M65

Hi want a ROOT

October 08 2009

I find it interesting the level of guys who complain that they are not getting the attention level they so desperately desire. To my way of thinking a lot of people put in little or no effort and end up with a result exactly equal to the input. Personally I could not me less attractive to most of the women on this site when taken at first glance. I am married 48 years old and I smoke. Batter Up Strike One Strike Two Strike three…Your Out of here. So why am I not bitching…well because I get the level of response I want plain and simple. So just some friendly advice that works for me…it will not work for everyone but it does for me. Profile When you’re walking around a car park you nice the flash cars and then the really well maintained cars some will be classic cars and some just really nice looking up to date cars…what you don’t notice are all the stock standard Fords, Holdens and Toyota… Make you profile interesting take some time make some effort write about yourself and wait for it be HONEST if you are married you don’t have to lie about it. Have a profile photo mine is R rated so not a lot of people get to see it but it is classier than someone holding their knob…If you have a photo make it attractive. Say a lot about what you are looking for be specific it really does help…and don’t forget to fill in all the tabbed boxes as well. Guy remember there many more guys than there are women so they get to choose its their choice so you have to learn to live with that. Flirts How many do you send I mean really It is an exception for me to use flirts as the women and the couples get 100s’ of them day in day out. Flirts can be a lazy way to contact people…I only use them when I am lazy LOL. That being said I get more flirts than I send. In a lot of cases it is simply people who like my profile and are saying HI. It is always nice to make new friends. Messages OK Well done you have paid and can send messages now make the most of them…that button that says template…NEVER use it not EVER. Everyone is an individual so firstly and every time READ the profile all of it including the tabs…When someone takes the time to be honest and say they are ample in build they should not have to repeat that over and over again…if their messages back to you they should not have to remind you of that fact. OK so you rushed and now you get a message that says you don’t match up…now what go back and reread the profile…You are going to have to be something special to get a response so Hi do you want a root is probably not going to make the grade. So what do you say in a first message, well I would think a comment about their profile will be pretty good start find some common interest perhaps… comments on the pics…well can be dangerous ground depends on what you say and how you say it…Great TITs…could be well received or not But if you said how often do you let those puppies out for walk it may be better. I would avoid asking how many roots the person is getting off this site it is just well rude in my humble opinion. So First Message Don’ts Don’t ask to see the Private gallery it is private for a reason you will be offered access Don’t leave your phone number and say call me Don’t ask for MSN ids Don’t ask for a root Don’t be rude FFS J Don’t talk about the size of your weapon Don’t say how much you love oral sex and can do it for hours…I mean really hours, I get cramps after ten minutes. Just be honest think about how you would talk to someone if you met them at a party. Now here is the tricky thing be flirty you will have to learn that I guess as it seems to be a dying art form…that being said the women are better than the guys at this. Learn to read their flirts after all it is a way that you open a door… One Last things Friends lists What does it say if you have 100s of people in your friends list are your really friends with them. Sending you blanket friends invite is just plain silly. I am guessing that people do this in some cases simply to attract attention to themselves. Well I have had my rant for the year. Mike

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RHP User

16 years ago

Wait a minute... a whole lot of people drive around in a regular toyota... hehe. Thats me .. good ol reliable as a toyota gaz.... hehe.. you wanna root?... step right up! hehe. Hugs Gaz

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RHP User

16 years ago

I could certainly go a root hahaha I would settle for a BJ too haha ok Im goin now

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RHP User

16 years ago

But the people on my friends list I have made friends with. I have met them or have chatted with them over a long period in chat and talk regularly on msn. The girls are great fun to chat on msn with..lol.. Gaz is my latest new friend...I added him cause Tamtam and I wanna root him..LOL.. Silly kisses sweetpetite41

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RHP User

16 years ago

That's great advice Mike and I hope some of the guys on here read it, if more guys used your advice I'd reply to more messages,SF

