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How do women want to be touched?

August 01 2012

When it comes down to foreplay, it's each to there own, some enjoy extended "non-stimulating" touch and in other cases girls like it when you go straight down with the tongue.Well this fact doesn't really help my understanding when it comes to foreplay. I want to know what the ladies think on this matter. How long, how soft, and where do you like to be touched before sex? What is your personal preference?

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Body language is like learning to speak another language. Some women like French, others like soft Italian musial sound. Others like the guttural tones of Russia. So to get through the tower of babble, watch the body language.   Asking while your in the mood, not asking for a shopping list before you have sex of what is it you like I hate that question , what is it that turns you on, how do you like sex this is before you meet the guy.   How the hell would I know that till I see a guy.   Kiss baby kiss , hold that hair at the back of the neck, lean in almost kiss, snake your hand around to the small of the back.   Kiss and unlock the key to foreplay.   Undress a woman with your dexterous fingers and looks of appreciation. Make her feel your pulling tisue paper of that Xmas present you always wanted. Savour it, inhale her skin at the nape of the neck.   Trace a finger tip over a sweet puckering nipple.   Kiss the curve that swells from belly to hip bone.   Touch like you read Braille   I had a man like that not so long ago, and he never had sex with me, it was so delicious that sometimes I get wet while I am in isle six at the shopping if I think of that day. Makes me have that little smile and I cant help but touch my throat where his lips were.   Foreplay can last for weeks   Practice makes perfect and just adjust the forplay knob to suit the woman and the situation.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    A man once found a lamp, gave it a rub, and out popped a genie."Ya get one wish. What can I say, cut backs!"The man had always liked skiing in NZ but hated flying so he asked for a bridge with a road across the Tasman sea to Queenstown.The genie thought a bit and then asked if the guy had considered the environmental impact, and the amount of concrete that would have to be diverted from other projects etc. He asked the man to ask for something else.So the man asked to understand women.To which the genie said, 'One lane or two?'

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Amen tuscanred!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    You hot little mamma you !!!   Phew....settle       Ah yeah...in answer to the OPs question   How do women want to be touched...???   Well we want to be touched ALOT and OFTEN   However it isnt textbook as TR said..every women is different and all will want be touched accordingly...and thats half the fun......go with the flow, observe her and listen to her and be open to any ideas or suggestions by her......and more importantly, remember this...it all comes down to the KISS....you get the KISS rite..trust me it will all flow perfectly from there..

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    by really looking at her....look into her eyes touch her softly ,slowly nuzzle that place just below her ear kiss her there and then brush your lips against hers nibble the bottom lip and kiss her kiss her lips,her eyes,her cheeks all the while still stroking and touching her leave her breathless,wanting more run your fingers through her hair gaze into her eyes again what do you see? what do you feel? is she trembling? does she want you? unbutton her disarm her touch her skin run your lips your tongue over her body now you have begunx Hugs H

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    more please! I hope this post goes on forever so I can dip my toe in, whenever I need that warming Whoooosh and breath-gets-taken-away moment

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Yes, what Tuscan and Hesione said... I WANT TO BE TOUCHED LIKE THAT!!!!   Yes to eye contact... not googly eyes, lingering sexy eyes. Yes to touch, long body strokes from neck to nether... starting with wispy gentle almost aren't touching strokes. Yes to running fingers through hair, once again starting gently and building until full on foreplay. Yes to kissing, long lingering passionate slow sensual kissing, involving lip sucking/licking as well as intertwined tongues YES to nipple play - fingers, tongues mmm   Just follow the cues... if she is moaning and breathing is becoming deeper and heavier, and her body is squirming and she is getting wet you are doing well.   PS. watch direct stimulation of the clitoris, alot of women find its a fine line between pleasure and pain when it comes to full on direct pressure, pubic bone thrusting into your face at full force is not always a good sign...

