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Hotel?motel ,your place or their place?
October 15 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well, for me I invite most people to the car wash. Simply because if their wierd or its just not happening, I can wash my car and part ways with them. Alot of girls don't drive so that limits it. Normally i'll pick them up and go for a drive. If their creepy or boring i'll drop them home, if they seem pretty cool i'll pull up somewhere for a yarn and a drink, normally somewhere public. The other option is to have them come round to my place. Im not the sort of guy that wants to meet just for sex, so having them come round for coffee and a chat is a good way of going about things. I dunno about most people, but for me its not all about getting laid (not anymore anyway) its not that I don't want sex, im male, of course I want it. But if we don't hit it off on a personal level. I wont move onto the sexual level.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I always prefer to meet for a drink first... and I'm not a big fan of hotels and motels... so my place if I'm a bit unsure... theirs if I feel totally safe.
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RHP User
16 years ago
It depends. While I am a friendly person and anyone who offers the benefits (my profile makes it clear I am after a friend with benefits :-) will be given a chance to meet and talk, fFor me it is important to make a decision on the direction of the friendship. If I like them and strike good conversation and find physical attraction/chemistry we will do a little bit of touch/feel right there and then (even though it is most likely a public place, but I find a way to make it private- like meet in a cafe but select a seat hidden somewhere at the back). If we do hit it off we talk about the place to meet in private - and that depends on circumstances, not everyone has a place to themselves, so a nice hotel is best. Call first to make sure they are happy to give you room for a day - most places would, it is their business to hire out rooms ;-)
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RHP User
16 years ago
definitely hotel ones that have huge beds and a lounge suit for sex off the bed, we meet in the hotel bar have a drink or two. and if everybodys pleased we play.....for hours
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RHP User
16 years ago
Clubs ....... In Sydney Swingers clubs like lotus and couples ....... it just so safe for all and lets face it if we dont hit it off you can start swimming and check out all the other fish in the sea!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Behind the wood shed, under a bridge... the ladies toilets at the nearest pub, back of a ute, park bench, in the bushes at the park, down by the river, my place, your place, her place, his place, their place, a sleazy sex club, the showers at the gym, the steam room at the apartment block, the public swimming pool, the carpark at woolies, on my desk, under my desk, a theatre, a drive in theatre (lol), an airplane toilet, back seat of an airplane, a pathway to a beach, a dis-used railway track, my best mates garden shed, in the subfloor of a scouthall, a cemetary, South Head, behind a nudist beach, a gay beat (ref: squirt.org), the church gallery, a confessional, behind the sand dune, at the lookout, at the lighthouse, in the spa, a private kink party, bent over my motorbike, bent over the bonnet.. etc. Squelch, Gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
If I had a wood shed it would be a different story between us :-P unfortunately the best I can offer is the back of a ute......
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RHP User
16 years ago
First of all for me it all deprends on if I get on with someone or not. I always tell the guy (on the phone) before I plan to meet up with them that I dont like to be presured into sex and for them not to exsume they are going to get some if I meet up with them. Just the other night (wed night) I met up with a guy. We met up for dinner and drinks and got on really really well. Now as he was only passing through im pretty sure this was a once off thing only. But as I had not not had sex for 3 months and he was ticking all my boxes I thought what the hell? We went back to his hotel room and I ended up spending the night and had a lot of great sex. Next morning he dropped me home, kiss goodbye, and a very sore me, hobbled from the car lol Because I live with family (christian family) if I was to bring some random guy home id prob be disowned as sex before marriage is very frowned apon with the family I live with so its outta the question to bring a guy back to my house. So most of the time I end up going back to their hotel. Is it just me or is there something about getting it on in a hotel room thats just naughty? I love it! Though Im wondering if he got weird looks when he signed out the next morning :p I can be quite loud at times lol So for me its hotels rooms :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Just want to say taby001 sounds like such an angel!Wx
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RHP User
16 years ago
For us it is usually meet somewhere local and then if all is good organise either a time or just head on back home to our "rumpus shed" where we have couches, mirrors, wood fire, massage table, TV etc all purfect for entertaining.. or if we are having a night out at a meet and greet the motel room is always a good option.. Yes, Taby.. the motel room thing.. mmmmm, gives the whole atmosphere a wicked naughty feel...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thanks people for the replies "in the subfloor of a scouthall" .... that sounds a bit cramped ... the rest are food for thought though
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tamworthguy46
16 years ago
Gee gaz .....You left out the neighbours tree house, and the trampoline....... I don't realy care where, as long as I get some !
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RHP User
16 years ago
TABY001... Awwww ... Great story... you got me... Your story so intrigued me' ' that I was almost there in that hotel room with you.. LOL... SO' my vote would be Hotel with a gurl like Taby001 for sure....... Mr Justjuice
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RHP User
16 years ago
Lol Tammy, I sold the trampoline on eBay for $50. The springs were buggered and the matt was sticky. Hehe. Motel rooms?? I'm a cheap bastard... Lolz awwwright if you insist... It's a Formular 1 motel if you have to but only if we go Dutch.... Lolz. Can't have any unexplained transactions on my credit card now can I.... I mean the accountant will rake me over the coals for the gst receipts. Lolz. Nope. In the holiday inn underground carpark lift lobby. That's about as close as I get to forking out cash for a casual root in a motel room. Lolz. Classy guy? Yeah, we're all classy. Just some think they have more than others. Hugs Gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
Is usually a motel for me, unless I feel really sure about the man - then I will go to his place if that's possible. As for the motel - to go dutch is fair but always meet somewhere public first to see if you both click, if you don't then no harm done & no-one left payin for an unused room. Is easy to shop around online for budget rooms that are clean & comfortable enough for the purpose you are there for lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
I feel once people have met somewhere safe and established a connection the rest can follow naturally. It does not matter if it's his/her place. However, should there be a hindernace due to privacy reasons for either, 5 star Hotels can be the best choice.For those who have limited budget but enjoy the quality atmosphere and time together perhaps can take turns in organising the place, reservations, selections etc.This time the guy can book a top hotel & Spa and pay for everything and next time she can do so if happy to.You will then have varirty of top locations knowing the other person with you is either surprised with your arrangements or done it themselves and naturally happy with the choice.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Uncomfortable/Fearful woman are not a turn on for me so it all depends on the woman. I would prefer to meet somewhere where she is most comfortable and a place where she can decide if she wants to go further or not. And I think going dutch is the best way to go if you want to book a room. I don't think I would be very impressed if I spent a huge amount of money on someone if I had only met her. Later on though, if we hit it off, then I would want to pamper her.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Their place or a hotel, have done the car thing, not interested in that again!Can't play at mine, too many people there. :(
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