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How long do u like to screw?
January 31 2008
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RHP User
18 years ago
Well as a highly sexed youngster I was prone to suffer from premature ejaculation, but strangely enough enjoyed multiple orgasms. Gives you an idea how much fluid was being generated by my balls. But that was not perfect for the girlfriend who had greater expectations that she be the one enjoying the orgasms. With age and middle age spread, the erections may not appear as dramatic, but the endurance has certainly exceeded all expectations. Add to that a little blue pill called Viagra, and the sky is the limit. Now being one who loves to kiss and cuddle, I just can't get enough intimate contact and loving, and the incredible sensation of being within a passionate woman is something there should be no limit to. How long we screw before taking a breather, depends on our stamina, the availability of natural lubrication, and any eventual hurt through excessive friction. I know the end of my knob has felt rather tender after a heavy session of pounding the G-Spot, with the lady on top directing my penis at her internal target of preference. Some ladies seem to be able to sustain an endless degree of pussy punishment in this manner, whilst others are less resilient. The factors which influence this differs from person to person, and how hot we are for each other. A lot depends on the occasion and the setting, as the mood is all important. Hence having soulless sex with a stranger does not cut it with me, particularly if there is no connection once the act is done. I might as well masturbate, as there's little difference on an emotional level. I would rather be left there in a warm embrace, looking in each other's eyes, talking small talk, after an exhilarating and exhausting day of it. It's remarkable even then to regain the urge to play more.
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RHP User
18 years ago
Good question Amanda. It's only in the last few years that I've really learned to sustain the action, aaand III LIKE-IT! It only took one hundred or so episodes of falling asleep or wanting to leave once I'd cum before being really annoyed with myself and deciding to do things a little differently. Now I would only occassionally cum so quickly if I found myself in a relationship (of sorts) and there was sufficient background of sustained mutual lovin.
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RHP User
18 years ago
I know it depends alot on the guy, for years men never lasted any longer than 5mins with me so to come across a guy that goes on and on leaves me wondering if it it takes him ages is it because im not enough! Ive never had an orgasm from intercourse alone, dot get me wrong i definately enjoy it theres just no climax for me. If the guy goes 5mins-1hr it doesnt bother me im happy to screw for as long as it takes but i have to wonder if the guy gets bored after pounding that puss for say 15mins and wants to hurry up and orgasm? How long do you guys usually last? Does the attraction to the woman your screwing effect how long you take to cum? Is it a dud root if it takes him ages or is he enjoying every bit? I went without any sex at all for over 2 years and am just getting back in to it and because ive never been one to sleep around i never realised how much it varies from guy to guy.
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RHP User
18 years ago
There's just so much more to a penis going in and out. It's like comparing a hacksaw in the untrained hands of an apprentice wannabe carpenter, to that of a gifted artisan at the bow of a Stradivarius violin. The duration should be immaterial when we are seeking quality time. Much of it is in the mind, how long the man has been without sex, the company, and what the expectations are. If it's the selfish case of using a woman solely as a vessel to cum, then cuming is the prime goal, and the sooner the better. A guy can concentrate on the sensations taking place within his groins, where the ultimate sensation is paramount over all else. It can be one step removed from wanking, or it can be a twosome jointly participating in an joyous occasion. It's what you make of it.
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RHP User
18 years ago
Ive found that the more I'm turned on by the woman the longer I last.I was with a woman in Cairns once who got sick of me cause I couldnt come at all.We tried several times over 3 days and I couldnt finish.She was just such a total turn on.Another time (another woman) it was over before it started cause she just didnt do it for me:(.In other words it just depends on the chemistry.
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RHP User
18 years ago
As you've discovered, the answer to 'how long' is very much 'it depends'. A guy can come home after a stressful day at work and nothing that anybody could do to him will make him cum. Yet he could come home again after an equally stressful day and go off like a firecracker in seconds because that's exactly the stress relief that he needs! So it'll vary widely even with a single individual. Personally I like it to go as long as possible, because at a purely selfish level if there's an orgasm at the end of it either way then why not enjoy the rest of intercourse as well. Within limits of course, there comes a point at which one's knob just can't take any more pounding and needs a rest! (at which point fingers and tongues can take over...)
