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February 01 2015

I am very new to this site and wondering if I should get verified. Have been on here for nearly 4 weeks and still waiting for people to send flirts or add me as friends. I am genuine and since am not getting any responses, I have started to believe that I dont fit here and it will be a waste of time. What do tou all feel about this? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    You want to and i quote "build a camp in your minge." That isn't very classy. What sort of woman are you after?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Different strokes for different folks I guess. My opinion is if you want something you go get it, as Meeka is trying to suggest you are one of many and you need to build a profile that is suitable to what people want from you and not list your filthy desires right off the bat. I have had some luck and missed out on many occasions..swings and round abouts as they say! I have changed my profile many times.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    'Lost for words', and taking into account the male/female ratio on site, then don't expect people to send you words. What sort of 'camp in your minge' were you thinking of? Sleeping bag/swag? Five man tent? Caravan with extended awning? Best you get to BCF if you get a result... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    You're a guy, so you'll be waiting forever for flirts and friends requests. (btw, question the ones you do get, in my opinion they'll likely be guys posing as gals or internet scammers.) I'd suggest getting verified and giving your profile a complete overhaul. The few words that aren't template aren't all that enticing in my view. I you you can't be bothered putting any effort into your profile, why would any woman believe you will in bed? In short: You'll have to do better. Good luck!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Thanks for the tips guys. Very much appreciated. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Friends with the co ordinator of swingers events. Mister. Who needs this site when you have a babe like Laura you can rely on.:)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Signing up for membership isn't taking a number and standing in line.... You do need to be the man and hunt your prey...not some kind of rendition to Bert and Ernie fishing where Ernie just calls "heeerrrrre fishy fishy fishy fishy" - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    to build a camp in one's minge? Didi I miss the memo again? Please say it involves hot pokers and marshmallows ...

  • 6exxy

    6exxy

    11 years ago

    If you want to build a camp in your minge do your thing. It will not be everybodies cup of tea but it doesn't have to be. I would say you need to attend events and meet people. This site is about meeting people. There is more than one way to do things and you need to find what works for you. Good luck dude ✌️

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    That Meekas not your gal mate... But there will be one in here somewhere... Finding her is the challenge... As noted above, put a bit more into your profile, but no one will knock on your door, it'll be up to you to select, track, catch and... Err dispatch :) Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' You want to and i quote "build a camp in your minge." That isn't very classy. What sort of woman are you after? yeah, but if that line works... you know what sort of a time you're in for... (probably itches and a visit to a GP for ointment, but damn, just imagine the tale you'll have to hide from your mates ;-) )

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    if you put the effort in .... things will pay off. Also, I personally, very rarely make first contact with anyone. Many women here are guests so your profile has to really be something outstanding that makes them want to use their 1 per week message to contact you. Become a paid up member, go to some meet and greet events as previously mentioned and don't expect too much. As the saying goes, when you don't expect too much is when it all comes to you. There are some amazingly sexy people here. They are worth finding. Good luck! LG

  • MissBishere

    MissBishere

    11 years ago

    ... It possibly isn't the site for you I would recommend you have a read through some of the newbie forums. Rhp isn't like other dating sites where men are the hunted ones. If you sit back you won't get very far. Reach out and contact people that interest you and definitely attend some actual events and meet people.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    This site is about the same as any other pay per message social dating site. Every one fits in and for most your (OP) experience is much the same. It will take time for you to find the people that suit you, as in real life not everyone you see wants to become an intimate friend. As that is the assumption when you message the response (or lack of) is with that in mind. Dont feel disheartened, keep at it. There are many ladies on this site that are prefect for you but it is very difficult to find out who that is from just the profile, most of which are more about what people like to think of them selves rather than what they are in reality. At your age you should have a good idea of what type of personality suit you and is attracted to you. Learn to read between the lines, take time and care in the opening message if you send one and dont expect it to happen over night. There are many many sites like this. it is best that you spread you bets, one site will not give you good odds, 10 sites will give you excellent odds.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    but yeah the rest of your profile is You need to be more personal and precise to stand out. Avoid lying, sounding selfish, sounding jaded, and have some respect for the women you are trying to attract. That whole minge thing is cringeworthy, lose it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Seeing as the majority of ladies on here are guests, you wont get very much, if any, first moves from them. Also, lots of women dont do searches as they receive enough messages as it is and its pointless a guest sending a guest a flirt. And its also pointless sending a random friend request if you havent already conversed or met them. But really, I would take note of the advice that other guys will give you on your post.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    How mean y'all are..The OP just wants to be that lil man in a woman's boat,complete with a small tent,nothing wrong with that really as his last name is Gulliver and his address is Lilliput....the problem is that most women,no make that all women here aren't Liliputians xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Pay for a Membership and put some effort into writing your Profile Introduction. $12.66/month for a Year's "Premium" Membership won't break the Bank. If you put in the effort, you will reap the rewards. I don't regret becoming a "paying" Member. I'm happy to give it a go for 1 year of fun !!! Amy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    There are many posts similar to this from paid up men, becoming a member is only a teeny, tiny part of possible success on the site. Men are still outumbered women by a huge ratio. And male guests do still achieve success. Check out all your advice and be a decent guy. Show respect, don't contact women who are clearly not looking for you. Do post in the forums if you have the wit for it. Attend events if possible. You look like you'll do okay to me. :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    is much better

