Honest question: Do guys actually care about stretch marks and loose skin?

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  PartnersnCrime

  2 days ago

  First of all, congratulations on the weight loss. That takes real commitment and you should be proud! You're asking this question on a forum where maybe a handful of people will respond. Some will say they don't care, some might say they do. Does that give you any kind of meaningful picture of the world and the people in it? Not even close. What I can tell you is go out there and enjoy your new body, your sexuality, your life, your adventures. You've earned all of it. If you meet a guy who makes you feel the way your ex did, that's not a reflection of your body. That's a reflection of him. And that's your cue to run. Run as its not your type of guy. Don't let a handful of opinions, online or otherwise, shape how you feel about yourself. Find your people. They exist, and they'll make you wonder why you ever worried about this at all.

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  PandaAndBri

  2 days ago

  Firstly there is absolutely zero logical reason for someone to make you feel this way. You scars/marks are proof that you’re still winning. Anyone with an aversion to skin features is in for a very long road of disappointment. We ALL have our stories etched in our scars/marks. Secondly you will find others like myself out there who absolutely adore recovered skin (Scars/Marks/Textures) never feel the need to hide them away, you may very become even more confident and comfortable than you ever imagined. Your skin will always be your truth, and beautiful. Panda 🐼

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  BarberBoss1981

  2 days ago

  I had my daughter when I was young and I was huuuuge...left me with stretch marks on my stomach that I have believed for decades, are disgusting. But I can tell you I have been in a room with 20 naked people and the only one worried about them is me. One thing I've learned in the last few years is that confidence is sexy and far outweighs any perceived physical imperfection. On a side note, I bet your skin feels soft as fuck!!!!!

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  Funnexperiences

  2 days ago

  It is so horrible of your ex to make you feel that way. There are so many people out there that find stretch marks attractive or don’t care about them. I personally find stretch marks attractive, especially on the tummy and hips

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  Zpaset

  2 days ago

  Love yourself and your body and everyone else will too. I personally love anything someone shares with me but the only person who's opinion matters is yours ❤️

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  BlueSpark

  yesterday

  I'm so sorry to hear your ex did that to you! Little things like stretch marks and skin are a common part of life, very few normal people will look like super models or porn stars. To answer your question, no, it doesn't bother me at all. I've been with a few women before who did an amazing job losing weight, and my girlfriend is a mother which has its own list of impacts, none of it detracts from the experience in the slightest.

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