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RHP User

16 years ago

Well having just finished a year of membership I can honestly say that although everything you have written is pretty true it still does not guarantee anything. I never did any of the don'ts you suggest and tick every other box of dos. Despite that after one year about 350 messages and over 700 flirts I met only 2 people and talked to barely a handful of others. One that I met is now my housemate as she found a job up here. She responds to every message she gets and generally meets most of them. So I'm not exactly guessing I did anything special to meet her. Having seen a lot of messages sent to her 90% of which I wouldn't consider to be a decent message. No they don't all fail your don'ts list although probably 25% would. Still she responds positively to them but I'm sure others wouldnt. And yet she reckons there is nothing wrong with my profile and also wonders why I don't have plenty of women responding. So there must be other factors involved somewhere.Who knows...some get more than they really deserve and others get nowhere near what they should. Luck of the draw I guess.

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RHP User

16 years ago

gaz is probably on every ones list LOL for exactly the reason you have said hell if he had enuf cold beers in the fridge half the guys would root him too :) I am sure a lot of people do have friends list that are extensive and honestly friends...other i suspect are just trying to get a big number on the list. i had a friends invite from some one 3 seconds after they fiewed my profile...now my profile take a few minutes to read ... they were just trolling for friends :) sarah Well the approach seems to work ok to me, i am sure it would work for others :) lovenlust after the first message and depending on the responses the dont list tends to be redundant you will know which you can cross off lol... Mike

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RHP User

16 years ago

Online dating , soul searching, and the pursuit of digital sex is addictive.I feel if most people (myself included) spend fraction of lazy online time out in the physical world the chances of meeting the right person(s) would be ten folds. possibly part of the joy for some is having a hobby they can pursue at home or for some discreetly at work. Otherwise with millions of people dating for friendship, relationship and sex online, nobody would come short of tangible numerous contacts.I also agree with the fact that some are luckier than others:Current EG I have seen a lucky ugly (yes over-rated but indeed ugly) man here on RHP blessed by a few angels that actually worship him and he has no talent to compile a decent profile, put up a quality photo or have anything that stands out great about him.Is it Black Magic or simly being luckier lol

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RHP User

16 years ago

If I can add one thing my mum told me... this is probably the best piece of advice I ever got.... "smiling people get dates" Now... it's not just about smiling.... obviously it's about attitude. Escapepod, that really truly ugly man you've described.... I think you are being very superficial because that dude is obviously smiling. lolz... now... where was I? Oh.. that's right... I was day dreaming about all the mischief I could get up to with Tammy and Sweetpetite.. hehe. Hugs Gazza

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RHP User

16 years ago

Lovecurvie.. lolz... the difference between a straight man and a bi-curious man is around four beers and an opportunity... hehe. Tugs Gaz

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RHP User

16 years ago

lol....I suspect you are right LoveCurvie..But do ya really think the beers would be needed? I do have do agree with you and yes..It all comes to common sense in having some kinda of profile and manners when you send a message. Nice pics counts too. I reply to my messages and flirts and sometimes I even get thankyou messages for just taking time to reply to them. Gaz ...Smiling and the whole world smiles with you...lol..I was in chatroom last night and a guy said to me that I am always smiling..I told him it just takes less energy to smile... smile smile smile...sweetpetite41

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RHP User

16 years ago

“Now please, let’s not waste time here. Both u and I know that you have an inner craving to suck onto my 11 inch long, and 3 inch thick cock, until it quivers and shudders, and explodes a good 6 to 7 copious and hot gushes of thick, white baby juice, rght down yr expectant and eagerly awaiting throat. Now come on, let’s make a bet, just for the fun of it, hey< If you can fit my huge, purle and bulging knob, and more than half of my juicy length down your throat, I’ll shout tea. What do you say to that, darlin’??”There... are... no... words....