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RHP User
18 years ago
from my perspective every guy is different. Me personally love the foreplay and believe it sets up how the rest of the sex session will go. with a bit of teasing before hand i find i can go alot longer and i dont like to cum till the woman does. But on the other hand if i have been working real hard doing physical work all day and i am tired the stamina drops a little but i always try to do my best to make sure the woman always comes first. So to give you an average i would have to say between 30 minutes to 45 minutes as an average. i can never cum in less than 20 no matter how hard i try. Dont think because a guy comes too quickly or doesnt cum at all has anything to do with whether you are good enough or not as you will find most of the time it all has to do with the guys frame of mind. I am sure they all love the sex . best of luck to you
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RHP User
18 years ago
anywhere between 5 minutes and 1 hour :P its like a lucky lottery :)
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RHP User
18 years ago
this is just me, but i prefer this way 1) foreplay.. 2) orgasm 3) Intercourse 4) smoke break 5) Foreplay 6) Intercourse 7) Orgasm 8) Smoke break 9) Intercourse 10 Smoke break 11) foreplay whilst doing smoke break 12) Orgasm 13) are you tired yet dear? :P no? good! :P
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Mr_Invisible
18 years ago
Been so long I'm not sure I remember About 30 minutes maybe But I do usually stay hard between loads so GO AGAIN is kinda a motto for me Second time takes about an hour.... so depends on the woman as to how long the actual deed lasts
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RHP User
18 years ago
Depends on how many commercials are on tele that night,,!!! ~~~I neva said that ~~~
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RHP User
18 years ago
In answer to one question Do men just go for that orgasm as quickly as possible? The answer maybe found in by posing a question and answering that Why do Australian men cum so quick? So they can run off and tell their mates about it!
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RHP User
18 years ago
lmao @ Hagar.. well said :P
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RHP User
18 years ago
i am willing to go for as long as possible, i do luv it....i guess its all caz i sit there hoping the guy hasnt lost interest and is bored. Intercourse from my perspective is the mans pleasure and although i love it i put in that extra oomph because i want him to be fully satisfied and i enjoy watching the pleasure on the mans face.....So whatever he wants i will do it for him any position any style, sure i have my favourites and i luv swapping positions but for me i want the man pleased.
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RHP User
18 years ago
When I Fuck a woman its all to do with pleaseure, Slow is always best as I take my Time I usualy last a few hours, But I like to make a woman feel like she is on fire, Makeing love is a mutual art, feeling, exploreing hours of satisfaction. it all depends on who your with
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RHP User
18 years ago
well let me see, an art form mmm maybe but there are thing to be learnt along the way yes when i have sex its not about me it is about the pleasure of the women when they are satisfied i allow my self the pleasure to finish off. occasionally ive done to soon and it just doeant feel like ive done the job right so time wise well not that i check the clock but after a few drink about 4 hrs before i was told ouch im to sore hey i reckon when a fella hears that well we've done allright mal ps anyone wanna try
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RHP User
18 years ago
I like having longer sessions then again some ladies prefer a full-on shorter session. I quiclky found out that the older chics are more into the longer sessions as compared to the young birds. The again, it might be an individual thing. Nonetheless, i would prefer a long session so as to control the raging-bull within me and let out in the peak of the moment ( popularly known as cloud nine). I derive no pleasure in the short session unless they are really full-on to the point where her brain are out of the window. Well, that's just my opinion on.
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RHP User
18 years ago
Quantitatively, I have enjoyed sex sessions up to an hour in general, six hours at best, 5 seconds at worst (only once though - early days... ) Qualitatively, as has been said so often, it depends a lot on the girl, the conditions, the initial horniness and so on. I don't seem to have a problem with the woman cumming during sex - some are a bit more of a challenge than others but once again, it depends on various factors. I think that if you are concerned more about the guy's pleasure, that is all you will achieve. You should think about YOUR pleasure (I know I would) and then it might be a different story. There is also the matter of what the guy does after he cums. I am not one to turn over and go to sleep although I believe many do. I like to keep playing for as long as you do and cumming doesn't mean goodnight...
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RHP User
18 years ago
I think i may be the odd man out here, I prefer the action to the orgasm therefore i'll hold off forever if i could ........as long as there is breath in me and i'm fit enough to carry on then i will keep on pounding .....lol. I've even got to the point where most times i have to concentrate very hard to actually orgasm ......its nothing to do with the woman ......its just that i enjoy the action to much to want to finish
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RHP User
18 years ago
well i do enjoy the actual avent of intercouse in many different possies. but depending on the mood and the girl and how long its been between pleasures . i can go for as short as 5-10 to as long as hours. now that doesnt mean that i last that long before i cum . that can be as equally variable from just minutes to hours. i once went an intire nite of sex without orgasming once(not one lass ....no.... it was at a swingers party orgy)but then the next morning i went off like a rocket . no matter how long i last before i orgasm doesnt mean thats it for me i can orgasm sometimes several times before im completely spent. if allowed to have a breather after each orgasm i can go for hours sometimes even goin as far as having a orgasm without ejeculating which can be even more powerful. so in answer to your question it varies from time to time.