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'MsVelvetblue' You hot little mamma you !!!   Phew....settle       Ah yeah...in answer to the OPs question   How do women want to be touched...???   Well we want to be touched ALOT and OFTEN   However it isnt textbook as TR said..every women is different and all will want be touched accordingly...and thats half the fun......go with the flow, observe her and listen to her and be open to any ideas or suggestions by her......and more importantly, remember this...it all comes down to the KISS....you get the KISS rite..trust me it will all flow perfectly from there..     There are some hotties on here that can do all that ya know. You just have to let em. Tonight a few extra minutes on the treadmill while watching eye candy, may burn of that frustration hands MS Velvet a fan. you need to do something about that sizzle :)

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I love to be stroked....to begin with. The lightest of touches...just teasing my skin. Same with a kiss...the barest brush of lips..leaving me quivering and waiting for a deeper invasion. My vulva, enjoys the lightest of attention - stroke me there and I will purr like a kitten, and when going for the clitoris....softly, softly, build it up...you need to prime her and make her ready for a more vigorous onslaught. Everyone is different though of course but for me, a gradual and gentle build up just makes me melt in all the right places.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'tuscanred'   Body language is like learning to speak another language. Some women like French, others like soft Italian musial sound. Others like the guttural tones of Russia. So to get through the tower of babble, watch the body language.   Asking while your in the mood, not asking for a shopping list before you have sex of what is it you like I hate that question , what is it that turns you on, how do you like sex this is before you meet the guy.   How the hell would I know that till I see a guy.   Kiss baby kiss , hold that hair at the back of the neck, lean in almost kiss, snake your hand around to the small of the back.   Kiss and unlock the key to foreplay.   Undress a woman with your dexterous fingers and looks of appreciation. Make her feel your pulling tisue paper of that Xmas present you always wanted. Savour it, inhale her skin at the nape of the neck.   Trace a finger tip over a sweet puckering nipple.   Kiss the curve that swells from belly to hip bone.   Touch like you read Braille   I had a man like that not so long ago, and he never had sex with me, it was so delicious that sometimes I get wet while I am in isle six at the shopping if I think of that day. Makes me have that little smile and I cant help but touch my throat where his lips were.   Foreplay can last for weeks   Practice makes perfect and just adjust the forplay knob to suit the woman and the situation. Because I'm sure I would have remembered you

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    have you never approached a stranger, whose eyes met yours and just swept her away?x Hugs H

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I've had foreplay last for 4 months and I never felt her skin.. I'm pretty sure that's what she wanted.But the net can be like that. Quoting 'tuscanred'Foreplay can last for weeks

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I always, and I mean always take my time to explore the parts of a females body that I find excite her most. But sadly' it will always get down to the time, the place, and the mood of both. Doesnt matter how much effort you put into it' if she has had a shit of a day it wont work nearly as well as it would if she was fully relaxed and seduce-able .Dont mean to rain on anyones parade, but save your best for the most opportune time... then blow her mind with unlimited caring attention.. Jay

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I will tell you of the day, with rain on a tin roof. He came to the door, he had very blue eyes. I was surprised he was taller than I thought. A casual lean and limber body, walking with the ease of a cat. He was relaxed not a hint of being nervous, and me always in control, felt it slip a little. I felt the heat in me, with his cool appraisal. I wanted to pass his visionary test. We sat in the front room and then moved to sitting on the lounge. He was not rushed, it was me that wanted to go to the bedroom. He would not take the bait. I then knew I was the fish and he was the fisherman. He had patience of the old man and the sea. In time we made it to the mattress on the floor. He kept his distance, me wanting his hands on me but not asking for fear I would beg. Then he brushed a bit of hair from my face. He traced a calloused finger down my cheek, catching the side of my mouth. Then to my chin and my neck, a steel touch with the restraint of velvet gloves. The flush of anticipation crept up my body like a lingering caresses on pale skin, the pulse in my throat, must have been so visible , a vampires dream. Then started to kiss me, mouth running it along under my chin. He hand gripped my hair at the base of my neck. I tried to control the play, but I was way out of my league. He stroked down my arm, then lifted it over my head, capturing my other hand to pin them together. He was strong, I was pliant. Rolling me so I was on my back, hooking a jeans clad leg between mine to hold me still. He was a seasoned man, weathered, from hard work. He looked down at me, as I felt my breath catch he leaned down and took what he wanted. He never undressed me, but I was naked. He never unzipped himself but I felt like he had already been in me a hundred times. For hours he played with me, touching kissing stroking me, laying back and talking. I was naked in my candour, perhaps that is his art of seduction to see what’s inside and brush aside the offering of tits and arse. so ladies tell me of a lover from here that has been good for you

