,, we know u do , its all about attracting the female on here lwe all get lots of messages and flirts take your time and like fishing its a waiting game good luck

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  MsSuperFoxy

  11 years ago

  That's a very kind thing to do. :) Foxy

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  Seachange73

  11 years ago

  Quoting 'frillseeker' like the others have said,its a numbers game on here. i've known about this site for over 8 years and only ever met a few people..some reply to hello messages and flirts.a lot don't.you have to wonder though,when you read how rhp was taken to high court and admitted to stacking site with fake profiles to entice people to join at hope of getting laid ,how many people are actually for real.if you do a search of females on line and see how many have the same group of friends ,you can bet your life you wont be hearing from or meeting them. i read your profile and you only have very generic uninspiring lines in your profile and the only pic you have is your profile pic of you standing at a distance behind your bike with your face hidden behind your dark shades. Not sure there is anything that would attract me to send you a flirt or a message as you dont seem to be trying? now I have been chatting to this gorgeous WA guy this morn and he has a couple of warm, sexy smiling facial pics, a couple of action pics and a good write up in his profile that shows his personality and intelligence. So when he has contacted me this afternoon, it was just a bonus he is smart and funny and sexy.... can't wait to meet him.... But why WA? Soooo far.... Sigh....

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Firstly, when you can afford, become a paid member. Not many woman on here even look at flirts as they get literally hundreds a day. A message can be way more personalised to the lady in question. Secondly. Contribute to the forum topics as much as you can in relation to topics that come up. The more people see you, your views and your active enthusiasm to join in discussions, the more likely you are to get a woman / woman's attention. Thirdly, always be polite, if you become a member and start messaging some woman, don't be discouraged if you don't hear back. Some will reply, some won't. As is stated, it's a numbers game, the forums are like free advertising, the more you contribute, the more you get noticed, the more everyone gets to know you. Enjoy your stay, I wish you the best of luck and hope some of this has helped.

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