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RHP User
18 years ago
The thing that strikes me hardest is the women who seem to hold the expectation that men aren't interested in putting effort into great sex. I have to ask, if thats the standard you think is out there, why are you bothering on rhp? Seondly, it seems obvious that one is unlikely to get much except for the standard answer on this in a public forum - 10 minutes to 2 hours seems to be the culturally understood "acceptable" norm, with a few exceptions from guys who aren't afraid to emphasise their prowess. It all tempts me to brag on my man's behalf, but that seems a little crass. I'll just smile contently to myself instead ;) LOOOOONNNNG fucks are awesome, but only when the guy enjoys a long fuck just as much as me. One thing I really don't like is when a guy keeps going, not because he wants to, but because of a sense of obligation, or just to prove he can. Honestly, if a guy is feeling over it and wants to finish, I'd rather he did. Of course, I'm probably in the minority of women here (perhaps with Cuddly?) - many do seem to see it as an obligation that a man holds out.
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RHP User
18 years ago
Now, I'm not sure if this is the feminist coming out in me or the multiple orgasmer but in my opinion you are misssing out. Orgasm from intercourse is wonderful- now I know not all women are physically built the same but if I were you I'd buy a good vibrator and have some practice sessions at home finding your Gspot and your Aspot and all the other spots in there. Then you can cum with him and enjoy it even more. And then it won't be all about his pleasure but about yours too. Yay girl power- pussy power Goldy xxx
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RHP User
18 years ago
"Does the attraction to the woman your screwing effect how long you take to cum? Is it a dud root if it takes him ages or is he enjoying every bit?" 1). Absolutely. But I don't make a habit of screwing women I'm not totally attracted to so I don't know how helpful that is. As my previous post alluded to, I am enjoying the wonders of sustaining intercourse (using a boring scientific word) and increasing both peoples' enjoyment as we both realise that I don't want to cum because fucking just feels sooooo good. It doesn't necessarily have to be one hour of just screwing though; but it might involve many other things also to heighten the play. As someone else has pointed out "Why the formula?!" The best fun is when there is no formula. 2). Cumming (for me) is not a definite indication of a woman being a "good root". After all, I can make myself cum withing seconds so... Good luck on your journey of discovery Cuddly. I'm enjoying reading about how you're enjoying yourself. ;)
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RHP User
18 years ago
Goldycocks... when I read your post, I had to go back and re-read Cuddly's to see if I'd missed something. I haven't.... but I took her meaning to be very different from what you did. Regardless of what Cuddly actually did mean (and I know only she can answer that) - why the assumption that intercourse being for the man's pleasure = cannot have vaginal orgasms? I personally relate 100% to Cuddly's pov - I get much more enjoyment out of a man getting HIS enjoyment from sex than anything else. AND I also have multiple orgasms, very very easily. In fact, I orgasm much better from intercourse than anything else - to the point where I'm often more impatient to get to the penetration part than the "typical male" who generally thinks he is doing me a favour by waiting it out, lol.... But once there, my focus is on his pleasure. If I orgasm, its because we BOTH like it. This isn't intended as criticism, Goldycocks, I just found it really fascinating that you and I read the same post so differently.... nadi xx
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RHP User
18 years ago
Im with nadi_me ....i dont want the man to keep going because its the norm when he really isnt that into it. The problem is how do i know? when can i say "look lets stop" Id rather he just finish.... I dont want to be a glorified wank to any man and if he isnt in to it isnt that all it is? Im all for long screws just because i havent had a vaginal orgasm doesnt mean i dont enjoy it, i just enjoy it alot more when the man and i are in sync and can both have a good time. I bought a good vibe a while back now was detirmend to have that orgasm but unfotunatley is still only a myth to me! I have felt close with a couple of guys but just didnt get there....thats the kind of sex i want, and it was long and thouroughly enjoyable even though i didnt have the climax. I would absolutely give anything to have the multiples and get as much enjoyment as nadi_me, anything, just for a day! I like the man to really enjoy sex whether we are friends or not, i enjoy it if he is enjoying it whether it be 5mins or 5 hours...but if its a new guy and we get it on and there is a never ending screw that im not really enjoying no matter what opinion he has of himself! (im over the men thinking their cocks are gods gift) but if its pointless humping from my perspective id rather he finish and just leave.... I also luv to get to the penetration, the first time he enters is magnificent and i long for that even after an orgasm or 2 from clitotal. So alas for the time being there arent any vaginal orgasms but will conitinue on my search....any men experts out there feel free to drop me a line!!
