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How do you make a woman feel sexy?
December 01 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
my workshop starts on MondayFreya Sexy Lessons for Men Consultant
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RHP User
13 years ago
If you read some of the topics, you will get plenty of hints, some women express themselves very well and say what makes them feel good, so that is a start
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RHP User
13 years ago
send emails explicitly detailing:...how good you are in bed...how big your cock is...how you will make them scream as they cum...again and again......include your mobile number, your mum's mobile number, your work number, your home number, your facebook address in case they don't do phone calls, your twiitter hashtag...in case they are twits(ters)This is guaranteed to turn them on...Ok, so that probably won't work....so try these instead...post in the forums on as many topics as possible...showing knowledge, incitefulness, cock size (just kidding)have a nice and clear profile stating your likes and dislikes...send lots of emails,don't use templates...And lastly...somewhere inside a woman's brain is the turn-on-sexually button...It is well hidden, and is always hidden in a different spot on any given day...and each woman has a different spot they hide it in...and it is your mission to find that button...cause when you do....PHWOAAARRRRRRRRR
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RHP User
13 years ago
Treat them with respect, no matter what you're both into sexually, if you treat a woman like a disposable item, they're not going to feel too great I'd imagine. I've found that remembering little details is deemed sexy, it shows that you've actually listened to the woman. That's obviously prior to any sexual contact. In the heat of the moment there are too many ways to mention as everyone has their own feelings as to what is sexy.
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RHP User
13 years ago
can we have a threesome? Cos I just can't choose between you
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RHP User
13 years ago
Compliment them on things you notice when you meet them. It's best to maintain eye contact for at least 30 seconds even if they have quite incredible breasts, avoiding words like 'rack', 'hooters' or 'knockers' goes along way and should be avoided until you've talked to them for a few minutes. Treat them with respect. Hand them a list of the 3 things you want to 'do to them' and leave the 4th space open, tell them to write in something and ask them if the can spell 'anal'. Always try to engage them in a conversation. Give them the opportunity to tell you more about themselves, questions like 'what song do you hum when you're circular breathing' or 'what things scare the crap out of you' are good ice breakers. Just remember, it's the little things that count.
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RHP User
13 years ago
True story......
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RHP User
13 years ago
Never stop letting the woman know how sexy you find her - admire her with your eyes, your hands, your tongue and your words. Never make a negative comment about her body or what she is eating or what you think she 'ought' to do in terms of exercise. Depending on the woman, you might also be advised not to admire other women openly in front of them. Always treat her with respect. In short do all the things you would do if you were in love.
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RHP User
13 years ago
...passionately.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Your asking this question - hence my theory is that so many men still have no friggin idea As TC just said...treat her with respect......treat her the way you wish to be treated or how you would like to see your favorite little sister to be treated...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Don't listen... I don't want to be treated like your mother or sister. I want to be treated like I am the most beautiful thing you have ever seen, I want to see the want in your eyes, I want to know that I make you feel alive. That makes me feel sexy. Of course diamonds will help enormously. ;-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
PAY COPLIMENTS , WINK , GIVE HER GIFT FOR NO APARENT REASON AS IN FLOWERS , TELL HER HER SEXIENESS , WITHOUT STALKING OFF COURSE LOL , YEAH THERES RESPECT BUT THATS NOT SHOWING HER SHES SEXY AND RESPECT FOR WOMEN IS NOT A RESTRICTION AS RESPECT FOR WOMEN IS ALL I DO IS RESPECT WOMEN....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Don't listen... I don't want to be treated like your mother or sister. I want to be treated like I am the most beautiful thing you have ever seen, I want to see the want in your eyes, I want to know that I make you feel alive. That makes me feel sexy. Of course diamonds will help enormously. ;-) And having sex with her ... passionately.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'nameisinuse'True story...... and sexy lingerie as a gift (14 on the botton, 16E on top ... just sayin)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Push/pull...engage her in conversation that compels her to respond... Know the difference between fun and funny...I've said enough
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RHP User
13 years ago