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16 years ago

Just would like to add that it does annoy me that people who I have not met or even had any kinda of message exchange with send requests to be added to my friends list.....Gosh do they think I am that easy???? ...Trolling trolls...LOL... sweetpetite41

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RHP User

16 years ago

firstly.... Dad, GREAT advice, i absolutely think you hit the nail on the head with EVERYTHING you have said. personally my interest cant be sparked from a profile consisting of all "ask me"s in the tabs, and "ill come back update this later" or "i want to fuck with anyone or everyone who will have me"..... and their messages to me simply say either "lets fuck" or "how are you".... seriously... i cant think of anything to say to these people....??? i have replied to a few with a simple "no thanks, not interested or im fine thankyou"... then i tend to just ignore them after that coz i really dont know what else i can say??? as for that "ugly man" i really dont know who that is referring to (and think its best to keep that to yourself as its not a very nice thing to say), BUT! i agree with Gaz... COME ON... that is SO superficial... he may have a beautiful, stunning mind that drives the ladies wild.... beauty really is so much more than skin deep. appearance honestly is irrelevant to me personally, because i NEED that mental connection first. attitude really is a big deal too... and try to let your personality shine through your words, that will help more than something cold and heartless. try to spark a bloody conversation please guys in your messages to people... i try to respond at least once to all the messages i recive, either positively or politely saying im not interested, but some of you really dont make it easy for me!!!i also DONT add people to my friends list that i have had NO contact with. these requests will be automatically REJECTED by me. i cant call you a friend if i have not even exchanged messages with you.theres jemmas two cents.... and my rant for the year also... LOL

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RHP User

16 years ago

You have to think if some one is not blessed phycically and thay are still do well then they have to be doing some thing right. Once you hook a persons mind they the physical goes right out the widow...

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16 years ago

A response to the friend list which I think is slightly off topic for the original question but who care's gunna write it anyway..... We had a rule that unless we had met and played or met and intended to play we wouldn't add you to our friend list. Now however we have chatted to a few other's, interacted in forum's etc and now extending the rules to include these guys. HOWEVER - we are put off by people with long friend's lists as we assume rightly or wrongly that there is no chance all these people could have spoken or met regularly with that couple?? anyway my 2 cents.....now off to accept a friend

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RHP User

16 years ago

I always have four beers in the fridige LOL i sould really drop the word curious off my profile I think I am a little passed that bi now LOL

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16 years ago

And isnt that a wonderful way to say hello FFS you wonder just how devoid of reality some people are. I bet he plays with the pixies at the bottom of his garden as well.

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tamworthguy46

16 years ago

I am so behind in these forums that i didn't realise the intended gang bang on our good friend Gaz.......So we have the delightfull seductress miss Sweetpetite with the "7 strap on.....And the wikedly kinky miss jemma with the super dooper donga !.......don't worry gaz she doesen't use it to prop up that table with the missing leg.....but i did use it one day to chock the wheel of my car when the handbrake wasn't working !... I not quite sure what my proposed role is supposed to be yet , weather moral support, towel and lube boy, or the lure of musky armpits ? Gaz ..you make me sound like such a cheap Slut....4 beers Realy..?.....I don't drink beer, I drink 12 yo Wild Turkey !...lol

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RHP User

16 years ago

but form what i read .... sound advice curvie - my advice lust7 - i dot think you should take them literally - but good luck :)

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16 years ago

This one takes the cake so far... I've never ever corresponded with this guy at all, no interaction with him whatsoever, but over the years, through the various different profiles I've had he's always sent me something nasty, completely unsolicited, usually something along the lines of me being asian therefore I'm a prostitute. This one tops the lot... 'hahha your a HIV watching to happen....but look what you have written its so hipocritical.' This is what his profile says.. About Myself Very laid back and non stressed always thinking about others needs before mine. Im Cute, sensual, a genuine DTE guy who loves to do my own thing when I want .....but I will go out of my way for nice caring people. My Ideal Partner Wanting laid back playmates for just that PLAY . GUYS im STR8 .....please no more msgs though I am flattered. Alot of pretenders on here claiming to be laidback but are wound so tight their about to snap in two. **ozlion** Beware this one is a real NUTTA people so beware ... ** BondiBeachPair ** Beware he is an absolute COCK whos that up himself and has the dreaded GREEN EYED monster issue!!! This is definitely a case of actions speak louder than words.

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RHP User

16 years ago

Block button hun xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx. I hope RHP get rid of him ANd.....Hope he is not in WA...lol Kisses Sweetpetite41

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