How hard to say no thanks

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  after sending that above msg myself numerous times myself when i am just not intrested in the person.... then cop abusive messages back! i understand this happens to a lot of the women on here, so now i find it easier just not to delete the msg and not answer...harsh but it works

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Yours is a question that is asked often and I've copied and pasted my post from another thread here. If they match our looking for preferences, there really is no excuse not to reply to each and every paid member that has gone out of their way to message us. It is possible to set our inbox for matching, non-matching and all messages/flirts to help sort that out lol..Every profile has an auto-reply that can be set up to answer messages as they come in automatically. There is also the option of setting up templates to reply to messages. Once set up, it's as easy as reading the message in your inbox, deciding on your template reply and... sending the template of your choice. No effort to set up at all are the quick replies as mentioned by Funloving. Tick each message as you go and reply when you've finishedThe flirts aren't quite so easy... I get round that by posting on our profile what flirt we will send. To reply to all the flirts left in the inbox, I tick the box at the top and choose group reply etc.I'm not sure how many lady guests realise couples and guys get minimal benefits on their guest profiles compared to them. If they want to be able to get into the chat room or send messages, they need to pay for the privileges. I think, if they've done everything right, like making sure they match the profile and sending a decent message the only decent thing for us to do is at least reply to them.It works for us, we've only ever had one really nasty reply to saying no thanks but have received about a 10% rate of people saying thanks for replying when we used our templates!For those that are getting too many messages etc, there are many ways of slowing down the incoming mail. Change your settings so it doesn't show when you're online or when you've viewed profiles. Hide your profile or lock your inbox hehe, change or remove your pics, edit your profile write up (people DO read but seem to ignore shouting!!! :-D), change your looking for preferences for a while. That's off the top of my head...Have fun hugs... Mrs P'

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  i didn't realise it had already been done as i rearly go into these forums i just got ticked off the othr day, and it's about to be done again as i also didn't realise it takes 24-48hrs to appear so i did it again this morning OOOOOPS mrspeach i do agree a template with "No thanks" is the way to go naughtygirl you should report abuse and get them booted thats not what anyones here for

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