Take them lingerie shopping and help in the fitting room. Most of all take them, a woman wants to know she's wanted...passionately.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Just tell her what you think, and if she is sexy in your mind then your natural honest desire and words should do the trick. Works for me...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Where to start. Worship her as she is the only one who matters.Tell her how she make you feel like a man.Always look in her eyes and hold her hands ,while you kiss them and tell her she is the one you dream of.Snuggle snuggle ,nom nibble nom nom nibble like she is a sweet treat.Lingerie shopping and costumes add to showing how you care for her.Buy her some flowers and tell her,no flower compares in beauty to her.Just make sure you mean it,speak from the heart and soul.I think to many guys think being sensitive to a woman shows they are weak.Far from it,it shows you are comfortable as a man.Buy her chocolates and cake ,but a word of warning.....dont eat them its a bad look Can you believe i am single!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ask what she hums when she's circular breathing? Ask her what scares the crap out of her?Don't say hooters or knockers until you've spoken to her for a few minutes?RC, methinks you're trying to confuse the poor OP and get him slapped. Seriously BBB, stop being a bad boy and try being a nice guy for awhile, and do things like call her if you say you're going to, call her anyway just to say let her know she's on your mind. Send her a single red rose with some words about her being beautiful. When you see her let your welcome speak volumes about how much you want her (and I don't mean grope her breasts or arse or at least not until you've had sex). Take her somewhere nice for dinner. Listen to what she has to say. Ask questions that are open and invite her to tell you more about herself (and NO RC, not what's your favourite position!) Ask her about what she likes to do and organise dates together so you can do some of those things. And be honest about finding her sexy, tell her "I find you sexy". Touch her, her hand, her knee, her shoulder, her face, lightly and fleetingly to begin with.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Tell her how she turns, you on. What turns you on and when she turns you on.Touch her everywhere other than the warm bits truely enjoy yourself with lustful eyes. Do those and you should be fine. Oh don't fake it, they will tell
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RHP User
13 years ago
RC isn't it the same for men? Do men ever feel sexy? Now I wouldn't take you lingerie shopping but I know just the thing for you. A sexy little pair of g-strings undies with an elephant face dick warmer at the front. You know the thing... It would be so adorable on you!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
i not sure that takeing a women lingrie shoping would make a women feel sexy they might get wrong idea and think your treating them like a sex object
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Don't listen... I don't want to be treated like your mother or sister. I want to be treated like I am the most beautiful thing you have ever seen, I want to see the want in your eyes, I want to know that I make you feel alive. That makes me feel sexy. Of course diamonds will help enormously. ;-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'RightCompany' Take them lingerie shopping and help in the fitting room. Most of all take them, a woman wants to know she's wanted...passionately.that works???
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'hardtruckin2011'Push/pull...engage her in conversation that compels her to respond... Know the difference between fun and funny...I've said enough You tickle my funny bone ... x
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RHP User
13 years ago
I love Men that Adore Woman ... they are the Type that now how! If you don't know how! Guys LEARN ... or you will get left behind In pleasing a Woman treating her well ... you will be rewarded :P
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13'my workshop starts on MondayFreya Sexy Lessons for Men Consultant Too funny! Will send a few forward lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
lol - I suppose it could in the company of the right woman, don't you? Besides, it's a bit less expensive than diamonds and lingerie is close to the next best thing on a woman. Meeka, men do like to feel sexy but I'll pass on the lingerie. My original post was just a bit of a silly parody meant purely in jest in this erstwhile humourous venue. I hope you don't mind if I drop the '100' off when addressing you, any man would surely agree that you are in 100% woman indeed. lol - I might take you shopping for lingerie, diamonds are out of my league!
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RHP User
13 years ago
That sounds like a great idea:-D
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RHP User
13 years ago
Not me, I feel wanted, I feel needed(sometimes), I feel comfortable with the company I'm in. I feel horny/turned on, But that's different again right? But sexy is foreign to me. I guess it comes from having seen myself naked in a mirror and thinking dude, there's no way I'd shag you hahaha
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ha!ha!ha! you Go G/F make the most of the opportunity to get your 3somes happening cheers Lu ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi! Bigbadboy thanks for the question..:) Actually Hun I don't thionk you can make a Woman feel sexy that comes from within .She either feels that way or she doesn't.However the fact you asked are Interested to know ways these will allow her the chance to feel sexy then.. Depending on how well you know her or wish to know her.. A General rule for me is sincerely compliment her on something from her Profile you can mention different things as you get to know her.. make her Laugh for some reason Women feel sexy around a Guy who's into her and is fun.. Send little titillating SMSs or MSGs let her know how beautiful pretty sexy she is how you'd love to give her long lingering kisses all over her body..That kind of thing works when you plan on getting together because Women are aroused by words they're audible creatures as Guys are more visual.Mind you a Young sexy body is a good visual for me too ha!ha! give her a little giftwhen she least expects it even a chocolate freddo it doesn't matter it just shows you care.. The Choc. will make her feel like she's had sex so ve close by ha!ha! In all just be your sincere attentive self Hun what ever your Relationship is meant to be will be..Enjoy Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