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RHP User
18 years ago
I hope I'm not frickn ur thread.....but, the first time vaginally for me was after holding off on penetration as long as possible. Then it was a matter of hitting that "g" spot and grinding just a cppl of times and whoa....lol...u get the picture. And in my wisdom, if you're enjoying yourself, any self respecting male is going to too.... xx SnS
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RHP User
18 years ago
It does sound to me like you may be thinking just a little too much about what he's enjoying, you're enjoying, who's doing what and for how long. Rather than focus on whats seems right it might be better to just relax and find the security to do so in the fact that neither you or he would have come this far and be enjoying each others sex unless you both wanted it. I know for my part i enjoy a woman far more if she is relaxed and enjoying it with me than if she is worried about whether it is good for me or not. Trust me, if we've come this far then i'm enjoying myself ;). To your original question then from what i've seen, heard and experienced it seems men are as varied as the women. Some are multi, some one timers (usually biiig :) ), some love the foreplay, some to get down and dirty. None of them are right or wrong, just different. I say, viva la difference... :). To those women who say all men are just interested in themselves i say stop listening to the bragarts and sweet talkers lol.
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RHP User
18 years ago
Hi Amanda, Don't get too hung up on how long you screw for. Sometimes it's a fast and frantic fuck that's over in minutes, other times a long, slow sensual screw hits the spot. The important thing is, whichever way to go, both need to be into it. Your excitement is our excitement. I generally don't think just getting it in and pumping away is the best way to spend our time either, I'd rather swap a few positions or lick and touch for a while as well. Having said that though, if a guy's hitting your spot and you can feel it building, grab him and hold him there! Let him know you're loving it, and most guys will be happy to keep pushing your button. But... You're going to have to find it for yourelf first, and sorry Goldy, but I don't think the vibe's a good way to do it. The vibrator's great for stimulating everything at once, and that's fine for someone who cums easily from penetration, but for someone who starts off slow and needs a bit of effort to get there, it'll mask the smaller sensation they feel at the first few strokes. A small unpowered dildo might be good if you're shy, but the best way would be a willing partner who knows what you're looking for and who'll spend the time with his or her fingers to find your hot-spots. After that, any time you get a stayer, you can let them go for their lives and move yourself to get the right spots attended to. Cheers, Bob
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RHP User
18 years ago
I'm not sure I'm going to be the only person who will admit to this but by the time I'm naked, between the sheets doing it I dont really give a flying f*ck bout his pleasure or my pleasure or orgasms or what. I just f*ck till I cum, then cum again, and again and keep going till I'm done. If he doesnt last then he either gets a second chance to see if he can keep up with me or gets the flick. Then road test the next one. If we match then its all good and we keep seeing each other for a while.
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RHP User
18 years ago
I have been with a woman who couldnt orgasm from penetration alone, she bought a clit buzzer n used it at the same time. once she got to orgasm it just kept goin!
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RHP User
18 years ago
Woody beat me to the punch. Just relax and stop thinking. Not being a woman, I have no idea what an orgasm feels like or how to achieve it, but from what I've read I gather there is a need to "let go". Do you need to let go? Who knows...
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RHP User
18 years ago
i have to ask, how long can a lady last, my last g/f was young, the age i like, 19, no lie. her prob with me was when r u going to cum, she used to dry out b4 i came. its a prob for me, so ladies how long can u last b4 i cum, 10 mins, maybe 15, am i a problem........cheers daniel
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nil8ted
18 years ago
amanda i see wat you are asking but my self i like to go as long as possible and if i do cum early i just keep going till both of us have had enough or get tired.lol but if with the right person i mean seriously who can get tired
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RHP User
18 years ago
However long the average commercial break is.... Kiss
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RHP User
18 years ago
I was never one to have alot of experience let alone a variety so im learning about the differences in men sexually. Im submissive in the bedroom id rather the man take charge, but if i know the person long enough to be comfortable enough to take the lead. One thing im finding tho is that men on here arent really interested in the foreplay unless they are getting a blow job....For the most part they want a screw and then rush away or out the door. Maybe if i was relaxed enough it wouldnt be such a huge concern for me. Im sorry to the men out there that arent like the following description but no matter how much i point out that i am also looking for a friend they just tell me what i want to hear and once im in the bed/public place/park!! it all goes out the window and the chance to form a firendship never actually ocurrs. I just want to like and enjoy the person and be able to laugh with them, thats it....nothing heavy, no pressure, no strings just to be a friend, i mean god forbid we watch a movie, lol or even porn!!...ive been dissapointed and maybe just overthinking the whole thing way too much. A guy i recently met was great we got along well, went back to his place after the first screw we laid there for a while chatting or just enjoying the silence...Then after the second go within 15mins of finishing he asked that i not stay the night, OK firstly that was never my intent i just dont see the need to rush. I guess i underestimated how important some lazing or cuddling afterwards was to me. I was at his house, he lived alone and it wasnt late...why the rush?? I am just thinking too much about all this instead of enjoying the moment lately....not that i think its the key to a vaginal orgasm but definately the key to enjoying sex. On the question of drying out.....It happens to me after a while, I can get sore quickly at times and it just isnt a turn on...Lube works well but maybe your not keeping the momentum of her rising pleasure and from my experience sometimes i need more than pure penetration to stay in the moment and can turn dry quick, especially if the woman isnt quite enjoying the intercourse as much as you are. Thanks heaps guys on sharing your thoughts, ive been doing the road test when it doesnt work, i just didnt think it would be this hard to find a regular friend... Maybe this just isnt for me.
