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How do you practice safe oral on a woman?
March 30 2017
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
I also use the road, swim in the ocean. There is risks in life. I calculate the risk, and go a safeish option. Risk management we call it in industry. I love giving oral to pussy and cock without protection and accept the small risk. I drink wine from a bottle, not a cask. I enjoy the finer things..The finer taste. I like my pussy and cock taste latex free.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Give those a whirl. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
...I agree with Annie.Not that I'd love to give oral to cock...but that I don't "dine out" that often that the odds are in my favour of catching something unfavourable.Everything is a calculated risk, and adding up the numbers, I think oral sex is a small risk worth taking.Sorry, can't help you there.I dont swim in the ocean, but. That's just crazy.I'll stick to motorbikes..
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RHP User
9 years ago
First make sure the bed is stable, to prevent any catastrophe in the heat of passion, make sure the oven is turned off, don't want to burn that roast while you're busy, make sure you have the keys to the handcuffs, make sure the husband IS out of town, if you have bad knees, maybe a cushion to kneel on, that just about does it, good to go
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RHP User
9 years ago
Using condoms for oral and penetrative sex can make it safer, but not safe. There will always be a risk to some degree. You can reduce the risk of catching an STI or passing one on, by using a dental dam. I've never used one though, and haven't seen them in pharmacies. Possibly Family Planning clinics may sell them. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I happen to own a dental dam. I bought it when a sex life finally became a possibility and I wasn't sure what products I would need or not need. But as with the above posts, I haven't used it, nor seen another used. Even GPs and sex health workers have mentioned there being little risk in unprotected cunnilingus and mostly what you may catch is easily treatable. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Gonorrhea, chlamydia and HIV are not commonly passed when giving oral sex to a woman even if you happen to have a small cut on/in your mouth or tongue. However open areas can increase the risk of HIV. Herpes and HPV are easily passed when giving or receiving oral sex because they are passed by skin to skin contact. Short form is that the risk is low and any number of other sexual acts, even kissing, are not totally risk free. Personally I worry less about that than some moron on the roads here in Melbourne collecting me when I am trying to cross the street. Pragmatic perhaps but I also refuse to wear a dust mask when I wander outdoors too. Best... CM
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RHP User
9 years ago
And he said, and I quote, "I'd wear a gum boot if I could." Humans have a natural propensity to collective fear. If something is seen as a collective threat we take it to heart in a way we don't with individual threat. A good example is the irrational fear of terrorism, which is extremely unlikely to impact on any one of us individually, but will probably occur somewhere in the country at some point. But I reckon this primal impulse comes into play when something is promoted heavily in the media, and both smoking and safe sex would be an example of this. Safe sex is important, but what you're exhibiting here OP is an excessive fear of sexual activity. You need to connect with your personal judgement and do some research about it. Once you know more you'll be able to intellectually overcome your primal response.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Glad wrap
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RHP User
9 years ago
Do you drink your wine straight from the bottle? Clearly much classier than straight from the cask I agree though, it's a calculated risk.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Your a crack up I-Touch I actually forgot about the meat on the bbq once because I was busy!I did consider glad wrap Candelicious but only for about 2 seconds.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I caught glandular fever... from intimate contact with a partner... presumably from kissing... but as you say it is always a calculated risk... and I certainly knew where and from whom it came from... she was a carrier... I was simply the victim... good grief it was awful.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Make sure her husband is a plane ride away, not just down the shops.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Lol Love it - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
9 years ago
When we first started out ,got the sameish responses which are bang on ,I grew up in an age of sharing lunches ,drink bottles and what ever ,hell I went to school with a grub who always asked for some chewey,,we would answer haven't got any left ,he would say give me what's in your mouth and he would take it and just eat it ,bugger never died from it ,lol,and either did we ,people have become too sterile , in today's world and missing out on some great lifes fun exsperiances ,you have to use your better judgments and go with it ,we have and enjoy oral with all it flavours never looking back ,unprotected sex that's a different ball game like smoking ciggys ,that shit can kill ya, Annie drinking from a bottle ,pfffft,,can't believe Betty would let go of it to allow such a thing to happen ,lol Mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Outweighs your desire to indulge ,then don't do it.There is almost nothing worse than a nervous lover..passion killer for sure. As others have said,the only safe sex is no sex.Life is a risk we take.Q
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RHP User
9 years ago
But I just read your profile OP where you mention that you love giving oral sex.So I am curious as to what motivated you to now ask this question after being on this site for awhile? Q
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RHP User
9 years ago
Limit your oral experiences to a good heart-to-heart conversation. Women are generally much more orally expressive than most men.
