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How do i convince my gf to do an mmf threesome
February 12 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
please :)just simply ask her out straight it is rare for a guy to ask that of his mrs usually its the other way round and them wanting another female!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
yes i would with a photo like that very sexy and yum
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RHP User
16 years ago
Start with being honest to her about your request..If you can't be open honest and be able to talk about your sexual fantasies or desires then theres something wrong... And don't try and convince her if she says NO... TIT
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RHP User
16 years ago
my wife and i have had lots of dirty talk about this topic and can't wait for it to happen again. maybe try bringing it up in a subtle manner during 'play' while she's at her most horniest. the trick for us is finding the right dick. all we want from them is their dick, not personality, attitude, ego or expectations to find anything more. sounds selfish but anyone we choose has to realise they're there for us, not them. that's the hard part, but hey...everyone's different.
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RHP User
16 years ago
hotazice, will you be my lawfully wedded wife till death do us part...at the groin?
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RHP User
16 years ago
All i can say is be sure of your relationship and how she feels about u..... I would suggest you say something to her in bed while ur fucking..or even get a porno wiht lots of MMF action..see how turned on she gets and then ask her if that is something she would like.. Good luck....
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RHP User
16 years ago
or is that angus buddy.(scottish accent) see you jimmy.ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaEarl
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RHP User
16 years ago
Never try to convince anybody to do anything because if it goes pear shaped then you're in the shits. If she does it to only satisfy you and does not enjoy it you will cop a lot of grief and it's not worth it. You could maybe subtly bring it up about a "friend" who did it and enjoyed it and then see what her reaction is. If she doesn't go there then forget it. Maybe with the seed planted she may think about it at a later date but leave it alone until she brings it up. Much better to be her idea... then she is sure to enjoy it and if she doesn't then she won't be blaming you. Mrs D
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RHP User
16 years ago
try to convince her. If she says no then leave it. If she does it just to please you, then it will do her head in and she will feel bad about herself!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
i think its fucking hot as a MMF.. soo jealous but soo turned on at the same time!!! mmhmmm!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thanks for the feedback everyone, really helpful, gonna have to get a raincheck for that marriage hotazice lol. xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
We've had the discussion with my wife, but she is not that keen. Says that she would do it for me, but I would not enjoy it as I want for her to have fun as well. Her favorite porn is mmf, double and triple penetration, and some times during sex she would consider another dick, but in conversations outside of sex, she is against it. She is more inclined to having another girl to join us, but the major concern is the cleanliness of that person (talking about various diseases). How do you ensure that the person you bring in is healthy and clean. With guys it is easier because they can use condoms. Any suggestions???
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RHP User
16 years ago
If you have to convince her, it should not be done! simple really.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Just bring it up though (at a time when you are talking about sex). If she is a maybe then its a maybe. If you put yourselves in the action often enough over a long enough period of time - every fantasy that you could ever imagine is possible. Our personal prefernece is with people we know and like and its not so much about the dick, its more about the person. Each to their own though. If she says definitely not - then ask again in a year but don't push it or you might find that all fun with others gets shut off or worse you might harm your relationship (and isn't that more important?). Next party 6th March for those in or coming to Tas. tassieswingers xxx sms only for phone please
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RHP User
16 years ago
You say you have the 'obvious pros'... are they what she considers a pro? Maybe start her on an average sized dick instead of MONSTER COCK... or even just a dildo or an iceblock to suck on while you fuck her? Most MFMs I've been involved in have been oral and vag. No anal. In fact, I have never done anal. Take the approach that the experience is about HER pleasure and focus on that. Not what YOU will get out of it. And also.. try to respect the single guy and consider his wants and needs. I'm pretty sick of hearing couples go on about how it's all about them and the guy is just their warmed up dildo holder. If I treated couples like fuckmeat then I'm pretty sure I'd get nowhere, and yet so many couples seem to think it's totally acceptable to do to single guys. I'm better than that, and I won't put up with it. Oh and obviously if she has all out said NO, then drop it. As everyone has said, she'll just resent/blame you if it doesn't go well. Hope it helps.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ya cant make anyone do something they dont want to or it will end in tears and wont be worth the hassle anyway. I suggest you do what we do, and make a wish list with 10 things ya want and swap them, that way she is aware and maybe after she has done some other things she might be up for it....wish lists do not have a timeframe btw. You may do something off them or maybe two in one weekend and then maybe nothing for 6 months. But that gives her time to suss it out and see if it is for her. In the meantime ya is at least having fun with the other things that it may not even matter any more if u dont get around to it, as one gets knocked off the list you replace it with another. Not all wishes can be devious either, could be anything really from a candlelit spa under the stars to something risky like sex in an elavator. Just what ever you want. Good luck. Lots of fun oooo and brilliant for nice surprises or romantic evenings coz ya know what each other want. Hwo could ya go wrong. xxMiss Honeyxx <<< loves wish lists and making Headmasters wishes come true mmmmmm
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thanks everyone for your feedback - and don't worry if its a no i'm not gonna push any harder cause i know the calibre of the situation, and no absolutely no anal, too painful especially with her. just vaginal and oral penetration, hence the other big dick so it can be insane for her because she's pretty crazy when she gets into it, and i know her well enough to know as soon as she gets a taste of it she'll go wild.
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RHP User
16 years ago
she'll come around...maybe my wife and i have had lots of dirty talk about this topic and can't wait for it to happen again. maybe try bringing it up in a subtle manner during 'play' while she's at her most horniest. the trick for us is finding the right dick. all we want from them is their dick, not personality, attitude, ego or expectations to find anything more. sounds selfish but anyone we choose has to realise they're there for us, not them. that's the hard part, but hey...everyone's different hey guys if ever your in need of a guy that will do whatever you guys want, as long as its totally straight, hit me up. i wont make it about me, i'm just a tool for YOUR sexual pleasure.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey there Mr Dylkat, Can I suggest you don't. Convincing some one in particular a partner to do something they are not comfortable can surely only leed to regret from one or both of you in the long run! We took YEARS literally chatting about the pro's and cons of this lifestyle and then more about the type of play and then even more about our rules ! No convincing on either side I have a rule that if Mrs looking doesn't like the idea "can it" till she brings it up. We have so far "cross legs" ;-) have had a very fruitful swinging career ! so it has worked for us ! Enjoy Good "comms" to all sexy swingers
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