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How do people go about asking someone to join
June 15 2014
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RHP User
12 years ago
Being new to this we have also found ourselves in the same situation asking the same question. And would be interested in hearing others opinions on this as well.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Practice I would imagine. Although I assume you are talking about when you are out at nightclubs and bars and things. Because going up to a couple at Coles and asking them if they are bi while wanking suggestively on banana would definitely be creepy. you know? You go up and strike up a conversation and if things are going well after awhile, maybe you can say that you are swingers or something along those lines. I think people that are interested will start asking you questions about it or if you are lucky will say that they are into the scene as well. Don't ever be pushy about it. Maybe if someone is a little uncertain you can give them your number and you never know, they may contact you. Good luck.
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RHP User
12 years ago
By the way, at swingers clubs people don't go around asking each other if they are bi. It is customary to ask "what are you into" and go from there. For example, I can say to a man. I have a strapon in my bag and I can immediately tell if they are into it just from their body language and the look in their eyes. Although some people have eyes I just can't read, but I can always read naughty peoples eyes. I suppose it takes one to know one.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's bananas in the top of the trolley isn't it ? Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's bananas in the top of the trolley isn't it ? Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's bananas in the top of the trolley isn't it ? Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's bananas in the top of the trolley isn't it ? Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Following with interest, often wondered how i ask someone if they want to join my husband and i without looking like a creep
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Highpriority' It's bananas in the top of the trolley isn't it ? Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it... lol, Shouldn't that be Bananas & Cucumber at the top of the trolley sitting beside a tube of lube whilst asking in a sleazy voice "So what are you doing tonight"
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thingsandstuff... I'll try it today and get back to you... 😄😄 Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just start chatting. A little bit of innuendo and touching of both the male AND particularly the female. A light hand on the arm or back as you talk to her. It's just like picking up a guy only. You get an idea about how they feel by what they say. I wouldn't pick someone up at coles but other places are pretty easy. Usually the guy gets what you want faster than his lady friend.
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RHP User
12 years ago
The only reason we ask is we've seen a few people who to us look great in the pub but was unsure how to ask them without looking like a weirdo
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