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Please. Class all the way here. Always wrap the bottle in a brown paper bag first. Too hard with a cask. Yeah Betty and l sitting on a park bench telling stories.........
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Two_Tarts
9 years ago
There are always risks, and while we are believers in condoms the obvious truth is that once you have hands and mouths moving around as part of the love then the condom is only dealing with one of the many ways you will be exposed. Our greatest fear is for those people who blindly believe that they are not at any risk because they use condoms and have missed the fact that their hands or tongues have made the same unprotected journey from one body to another transferring the same fluids that they were so fearful of a cock transferring. Really the thing that condoms are best at protecting from is pregnancy (and Anal sex where the risks of tearing and transfer is much higher and just maybe your tongue opted out of making that particular journey??.) Dental dam, keeping one hand for you and one for your partner, washing hands etc between partners, and condoms are all reasonable precautions that everyone can use, but they are all incomplete solutions unless you employ all of them together and with great care. Protection is important, but genuinely dealing with all the obvious risks in reality does feel about as sexy and natural as having your partner dressed in a hazmat suit for the journey so an incomplete solution is the norm! The best protection : Get tested regularly, hope that your prospective partners do the same regularly, and exercise some care and discretion in selecting your partners based on the above while appreciating the importance of a high degree of honesty on both your part and theirs. Then have fun using whatever imperfect combination of physical protection makes you feel comfortable enough that your brain doesn't melt worrying about it.....followed by get tested regularly! Thankfully swingers are far better at looking after their own health and the health of their partners than the average person you will meet in the real world, but it is the group situation where the one seemingly anonymous guy (or girl) has managed to stick the same unwashed finger into five different pies in one sitting where the risks really escalate.
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MsJonesy
9 years ago
More likely starring in the story 😉😘
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RHP User
9 years ago
I think most people are yolo when it comes to oral. But the risks are real. Just be aware of them and test, test, test.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm very new to this site Qefenta 1 as matter of fact I haven't met or hooked up with anyone from this site yet.I'm coming off a long term relationship where I didn't have to worry about this matter so hence I'm asking for advice.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Fuck one person. 🦄 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I forgot to mention. Health and safety, when you're done and climbing up onto her, never forget your three points of contact 😜 Kisslids, where have you been? Missed you. Can you please grace us with your presence more often? 😀
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RHP User
9 years ago
Think bowling ball lol 😊
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RHP User
9 years ago
My more mature answer would be go for broke and lap it up, you only live once. Any kind of barrier for me would stop my ejaculate, which happens to be a big turn on for me and them, so I personally wouldn't interfere with that, but do understand the concern and your question 😃
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RHP User
9 years ago
Tie her arms so she doesn’t leave claw marks in the back of your head when you fly her over the edge. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Maybe don't be down there while she's in active labour... Also: what Annie said. That's funny lol
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RHP User
9 years ago
I don't personally have many partners on the go all at once & i get checked regularly and am all good to go on my end. I agree with Two Tarts - Know your partner ! I have never really thought about it being too much of an issue which may be naive on my part
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boxestotick
9 years ago
Trusting that others in this game are STI free and sit it out if they do have something. I do use condima for intercourse but nothing for oral. Maybe it's blind trust? I just cross my fingers and dive in. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Exactly know your partner's, Practice safe sex and have regular check ups. Quality not quantity. 😉😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
If you have unprotected sex with various partners that you hardly know then your chances of picking up something including a sti from oral is greatly increased. Genital herpes is easily caught from a cold sore so I'd be careful who i bed. The mature thing would be ask for a test before any horseplay. 🐴 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I've seen those movies, do you get the all clear from a vet ?
