M49
Horny with no relief
February 10 2018
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RHP User
8 years ago
Get a Hooker? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
No lovin' on your 40th? That's a bit harsh. Maybe tell her that if it's a no go from her then you'll find some on RHP. That should do the trick.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Dam! Nothing get her in the mood? Put on some aftershave, pour her some bubbly, feed her some strawberries, play sexy jams with porn on mute? If that don’t work well hmm that’s a tough one hope you get your release soon. - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
8 years ago
Don't forget to thank (who ever it is) for bringing your blue balls, back to its natural color. 😎😝 Ms Foxy PS-hope your wife doesn't notice the color change. 😉
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
We wonder why she does not want to touch you ? BTW, the mess on the floor in the background of one of your photos speaks volumes about you - best clean up your act mate. Most unattractive. - Posted from rhpmobile
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MissRedFox
8 years ago
Return the favour for their birthday ? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
And her five daughters, they are always up for it and always satisfy.
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RHP User
8 years ago
She's blue...too! 😆🙃😈 - Posted from rhpmobile
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gazpacho
8 years ago
Mate go on strike. In 12 months time she will notice. Grab a quick head job down at the local surf club toilets. Hugs Gaz
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NudesRus
8 years ago
That's fucked. You should always be able to get a birthday root. 😍 I'm pretty sure it was in the marriage vows. I hope she got you a bloody good present. Saint DC 😇 It's Sunday morning, why aren't you at church?
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RHP User
8 years ago
... that it's most likely to be one of two things: 1) you did something to make her mad at you. 2) there is some other issue as to why she doesn't want to get intimate with you, possibly health or well being related. Either way you can't complain but the first one at least you could try apologising? - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
We were at Church already at 9am :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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gazpacho
8 years ago
There are a zillion more potential reasons. I recommend going together to see a shrink for marriage counselling. Life’s too short to be trapped in a miserable sexless relationship. This guy needs serious help. He feels alone and this forum is his outlet for relief. That’s good because he is relatively anonymous here and we are good listeners who, perhaps have been there and done that? No birthday root? Does she even care about him anymore? It’s enough to drive a man away. She probably doesn’t even notice, or if she does, she’s daring him to leave her so she can tell all her friends what a cunt he was. Fact is, he’s obviously a nice guy in a bad situation. No birthday root? It’s the last fucking straw! Where’s the love gone? What’s next? Where did I go wrong? All these questions in his head, and blue balls in his shorts. A man can only last so long in this frustrated relationship before mistakes are made. Hurtful and resentful mistakes. Drag her off to marriage counselling buddy. You need to know what’s in her head and she isn’t saying. No birthday root. It’s a sign. If you need a boys night out, we are here for you mate. Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
8 years ago
i think there more to this story
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RHP User
8 years ago
Midget hookers are on special 2🙇🙅🙆 for the price of one!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Mess. Socks everywhere. Remember to put your wallett in your shoes not your socks. That way the hookers don't rob ya while your pants are down
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RHP User
8 years ago
Some people seem to live out there lifes on here. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Gas said some prophetic words. But I wouldn’t drag her off to marriage counseling. If she doesn’t want to go, then you can’t make her. Mrs 300 and I coincidentally both came from sexless marriages, divorced and then met each other. We have been making up for lost time in a big way. Good luck with it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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EarthQueen
8 years ago
If she won’t give you something special for that it’s not good. I think you need to express how that makes you feel to her. If you can’t do it yourself do what Gaz suggests. If you are posting on here about it clearly it’s upset you and you are going to have ongoing resentment unless you open the lid on that can of worms. Good luck. - Posted from rhpmobile
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bonefide
8 years ago
Don't forget to thank (who ever it is) for bringing your blue balls, back to its natural color. Ouch LOL
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RHP User
8 years ago
Hit one of the friends in your friends list up?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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bonefide
8 years ago
1horn3yguy many have stated communication is the epicenter of an good relationship. Gaz gave great insight to paths u can take. The path u take is the one with best results for "both" of you. People do grow apart, just as much as some grow together. Don't lose heart, we all have challenges, some good, some bad, and some challenges are just stack up against us. Bset of luck mate.
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gazpacho
8 years ago
I just read this on FB in a similar thread about when it’s ok to cheat.... “Man who spend too long in dog house end up in cat house” Well, I laughed. Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thanks for all the support everyone. it's great to hear everyone's point of view. without going into to much detail, there is lots going on in the background. The wife has had a traumatic childhood, rape and such, plus medical issues, type 1 diabetic, epilepsy, plus has boarderline. I should have never really gotten into the relationship and have my kind nature to blame. We now have 3 kids (all girls). I do love the wife, well i have a strong sense of love for her. However, through the child births and medical issues and her boarderline, a lot of stress has been put on our relationship. We have had marriage counselling but the wife called it off because she felt the Councillor was siding with me to much. I do have my own counselling also but that's mainly a vent session and motivational improvement for my work. I do think I would be better off if I did leave. However, I do fear the break up, the crushing loss of someone you feel you love, and worse of all, the separation from my girls. I don't know if anything will come of this by coming on here, but the expressing of my sexual frustration and some tension release makes things easier to cope with, with the help of a little joint here and there really helps with dealing with everything going on. Plus if things do go all to pieces, having people to chat with here helps and possibly, some kind soul may help shelter me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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gazpacho
8 years ago
I think we need to be a bit selfish at times for our own well being. I appreciate sticking it out for the kids, if you can bear it. Everyone comes with some baggage so I’m not about to start dissing the missus. I will say this, though, just between you and me.... if she is willing, can you let her find her own shrink, someone she trusts, then ask her if you can attend some sessions for relationship building? Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
8 years ago
Is your wife having any individual counselling or therapy? Hopefully she is, and hopefully it's something suited to her situation given that a background of significant trauma requires therapy that takes that into account. A few sessions of CBT doesn't cut it and if it's done with someone who isn't specifically trained in treating people with trauma backgrounds then it can do more harm than good. Your profile suggests that you have already made the decision to look elsewhere for sex. I'm not going to comment on that, except to say that I do hope you give careful consideration to the potential implications of your actions for your wife and children as well as for yourself. I would also suggest finding someone suitably trained in trauma and BPD to talk to yourself. They can help you understand your wife's thoughts and behaviour, as well as help you work through your own feelings.
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RHP User
8 years ago
If you think sticking around is helping them, don't bet on it. Kids know when shit is going on and from my experiences (recently shared and deleted by some jealous wowser) it effects them. And your wife, if you think she's having trouble now with her past issues, wait till you add the present ones to the picture. That's speaking as someone who can relate from the woman's and children's perspective and not just a 'me' perspective. Alien sex fiend has a far more caring POV than I am feeling at the moment.
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