M45
How do women feel knowing the guy is married and still sleep with him
March 14 2019
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
How will Cheating on your wife spice up your marriage? Reading through your profile wording, most women will probably be put off
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Rlee552
7 years ago
The woman on this site are spoilt for choice. Given that, I suspect they will not want to enter into, or be part of, your situation plus the risk of the associated drama. That being said, I have seen a few profiles where people have indicated they want to meet attached people. However, these are few and far between.
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teamaj2
7 years ago
SilentJ81 I will try my best to comment without judgement. Firstly , I’m wondering if by posting this on the forum you are hoping to draw attention to your profile . How playing outside of your marriage can ‘spice up ‘your relationship I’m unsure . I can only speak for myself. Like all profiles on here it’s very personal. Speaking for myself I have no interest and I’m beginning to wonder why I’m posting a comment . Not wanting to sound harsh . Perhaps your search will bring you some like minded souls . On a positive note - wishing everyone a fun filled amazing weekend .
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FredAndGinger2
7 years ago
50 Shades of wrong 50 Shades of nit a chance buddy
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
Yeah but nah..... your profile wording is swipe left material. Im a 1 percenter here as I prefer and have more attraction to cheating married men. Don't know why, just do. But reading your profile, you will struggle to get anywhere i think. Just because You are married and doing the wrong thing DON'T expect a willing lover to make all the allowances for your choice. No face pics is a prime example...... i know myself and there's no way in hell I'd meet a man without seeing some face pics first....... and if pics are like pulling teeth, I get over that fast.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Nope nope nope Look, some girls might be into it, but fuck I just think of your poor wife. Man up, tell her somethings not working, and concentrate on fixing what’s wrong before hurting her.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Points for honesty for sure and realise lots of people potentially are on here in a similar situation but don’t say. Not all relationships are perfect - some lack key aspects of what is required, some fade and dwindle over time as you become used to each other and maybe take each other for granted. Looking for it here won’t change what you have at home. Address what’s wrong at home first then see where you stand and what your next step is.
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RHP User
7 years ago
“I want you for fun, don’t judge, do be discreet, don’t have pubic hair” That’s what I’m getting from your profile to be honest (and offer you the judgment you say you don’t want but seem to be seeking) there’s not many women I think who will be chomping at the bit to be your side “fun”, Probably your best bet is to find one who also wants to have an affair.
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
And just to add i have lovers (past and present) who are married (no permission) and they have ALL commented that their married life is improved. They've put it down to them feeling wanted again, feeling happier, feeling less stressed. Ive also heard a remark about "not annoying and pestering the missus as much". Might feed into the OPs reference to "spicing up the marriage". Not sure.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Highlighting the word BEAT makes me wary. I think your profile is a red flag and you will be disappointed. Most women on here are looking for someone who doesn't have commitments.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yes it can be exciting to have an illicit affair.If you are bored in your marriage it might as you say "spice it up" simply because you have a dangerous secret which can blow up at any time . And yes there are women who prefer married or attached men. Why? They don't have to cook,clean,do your washing take care of your children,your elderly parents ,walk your dog ,wash your car do your shopping and after all of that ,work full or part time ..and then have the time inclination and energy to have mind blowing sex with you. So yes,there are definitely women who prefer attached men. However your profile is rather unenticing and there is a lot of competition on here.And most women will want to see a face pic..unless you can convince them that you work for ASIO. Q
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RHP User
7 years ago
Screwing around will not quell the fires of discontent that have started in your relationship, it would rather be like pouring petrol on them instead. Mind your hands!
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RHP User
7 years ago
If you want to spice up your marriage, ask your wife if she wants to join you or could you not handle her being with another man? Cheating is wrong. Playing together openly is not cheating.
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
I'm ok if it is all out in the open (both parties in the marriage are aware). The problem I have is the deceit and the removal of her choice. You are making a choice without involving her. Where's her choice in all of this? If your wife finds out, the last thing any wants is an angry woman knocking on their door. IMO, you are curious and emotionally unavailable. Most ladies do not fall for this line: "no strings attached, fun times with other women". It is red flags. There is no such thing as "no strings attached". There always will be strings. You are best off paying for a prostitute if you want "fun times", that way there is no emotional attachment. First up, at least talk to your wifeand be respectful before making any moves. Ms Foxy (PS My advice is not free. Account will be in the mail 😛)
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RHP User
7 years ago
Why not work on the marriage?? Using other people to give to you what your marriage isn’t, isn’t going to fix the issue in the marriage....it avoids it...