As for treating a lover like a mother or sister, that's a bit weird lol. I find that if you treat a woman like she is the only woman you desire, and actually express that in words, yes guys that means talking about feelings hahahaha. It also depends how long you've known the woman for, if you've paid attention over time you'll have everything you need to make her feel a million bucks, if it's a new thing you kinda just have to wing it a bit. And NEVER give them chocolates when they're having a "fat" day (their words not mine). Hahahahaha
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RHP User
13 years ago
Love these types of questions. Can a man make a woman feel sexy........lets break it up into sexy and beautiful. I think women have the sole power in making themselves feel sexy. I think its a private journey through life and each woman has her own traits or behaviours with makeup or shoes etc to find what feels sexy for her. If the male buys the shoes, jewellery, clothes etc...sure she may feel sexy but i don't think he is the one thats doing it. I don't feel materialistic or monetary sexy counts as genuine in terms of making a woman feel sexy. In relaton to making a woman feel beautiful then the male has all the opportunities to do that. One of the best ways is one on one attention....hair playing...appreciation...special timeouts so isolating her with an occassion...simple positive comments...unexpected gifts where the object is perfectly related to her and the emphasis is not on monetary value. Exposing her to new experiences where the focus is on positivity. Some thoughts
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey hun.. Thanks for the visual I'm having a giggle over it cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi! :) Well expressed as usual Hun .I always enjoy your Posts.They say so much about you because as I've mentioned before, I not only read them I feel your vibes, emotions you had at the time when composing them.. Your Lovers are very Lucky to Enjoy You and what you offer..Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Torturedcliche' Not me, I feel wanted, I feel needed(sometimes), I feel comfortable with the company I'm in. I feel horny/turned on, But that's different again right? But sexy is foreign to me. I guess it comes from having seen myself naked in a mirror and thinking dude, there's no way I'd shag you hahaha It is hard to describe... feeling sexy. But I know when I am feeling sexy/sensuous I walk differently. I have that slow wiggle in my hips, I touch myself on the neck or arm, I feel like a cat stretching in the sun.... I don't know it is hard to describe. But it's a good question though. I am not sure if I am the typical Italian, in fact I am not into expensive things at all. I think if a man gave me diamonds I would probably feel a little uncomfortable. I am fiercely independent and like to pay my own way.
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RHP User
13 years ago
The Italian thing was a joke, I have a weird sense of humour. As for you feeling sexy, I've had a sly look at your pics. I don't think there's a single one that doesn't make me go, WOW!! Just sayin' lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'MadamDragonfly' Hi! :) Well expressed as usual Hun .I always enjoy your Posts.They say so much about you because as I've mentioned before, I not only read them I feel your vibes, emotions you had at the time when composing them.. Your Lovers are very Lucky to Enjoy You and what you offer..Cheers Lu :)Thank you madam that is a really nice comment i'm a little bit embarassment lol. I'm no expert but i try lol. :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
While feeling sexy and beautiful are internal feelings....that only i have control of..... A man can put me in that frame of mind by being totally into the moment with me, no matter where we are and what we are doing. If he has eyes only for me........ i'll feel sexy. If he enjoys and appreciates my body, my curves, my femininity, how it responds to him.....I'll feel sexy. If he notices and comments on how soft i am, how smooth i am, how good i smell, how i taste.......I'll feel sexy. If he takes the time to listen to me, get to know what i love, do small things for me.......I'll feel desired. If he plans a treat just for me, if he takes the time to discover me, if he reveals himself to me.......I'll feel sexy If he explores every inch of me, and learns what i respond to, if he revels in my pleasure......I'll feel sexy.
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RHP User
13 years ago
an excellent idea...Now all I have to do is think of a way to entice you down to sunny , warm Melb...
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RHP User
13 years ago
there are heaps of men who want to know how NOT to make a woman feel sexy ,so here are some tips for you. Always talk about yourself,never ask her a question about her. Show complete disinterest in her desires,if she says she loves you doing something,never ever do it again.Or maybe just in a perfunctorary way. Never give her oral but always expect that she will. Always talk about your other lovers,how much you have turned them on or how crap in the sack they were... Always take it for granted that she will be keen to answer all or any booty call. Never wear deodorant.Don't wash your hair.Or your clothes,afterall it is better for the environment. Don't turn up on time.Cancel at the last minute. This small list,should you follow it faithfully will ensure that no woman will ever feel sexy in your presence ever again.
