RHP

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M52

Hot List But Not Contact?

August 23 2011

I'm wondering why someone would hot list you but not send you a wink or message if they are in the same city?   I'm a paid member(have been for over5 years)so can and happy to reply to genuine people.   Interested why people don't take that next step to make contact if they are attracted to someone?   Your thoughts?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    ...and girls like a boy to make the first flirt. The hotlist is just to register their interest or perve at your pics.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Hot list but not intact..... Man.. I have to get my glasses prescription adjusted. I honesty thought this thread was going to be about foreskin!HugsStalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    What I came in here to say actually blah blah something , yeah it's a real pain in the butt such and such, but GAWD!! It has to be said, why on earth am I so easily and completely sidetracked by a hard on in a pair of jocks just one of those things I spose

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    At one stage .. you were not of choice ... .but then you got superseded by other contenders and potentials .. and they were just a bit to lazy to take you off the list .... or they are saving you in reserve for when the other encounters fail ... Least its better then being totally unseen and / or ignorred

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    It's just a cock to the left. And then a cock to the right. With your hands on your hips. You bring you knees out wide. But it's the pelvic thrust... That really drives you insane Let's do the fuck me again. Let's do the fuck me again. Let's do the fuck me again Ah! Oh! Oh! Yeoooww...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    At the moment we put people on our hotlist mainly because we've let our paid membership lapse and we'll get in contact if we decide to renew. Sometimes it used to be because we've looked at their criteria and we're not matching up enough but we're hoping if we keep checking back they may have changed it enough that we can justify getting in touch :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    They only put us guys on the "hot list" because they think it will give us a hard on. | Sneaky women...glad it doesn't work.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Maybe it's coz they want to quickly make a list of possibles and then later go thru them and select the ones they want to flirt with. I used to do that on other sites.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Ok there's a shortlist option. But hotlist , well it just sounds hotter doesn't it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Nice cock btw :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Being on a hotlist means that your realtime info will tell you when that person is on line and you will get info on your thread about what they answer in the forums, update pics etc

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I've done this but only because I'm a guest and can't send a message. When I see another female guest that I think is attractive but she is also only a guest, I might put her on my hotlist as a compliment. If the person is a member, I send a flirt requesting that they message me. I know this has nothing to do with your situation, I just thought I'd share. In your case, I'd have to say, if a person has told you you're hot and left it at that, then the ball's in your court. What are you going to do with it???