RHP

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Hot Date?

December 12 2012

Well I thought it would be easy to find a hot, cute, yummy man for a night this weekend....but it seems sometimes that when people say yes, they really mean no, or something else better comes up. Now I know it's going to make me sound whingy....but you get your hopes up...book a room and then things start to change. Rant over lol...merry Christmas

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Not as easy as what you first thought is it lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    we've had the same thing happen and spoke to others who have too.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    If you were closer... i would put my hand up... but ur not (thats the main reason why people whinge on here).   Secondly, really, are you really going to get the person you want... lol hell no... all the deviots, like me, will come forward first...then if you're lucky you might get something worthwhile... nah just kidding ;-)   I have to agree, a lot of people expect too much... infact when you're a really nice person and people dont even consider you without testing the water before-hand. Have a chat at least, ask, find out, then make your decision.   Im sure that a lot of people are wondering why ??? Why did I choose looks over whole personality and charisma, looks aren't everything. Yes there are weirdo's on here, but some worse than others.   Do your homework people and enjoy the best time that you deserve...   :) keep smiling

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    You do sound whingy...

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'hardtruckin2011'You do sound whingy... I think when you get told a yes.....make arrangements and then get let down...you're entitled. But then you're entitled to your opinion too lol

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Ah, shit. I'm whinging about HT whinging about Fourhands' whinging.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'hardtruckin2011' You do sound whingy... Oh Truckin' , if only you knew ! pmslMerry Christmas to you too !

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I feel your pain , you get better at weeding bullshit the longer you are here . LOTS of single men here are not who they say they are - biggest thing I learnt this year from my sexual expression ( that's my way of saying I fucked a few men ) was that men are not as simple and as sexual as I thought , in fact they seem more scared and fragile than most women I met . There ARE good ones out there though , don't give up , just get better at screening the bullshit :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I think some men are scared of a confident sexual woman......my hub used to say that. I don't mind either way.... just mind when things go along well and all appears to be good and then the change of plan....and the fact that it's me always probing...rather than peope being brave enough to say no, sorry I have something else on... When youv'e booked a room it can be just a fraction annoying. We have though met 2 guys prior to this and it has all been good (not through here). I manage to have a good metre for working out whether someone is going to back out...so always have a plan B option. This weekend will encompass a nudey beach and strippers...2 things I haven't done before...so it's all good I appreciate your insight! Thanks

  • erotictouch4u

    erotictouch4u

    13 years ago

    4Hands...I have had a missed appointment while travelling to the meeting place but it was with a couple who had transport problems. Things happen even with the best organisation so working out a contingency plan beforehand, like making sure the room booking can be transferred to another date without loss of deposit if required is an important one I do. Usually telling them a business emergency has arisen that requires you to change the booking date will work, especially if you initially tell them you are staying for business. ET xox

  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    13 years ago

    Deliciousclpbris - I agree 100% But I now go by - no expectations = no disappointments I no longer worry if ppl cancel or come up with some excuse, because when they walk away someone better walks in!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Someone pass me the sugar please.... ;-) x mmm

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Easy is boring....I'm not waiting for just 'any' man to come along...otherwise it would be lol

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'howaboutsayinghi'Someone pass me the sugar please.... ;-) x mmm I'm a firm believer of seeing the positive and if its meant to be it will happen

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting '50zcool' Quoting 'hardtruckin2011' You do sound whingy... Oh Truckin' , if only you knew ! pmsl Merry Christmas to you too !I lubs you 50z.....

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    have already got an alternative day sorted...so its all groovy and the room can still be cancelled all good