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I don't agree with you on that one. I can be pissed right off, with heavy financial/emotional/whatever else problems, but if done correctly - ie, slowly, tantalisingly, whisper sweet sexy nothings in my ear, tell me how badly you want to fuck me and build up from there... and bingo, I'm good to go. Whether that be on the dining table, washing machine, in the bath or in a nice serviced room. On that note though, this is not just with anyone and everyone, the sexual attraction needs to be there.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    One day you will come accross someone who is just so horny that she just wants your cock in her Now!! Sometimes you just gotta do what your told...lolCheers Felonius

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Pure gold FF.   Theres also a rumour flying about that headaches can be a damn bitch if your partner wants sex... Don't believe it, those feel good sex hormones really can work wonders!!!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    ... like you mean it!!! ;-) "Touch" me with your heart, mind and soul; that'll get my loins hot and aching. KK

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I thought you were outta tune .. That was until I read your last sentence... 'and quote' " On that note though , this is just not with anyone and everyone, the sexual attraction needs to be there..And I said ' if she has had a shit of a day it wont work as nearly as well as it would if she was fully relaxed and seduce- able.Whichever way you read into it, it still gets back to the mood of the day and with whom.. What I was trying to say was , I save my best til the time and the person I am with is in zinc.. Mind you' wouldnt mind taking you from angry to melting if thats the way you work.. lol.. everyone to their own..

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Oh my, Mischevious and Sas, I'm in no fit state to answer these comments. Hmmmm Rammsteins Volkerball and the Fooeys Hyde Park dvd's followed by some Machine head and Slayer, washed down with half a bottle of Vodka and Half a bottle of Wild turkey American honey, tommorrow .....lolOh yeah...all typo's courtesy of Vodka and Bourbon....if someone tells me there isn't a few I will be pissed off!! or it's a miracle cure for spelling and grammar...Cheers ....FeloniuslyShit faced....and ....lovin it!!....this should be a national pastime!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' I have developed perhaps unconventional views on these things.I know that foreplay begins LONNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNG before you are even in the same place together.It starts in your mind, and you start it in her mind.... and you dont even need to be in the same country to do that.Touch me mentally and you are halfway there. Follow that up with finesse. A brush of your hand across my shoulders as you help me on with my coat. Offer your arm or hand as I negotiate the stairs in my high heels. Touch my hand across the table at dinner. Light touches that make me want more........

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I love the foreplay of touching of minds long before the touching of his lips to mine, to see that he opens doors for me and walks to the street side of me, and is polite. That he's a sexual animal but who had control and understands that a woman can have wants, desires, needs....and the taste and aroma of the skin on his neck. If thats nice, and we dance well together in that slow kind of way, I know everything else will. If our kiss is intoxicating and in rhythm with each other, its worth staying. If his hands know where to move and I can't too easily take charge then I know he's worthy and worthwhile.... If his attention is fixed on me, i'll fix mine on him. Better bring ice cubes

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Oh yes, tactile, all the senses, savour,anticipate, touch and play. There is no formula, each woman is different. Love your woman, smell, taste, touch, hear, see, talk.....Have fun together, laugh, sigh, scream in delight. Every one is different and its the spark that ignites that makes the moment....Take your time, play together, discover each other, slowly - savour and enjoy each and every precious moment....

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Hear hear! Well said....