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RHP User
9 years ago
😀 I'm not even gonna go there 😇
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RHP User
9 years ago
Keep her jeans on 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Even if you did ask for a test...anyone your potential partner(s) fucked within the past 3 months , would not show up in the test...just sayin'😳 At the end swinging will always be a Russian roulette no matter what... Some people are looking for a few special, trusted friend whom they can indulge with.. Some get off on the variety, and want to screw a different person every weekend... At the end the best thing would be, to choose wisely as to who you entrust with your health and well being.
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RHP User
9 years ago
The thing with getting tested or asking them to do it, how do you know who they've been with in the period of time it takes to get results back? It only takes one exposure/contraction without your knowledge, to then expose you. It's important to be regularly tested, but not a complete safety net 😃 most important is for anyone who does contract something, for them to tell past, present, future partners, to stop it in it's tracks. I haven't picked up anything since I've been doing this, but also wouldn't judge anyone who had it happen to them. Non disclosure I would judge though 😃
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RHP User
9 years ago
What is that!!! Dental dam. who invented that??
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RHP User
9 years ago
Just a thought but have a blood test every 3 months if you or they play with more then one partner. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Definitely agree with you. 😉😎 - Posted from rhpmobile
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wolfinshadows
9 years ago
Ok ,but what about oral while driving , surely that increases the risks . Especially when the one who is steering is also giving the oral - Posted from rhpmobile
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wolfinshadows
9 years ago
Definitely don't give oral on a women in labour while driving to the hospital drinking from a wine bottle , ..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I think this 'community' is pretty good at keeping safe..I certainly don't want to catch something and therefore make I look after myself and stay clean. I find most people think the same way. But I hate giving oral with a condom so that might just be me haha - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I do a risk assessment, and then think with the little head not the big one. All things in life have some risk, but I wouldn't muss out on eating pussy for all the tea in china. One of life's great pleasures, next to having my cock sucked bare back by a woman that is!!!!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Safe oral sex if one of you were wearing a SEATBELT.
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RHP User
9 years ago
In order to remain safe when having oral with a woman, let her do all the talking.
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RHP User
9 years ago
We've had had this conversation between ourselves on occasion. We prefer to play in an all in basis, and always use condoms for sex with others. But one thought we have talked out is if Ms. G is sucking my cock and another cock, or eating a pussy and then sucking a cock, or if I'm eating two pussies at a time, are we just kidding ourselves about not going bareback for sex? Your thoughts? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Glad wrap - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Best way to protect yourself is join RHP ! Chances are you won't get to practice 😆 - Posted from rhpmobile
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eukie
9 years ago
So, just thinking out aloud here - but would the same disdains, contempt and outright stupid answers have been given to the OP if it was a lady asking about protection whilst giving oral to a guy ? Talk about double standards and some childish posts... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
There are so many risks in life and I feel life is to short, we are all on here at our own risk, but we make those decisions that greatly reduce the risks in our own way. I to love to please and pleasure a women in this way to make her feel amazing, as I would like to feel to, Sex love fucking how ever you want it can be amazing, so calculating your risk before you enter this site is the best way to go then just enjoy and make your own decisions. Hope I have not rambled on lol Thanks J - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
that you can catch "the bug" easier by sucking pussy/cock than fucking. Happy to be corrected!!!!
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RHP User
9 years ago
I am still a virgin. Maybe on day... next time gadget next time!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Know full well in advance whether she may or may not break your neck with her thighs when you bring her to an incredible climax 😋😉🎉🎉🎉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
There are very few risks really, Same as sex be honest and say 75% of women on here like bareback anyway and it usually nowadays tastes nice.I love it lock my mouth on that pussy and breathe through my ears I drink wine from a bottle, not a cask. I enjoy the finer things..The finer taste. I like my pussy and cock taste latex free.
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