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How can I know the difference?

September 04 2024

how do you know if someone is interested

one night stand vs long term relationship

Hi everyone. I'm trying to comprehend, understand and trying to read these situation that I have being for some time. Please help me out here. I got in contact and chatting with these wonderful woman, something completely new for me the way that happened. A hour later we decided to meet at these pub for a drink and see if was a connection or nothing in particular. For me is a very odd situation. Last minute, impulsive, completely out of ordinary, and not far from home. Getting there, she turned out to be, 100% my type of woman by choice and by heart. We finished the night together and was totally what I always wanted my woman to be like. So manage to see her once again, and the connection I felt made me reverse back to my teenage years, shy and speechless, to a point that I stopped making sense completely. Basically going from meet & greet nothing to lose cenario to I really like these women and want to see her again and try to be with her. So. That is my delema, Girls, how do I know (what are the signs) that is a one off thing or that we have a chance to take a different approach and become something bigger!? How should I approach without compromising? What can I do? And please, once again, if you have nothing relevant to say, just do a favour to all of us keeping your comments to your self. I'm a foreigner so English is my 5th language, so don't be petty. To everyone else willing to help me with my dilemma Thank you in advance.

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FeistyFatty

one year ago

Have a discussion with her. Pretty simple

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MsSuperFoxy

one year ago

Hi Mask, Did you let her know at the end of the night, you would like to see her again or something like that? Outcome? Does she want to see you again? What you can do is listen (like really listen), observe her body language, gestures and expressions, whilst at the same time controlling your emotions as you don’t want to come across as too full on/pushy. It's early days- let it ride its self naturally. Just be yourself without being smug or cocky as that will turn her off. Best of luck. Ms Foxy

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nightingale8

one year ago

Sometimes the stars don’t align and you’re just not looking for each other at the same time (a relationship might not be what she’s looking for right now). Or maybe she wasn’t feeling the same connection you felt for her. Not necessarily your fault, just a hard thing to take when things don’t work out how you wanted. I like your posts and approach. I hope you find your match.

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Mask_007

one year ago

Thank you very much everyone, point taken!

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