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RHP User
13 years ago
The best way to make a woman feel sexy is not talk about your ex and show respect, class and manners is the main key no woman wants to hear your baggage.Class is the key men
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RHP User
13 years ago
Actually Hun I don't think you can make a Woman feel sexy that comes from within .She either feels that way or she doesn't.However the fact you asked are Interested to know ways these will allow her the chance to feel sexy then..This is so well said ..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13' my workshop starts on MondayFreya Sexy Lessons for Men Consultant
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'goodtimesricky' an excellent idea...Now all I have to do is think of a way to entice you down to sunny , warm Melb...
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RHP User
13 years ago
a woman makes herself feel sexy its all about being secure
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have to disagree ... Class & manners have there place sure but are they really things that make a woman feel sexy? No they don't, not on their own.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey Hun:) longtime no chat.How are you/ what have you been up too aside from being a Human Poster Board .Man someone has spent time on you.I hope you're not really ticklish ha!ha! Cheers Lu PS I agree with your post.Best keep to the topic :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Well said Hun :) cheers Lu
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RHP User
13 years ago
My Pleasure hun because that's who you are .I think all the effort you put in and attention does make you a skilled attentive Lover and a guy worth knowing.So definitely nothing to be embarrassed about at all.. This isn't a come on tho I do like what just what I know about you. .Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
love your contrasting opinions, but I am just gunna butt right in here...Class and manners do contribute...I believe in always dressing well for a woman, I take pride in my appearance. I also admire a woman who dresses "up" for me...Manners have their place in the scheme of things, yes, I'll hold your chair out for you, I'll open the door for you...but only so that I can pinch your sexy butt as you walk through ..and you won't hear me saying "luv" or "darls" or "honey"...but you may hear me say in the lustful throes of intense passion..."that's it you sexy slut, now come here and let me lick your"........oops, me thinks I have gone too far already.Ricky
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RHP User
13 years ago
some men like to listen to a woman talk about herself...Her feelings, her wants, her dislikes...because some men understand how a woman feels.Speaking for myself, I DO NOT believe in gratuitous flattery...I say it how it is and I tell a woman how I feel about her...and how she makes me feel...But does that make a woman feel un-sexy...Now I'm wondering...
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rustler
13 years ago
As Jean Giraudoux famously said If you can fake sincerity you have it made
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RHP User
13 years ago
As a the male half of a swinging couple I think this is a good question. How I help my wife to feel sexy is very different to how i try to help other woman feel sexy and want me!!! I dont think it's with anything bought! Buying jewellery, chocolates and roses etc. will help with the want, but it's in your words and expression of YOU wanting her that helps to make her feel sexy. It's in your eyes, do they show her you want her, and are they on her!. It's in your touch, is your touch soft and do you hold her firmly. It's in your words, and how there said and expressed to her. For me, it starts the moment she opens her eyes in the morning. I tell her softly in a wanting tone, dip my chin and look up into her eyes and tell her how beautiful she is, and how lucky I am to wake up next to a sexy woman every morning. I remind her how warm she feels and how her soft skin makes me want her. I then take her warm soft inviting body in my closed arms and make deep slow penetrating love to her while never swaying my gaze from hers. While we lay panting and adoring each other I wisper into her ear how I will be thinking of her all day and can't wait to be at home and in her arms again. Leaving her with the feeling of wanting me more! During the day I will send a text msg, or give her a call and remind her I've been thinking of her and how hard it is to concentrate on work thinking about being with her at home. At home I will focus on my personal presentation for her, my scent, my smile, and my fuck me now eyes. I will cook for her as she treats herself to a bath, and when its time to get our fuck on I will hold her up with a strong firm grip while she hangs the moon for lighting. With every other woman its different and another story, but very similar at the same time, just straight to erotica. Troy
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RHP User
13 years ago
me Jane
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RHP User
13 years ago
There I was, in my bathers and a sarong and dog on end of lead hair wet sand up my crack and as I waited to cross the road a cop car came along the guy driving looks over at me and I read his lips as he looked at my tits he said to the other cop Nice Tits I felt pretty darn sexy then Also a man that changes my flat tyre as I look all helpless and female dam that makes me wet
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'RightCompany' Compliment them on things you notice when you meet them. It's best to maintain eye contact for at least 30 seconds even if they have quite incredible breasts, avoiding words like 'rack', 'hooters' or 'knockers' goes along way and should be avoided until you've talked to them for a few minutes. Treat them with respect. Hand them a list of the 3 things you want to 'do to them' and leave the 4th space open, tell them to write in something and ask them if the can spell 'anal'. Always try to engage them in a conversation. Give them the opportunity to tell you more about themselves, questions like 'what song do you hum when you're circular breathing' or 'what things scare the crap out of you' are good ice breakers. Just remember, it's the little things that count. I get your sense of humor and you turn me on, love your forum posts but you know that already.
