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Hot Lists help :-)
February 15 2014
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rupamohan
12 years ago
We believe in meeting or move on. If we ever run out of winks we may hotlist members to remind us to contact them asap and then take off the list. If we find us in other's hotlist with no real reason. We may block them to make our profile invisible. It has nothing to do with being unfriendly. It is just and administrative decision to keep privacy high.
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sweetgem
12 years ago
Nowadays, I use my Hotlist as my Friendlist, so that only me know who my friends are, and not the general RHP public! I used to have some friends on my Friendlist and and a few validations, but guess what, it has attracted all sorts of men from outside my preferred age group to send me flirts and emails non-stop! And it's still happening because I have recently changed my profile pic! It is rather annoying to have received the unwanted flirts and messages everyday, frankly speaking! But hey, people don't care and they only do as they pleased!!! 😡 As for whether there is any value or not to you been tagged as hot, I don't think anyone can really answer that question for you, except for those who have tagged you! Only them know why they would want to add you onto their Hotlist, without even spoken to you first! :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I checked mine and like you too I'm on a lot of people's hotlists. Personally I feel like it's being stalked. 90% of these people I haven't had an interaction with. I have no one on my hot list. I don't even know what's it's for besides what you mentioned - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
When you're on someone's hotlist, apart from them seeing when you log on, everything you post appears on their home feed as well. People use it to keep track of posters they like. Or stalk them.
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MissBishere
12 years ago
If you are in stealth mode do they still see when you log on? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I can't see when you log on in stealth mode... 😎 Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
12 years ago
No, they don't. Just the way I like it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Winks? did you mean flirts? Didn't know you can run out of flirts though - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think only single girls may have unlimited flirts. Not sure, I've always been a paid member. And Adult Match Maker has winks. People make that error here all the time.
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RHP User
12 years ago
More interested that you block someone who puts you on their hotlist... So that you can maintain the privacy of a profile that you put in the public domain... 😳 Sometimes I get a shooting pain in my right leg when someone hotlists me... Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
12 years ago
... and here I was thinking I was doing well with one page :S Having only heard from several pro-actively despite having a membership that allowed anyone to email on my dime I came to the conclusion Mes pointed out .... it is a way for those interested enough to want to follow your posts to be notified in their homepage feed when you do so. Does being on a shortlist do the same thing I now wonder ? How would you differentiate usage of the two lists ?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Agreed HP in as much as no point blocking them ,it is a public profile and and in all honesty probably is flattering in some way , but to hotlist and not make any contact seems like some one watching u with a pair of binoculars afraid to get to close lol , Any one got us on their hotlist care to comment Why no contact ? we also like the scratchpad idea we tend to lose track of who's who and friending every one we chat to seems pointless , thanks all J&D
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sorry HP typo ,although HP in HD might be hot :-)) xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Imprezario' Mes pointed out .... it is a way for those interested enough to want to follow your posts to be notified in their homepage feed when you do so. Just like having Twitter followers.
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Does not mean I like them, just means my Italian in me wants to bring out the violin case. Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
That way I can go back and find the posts I have posted in. Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
I just have people on my hot list who I like to cyberstalk, I know when they're online, I know what they're saying on the forums and I hear about it when they change their profile or put up more pics. Mwahahahahaha, they can't run and they can't hide 😈
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WhispersAndMoans
12 years ago
We've just discovered nine pages. Many of whom we haven't had much to do with. We can only think of two possible reasons for that number - we have been here a long time; or people like our photos and are hoping to see more? Some of those (couples) that have us on their hotlist we think are a bit of a compliment as their profiles / photos are pretty impressive too. Interesting the different uses of the hotlist. Not too sure if we could go through nine pages and do an ignore on all those we haven't had contact with / aren't interested in.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes guilty of hotlisting, and sometimes not messaging... Sometimes I just like your pics, (hello mistresseden... :) ... sometimes I want to follow your forum postings and sometimes I want to engage in carnal sins with you... mmmm... carnal sins... There are a few who I haven't messaged yet, for one reason or another... I've only got 2 weeks of membership left x 5 per day... ohh I better get busy... hp xobecause you're worth it...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Unlike another website, we can see who is 'stalking' us and ban their involvement in our online time. As has been said previously, why are we on hotlists of people that are way outside our wants, no contact from them, just hotlisted. Stalking is a crime, blocking unwanted people thwarts stalking.
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sweetgem
12 years ago
That when you're on people's hotlist, they can see when you log on, your Forums posts and profile updates, etc. ONLY IF they log in via their PC, laptop or using the full site browser on their phones! Each time I log in, I can only see whether or not my friends (who have been moved from my Friendlist to my Hotlist) are online and nothing else, because I log in via the RHP mobile app 99.99% of the time. - Posted from rhpmobile
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him_and_me
12 years ago
Quoting 'ShyPrincess74' My hot list is mostly people whose posts I find interesting on the forums, and I like to follow what they are discussing. We do that too. Some people have really intereting things to say. x Me
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RHP User
12 years ago
I haven't checked ours....(picks up girdle and runs to the hotlist room!!). Better see who's been chrcking us out......and who He_Shift's been perving on ;-P. ~ She_Shift
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him_and_me
12 years ago
Quoting 'Paradigm_Shift' I haven't checked ours....(picks up girdle and runs to the hotlist room!!). Better see who's been chrcking us out......and who He_Shift's been perving on ;-P. ~ She_Shift Has someone been at you with a permanent marker or are you wearing some kind of body suit in your profile pic?Looks like somehting you'd seen on safari. Very cool. x Me
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RHP User
12 years ago
When I arrived here my profile was On_Safari and I still am. Indagine's getting a lil old and I love my On_Safari profile name, the story begind it is a favourite :-D. I wore this bodysuit to CC's with yhe Sydney Forumites as part of our Sydney trip....lol nearly everyone wanted to touch me 😍 haha
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