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Speel chick...... Spell check !!!!! If you can't get that right with all the time to write and rewrite, then I'm concerned about the level of conversation, oh that's right, your not into this for the meeting of the minds :))))). Darn I'm bitchy today

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    you know where you can put that grumpy face don't you??? 😜 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    My advice is to be 100% yourself. There aren't too many opportunities in life that can offer you this, you know, workin for the man and all. Listen to other people's advice and hone your profile, but I f camping out in someone's minge is your style, and your sense of humour coming through, then wait till someone gets it. You'll know you are a proper match then. Things are slow for guys here, so in the meantime, bide your time in here with banter, like the rest of us :-D

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    And watch out for big mammas grumpy pants ;-)

  • rupamohan

    rupamohan

    11 years ago

    Sites are just messengers. These are only as good as online people in your area. Most sites are similar but a rival site doesn't have fren list and date finder. If hook up is your main interest then using chat and date finder has some edge over forums but messaging is most important tool. You really can't expect more. Good luck!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Listen to what Meander has said and you won`t go far wrong in fact you will probably do very well. Check out a few other guys profiles too it doesn`t make you weird! If you ever meet that friend of yours I want to know if she is as cute in person....or photo shopped.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I think the site CAN be absolutely fantastic. However its like most things in life ...you only get out of it what you are prepared to put in.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    See you have made some changes with your profile and listened to some of the thoughts shared from the above "family" in a kind of way, there is so much more to this site than sifting through profiles in search of finding some companionship. RHP caters for most types of sexual interests, from most types of people. Well we are a couple and have been members of this site for over two years, we have met quite a few people, mainly regular folk who post in the forums, a lot of us know each other, at least enough to kind of validate and verify each other in a social atmosphere these forums provide and also the chat rooms for a more real time way of this "on line communicating". Like anything it takes a little while before people start to become familiar with you "If" you take the plunge and join in. If you are reasonably respectful, flirting can be great fun and most here enjoy feeling wanted and desired, most of all friendly seems too work best. I have lots of girlfriends on this site, from all over the country No.?(back off you fellers:) it's true, because I treat the women with respect, as passionate women, liberate them when ever possible and pick up on their feelings when down or in search of an honest opinion, flirt with a few that put up with me, but they know my heart and loyalty is to Tara, a fellow woman and safe haven for me at times....God help me if I spoke out of line about her, in the shit big time. Never would I she is the best part with my thoughts. On that note, I respect Tara's opinion and sexuality, her fun nature and naughty side.... So, I asked her to look at your profile, straight away she looked at your profile pic, she likes a smiling face over all and wanted too blow up your pic for a better look, she likes your smile, cheeky and a shyish nature she feels from looking at your photo and was enthusiastic for me too write up this post too you, therefore I am doing the best I can too raise your spirits. These are real people, this is real life and if you choose too get in amongst these people you will find friends and that is all the start one needs, the rest nature takes care too. Plus I bullshit a lot too aside from this deep and meaningful Mado Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Is gone and now you are a member...as others have said ,put the effort in This site is not just about bonking,many people form connections by contributing to the forums and going to meet and greets.Let people get to know you,you won't be everyone's cup of chai,none of us are,but you will be someone's xxFreya

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    Don't be a friend collector. This isn't facebook and the number of friends you have here means bugger all if they are people you haven't even met or interacted with strongly. That's just lame. We were all new once, no friends/flirts/messages how you choose to put yourself out there is only within your control, how the people choose to interact with you is in theirs, it'll be hit and miss. As Lovinit often says "make me an offer I can't say no to" in your profile or i teractions that will pique an interest in you but ensure you remain honest abd true to yourself and what you seek. I haven't read your orofile but hopefully you aren't seeking the generic "people for NSA fun seeking same" cos that's crap and says you're just hee to find a hole who'll let you in. Well done on the forum topic though 👍👍 Indy

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    😣

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Bigmamma1' Speel chick...... Spell check !!!!! If you can't get that right with all the time to write and rewrite, then I'm concerned about the level of conversation, oh that's right, your not into this for the meeting of the minds :))))). Darn I'm bitchy today A speel chick once, she wouldn't shut up so I put my cock in her mouth. Boom boom

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    11 years ago

    Cos we all know the family that plays together stays together hey 😍 OP when I left home and relocated all I had was "piefaces" and quite a few here I too view as family. You know who y'are. Feeling the love today, Hugs and kisses, Indy xo

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Ratings like these must show regard for both user and admin team. I personally try to " get the picture" yet leave basket empty, my feeling is that as a meeting place as well as debate floor. I'd say go and get formed, with respect of course,, over and out!!