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RHP User
13 years ago
hahah love your so correct
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'goodtimesricky' an excellent idea...Now all I have to do is think of a way to entice you down to sunny , warm Melb... Entice??........now i wonder how you might do that??
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RHP User
13 years ago
Most importantly... A woman is looking for no complications. So my advice is to be your "true self" that way you cant mess it up. If you are with your lady-friend make her feel special by giving her the full attention she deserves. Make her feel as though she is the only one that is your priority... Turn your phone off, turn the tv off etc, etc. Enjoy your woman for the woman she is. Enjoy your woman for what both of you have to offer each other, no expectations... good luck...
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RHP User
13 years ago
...you want her to stay overnight.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi chick out of the couple here I would like to find out as well as I dont ever feel sexy or a turn on to my partner Ive even taken all my pics down off here and leaving his noggin instead.I think its a self confidence thing those girls blest with amazing assests seem to have awesome confidence and feel sexy around anyone.Me personally its hard for me as coming from 15 year marriage being run down to the ground to meeting an amazing guy but I cant believe his compliments not yet anyway.I think taking amazing pics of a woman for her to view is good,I seem to get my mojo when halfway to pissed haha not slurring and stumbling just a few and im nice and relaxed.:)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Howaboutsayinghi has simply nailed it nothing worse than shitty mysterious phone calls and eyes glued to computers and tvs,I think alot of woman would agree with this.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'karynb' Quoting 'goodtimesricky' an excellent idea...Now all I have to do is think of a way to entice you down to sunny , warm Melb... Entice??........now i wonder how you might do that?? Now, let me seeeeee....that's a bit tricky to answer. However...*squares shoulders, sucks in stomach, puffs out chest.."Now if you so happened to be coming down this way, I would meet you at the airport and whisk you away to a beautiful place in the city...with views of the skyline...and treat you to a deliciously sexy...naughtily passionate...devilishly cheeky...evening...or two..or three..hehe...not to mention the mornings of pancakes in bed, or maybe I would just eat you for breakfast instead...nibble on your toes, lick my way up your calves...mmmmm....or strawberries and cream...know just the place to put a few strawberries too...Ricky
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am sorry but this post is not really in answer to the question posted,although I must say I feel sexy all the time lately,probably the warm weather and lack of clothing!! But Freya I have to say I love reading your posts,you have such a wicked sense of humour and a way with words I often come to the forums just to see what you have posted!! Jay
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RHP User
13 years ago
Throw in some chocolate and i might be on the next flight Quoting 'goodtimesricky' Quoting 'karynb' Quoting 'goodtimesricky' an excellent idea...Now all I have to do is think of a way to entice you down to sunny , warm Melb... Entice??........now i wonder how you might do that?? Now, let me seeeeee....that's a bit tricky to answer. However...*squares shoulders, sucks in stomach, puffs out chest.."Now if you so happened to be coming down this way, I would meet you at the airport and whisk you away to a beautiful place in the city...with views of the skyline...and treat you to a deliciously sexy...naughtily passionate...devilishly cheeky...evening...or two..or three..hehe...not to mention the mornings of pancakes in bed, or maybe I would just eat you for breakfast instead...nibble on your toes, lick my way up your calves...mmmmm....or strawberries and cream...know just the place to put a few strawberries too...Ricky
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RHP User
13 years ago
Cleaned out three supermarkets...:-P And I am busy grating out and throwing it in the air... Nothing like chocolate confetti to play around in... Hehe... Ricky :-P
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RHP User
13 years ago
Jay_JayxR
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RHP User
13 years ago
If all the above fails and you have tried all you can for 6 years. Join RHP
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RHP User
13 years ago
If she notices me I say "Hello sexy".. Then I wonder why the bowl of nuts is empty..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Kizza1973 you asked the question "can you believe i am single". In another post you quoted yourself as only finding size 8-10 women sexy. Since the national average women's size is now a size 14.... I can believe you are still single. You have such high expectations of a woman's physicality, you leave no room for her personality to engage and attract you. You're so missing out. Your ideas on how a woman wants to be treated are, however, close to on the money. :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Don't listen... I don't want to be treated like your mother or sister. I want to be treated like I am the most beautiful thing you have ever seen, I want to see the want in your eyes, I want to know that I make you feel alive. That makes me feel sexy. Of course diamonds will help enormously. ;-) And don't roll over and go to sleep after you've come - most off putting Less is more when touching a clitty and fingers are always fun
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