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'm with DC how exactly would it spice up your marriage? On another note I'm a bit over men telling us how we're all spoilt for choice 🙄 Ms PF
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
spice up your marriage ,more like fuck up your marriage when you get caught ,and maybe that wouldn’t be such a bad thing for your wife , sorry but not sorry ,just purely hate the way your thinking is going with this mr b
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boobsandbusted
7 years ago
ps and on a side notes as the male part of a swinging couple , i would put my foot down for once and not let anyone like you near my wife due to your untrustworthiness and lack of respect to your own wife , what makes you think anyone would put the relationship in jeopardy just to help your ball bag out
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Readyfors0mefun
7 years ago
We as a couple won't be in it, we always ask the question if things look like progressing further than just chat. We don't judge anyone but it's just a rule we have and we will stick to it.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'PassionFreaks' On another note I'm a bit over men telling us how we're all spoilt for choice 🙄 Ms PF Certainly ain't much choice up this way. Of course, that still doesn't mean that I would be at all interested in the OP, whose profile is about as appealing as a shit sandwich.
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RHP User
7 years ago
We all appear morally outraged but a married male guest profile only seeking women for sex isn't likely to get many messages. I'm sure this is the most messages he has ever got. Personally, we will only see couples who are committed to each other. I hate people who purpisely hirt others especially the ones they claim to love. Don't be THAT guy.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hey there. I understand you have marital issues. The biggest problem is that someone will get hurt and most probably you're wife and family. You have to look at it and weigh it all up is it worth it for a night of sex !!! I seriously dont think so. But there are prostitute parlors that are there for a service obviously with no STRINGS no exchange of phone numbers and Safe any other way that you go is going to cause heart ache and guilt.. All the best.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Esther Perel in her book “the state of affairs” puts it so well, that moral stance is very different depending on which side of the coin we are on. People against adultery find themselves entwined in a lustrous affair and have all reasons to justify their position. She states that we justify our own actions based on circumstances and judge others based on character. I am poly, all into honesty and respect. Yet for the last 3 years I’ve seen on and off a married man on a NSA arrangement. Yet I state no NSA in my profile. We are complex individuals. No one is black and white. Our circumstances and connections to others determine our actions. I don’t believe anyone here is immune to this. By all means, throw your moral stones, like I would. But in the end our actions speak louder than our words and at times they are in contradiction to our values.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I'm friends with a married woman whose husband can not and must not know.My wife is involved with a married man whose wife knows and is extremely unhappy about it, because she found them out. Enough said for now.I'm happy that Wifey and I are together in an open marriage and we support each other in our "affairs"..And in answer to your question there is a minority group of women who will get jiggy with you, for whatever reason they see fit.
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HotNightsGC
7 years ago
If your wife doesn’t know about it, then most women won’t want to meet with you. Why help a married man cheat on his wife when you can hook up with a couple or single male without the added complication? Food for thought 💭 Ms HNP.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Some women have proble dealing with it Some women don’t have a problem with it
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hi,im also married and looking for a lady for ongoing discreet fun. I wouldnt cheat to try and fix my marriage. Hope you find what you are looking for. My marriage is quite good. I do like the fact though that after i fuck my wife we go back downstairs to the loungeroom and i have a beer outside and she looks at me to see what i am doing every now and then while i am on this site trying to hook up. It is a turn on when you receive a message looking at her. So many married couples on here. Would love to share my wife. Just a dirty guy that enjoys having fun. The thrill of being married and hooking up with a married lady who appreciates the same arrangement. Met that 1 married lady who is 36 and looking for just one more.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I really hope you are listening to these responses SilentJ81
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RHP User
7 years ago
Many interesting comments but it isn't always about cheating. I know i will get svaged for my response. Im married also and i declare it, but i do that absolutely out of respect and to ensure everyone gets to make an informed decision. Also, im not here just to cheat on my wife, believing what you will but I worked very hard to make my marriage work, councelling three different times, mostly my suggestion, i tried talking things thru, ive hung in there for years. Got to a point where enough is enough, i want to seperate but my wife doesnt. I say she is a really good person but we have just grown apart. I want to be friends but she just wont let go. She turned to alcohol, she has turned some of our friends against me, she made a feeble attempt at taking an overdose and more........ All along and to this minute i have stuck by her and supported her. But i need conversation, company, passion so here i am. I could lie and say that I am single but i did what I the was right, i ticked the married box and put it in my profile..... For the right reasons. Ok, thats it, savage me, tis ok but im just being me!!
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