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RHP User
18 years ago
It sucks when people just tell you what you want to hear. I AM ABSOLUTELY SICK OF SALES PEOPLE RIGHT NOW. If they come anywhere near me I just blatantly start walking in the opposite direction. (I'm thinking particularly of real estate and secondhand car salespeople). I don't know what to say about the men who are using you, regardless of your honesty regarding what you want from your meeting. Regarding your outdoors meets, I have to ask, how does it get to the point of you complaining about a situation AFTER you decided to go through with it?? :/
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RHP User
18 years ago
well i find if theirn been a drought it will be very hot and quick but the best is when the hair on your back of the neck kick in and you can spend a hole week end just sex / shower tease and go again have had some one that we just click and we seam to just never wont to stop so how long you now when the mate is right you just wont to do it as long as the world allowa
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RHP User
18 years ago
Ive been experimenting and started giving everything a go lately one of the first challenges i set myself was to try the random meaningless empty public/outdoor thing, I know i dont like it so i am upfront when chatting now. Complaining after the fact comes from a different reason. I havent done it in the last couple of weeks but as an example there were a couple of guys that i had been chatting to and as a result of these chats i felt that even after the inital random romp that we would still chat, meet and get to know each other better to find a regular f**k buddy....I mean thats mainly what im after, a regular screw with someone i could be mates with, im not after something impersonal. So afterwards to not bother chatting with me and just go cold to me is god damn rude. There are probably many chicks that would suit their purpose so why do it?? Thats why i complain now after the fact. I was honest and upfront so the man would know what to expect and in return i was used and discarded. I have no tollerance for bullshit.I tell the truth and expect it in return.I would have thought a site like this would be perfect for people to find what they are really looking for without pre-tence. We can all be honest and get what we want so why bullshit?
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RHP User
18 years ago
maybe the root was bad and they dont want to go back for seconds, let alone have it as a regular thing...
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RHP User
18 years ago
Is that experience speaking there? Lol
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RHP User
18 years ago
All the men ive met aside from 1 have tried to hook up with me again, just with some of them i wasnt interested in round 2 when i didnt really enjoy the first round! Whether they wanted to hook up again because they enjoyed it or whether i was just someone to root i dont know. I have been with a couple of repeaters and things are pretty good there but im not done searching yet.... Its just the way some behaive afterwards, some dont exactly make u feel good about it and although to a certain extent we all use each other when it comes to sex, its only because im clear about what im after that i face such dissapointed that ive wasted time with a liar. Ive walked away feeling used and empty and i hate it. Thats why im very open when it comes to my expectations yet ive still walked away feeling the same way. Thats my only complaint when it comes to this site, im honest because i want to find what im looking for, i just dont know why there is the need for bullshit.
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RHP User
18 years ago
your walking away feeling used and empty because your allowing it to happen
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SirSpankalot1966
18 years ago
Hi all As for me Im not in any rush to enjoy the moment and have it finish. I dont think i could be a 5min wonder even if i tried,i believe and alot of you may and will laugh but its not about me getting my rocks off and be off like a rocket its all about making that special person your with enjoy the exp. If i wanted to be selfish i prob wouldnt even care what your name is but thats not what its all about. If everyone cared more about making someone else enjoy and not just themselves we would all be alot more satisfied with our lifes and the choices we make And the up side to making someone else special you never know what may happen and how much effort your partner will put into it making you feel special too. after all isnt that what everyone wants to feel special and wanted!
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RHP User
18 years ago
I'm with you Cuddly; honesty is best. No matter what happens in life (honesty doesn't always guarantee the best experience - in the short term) honesty leaves you feeling light of heart because your conscience is clear. The things that do work out well are achieved through honesty and you feel much better about yourself for it. Give me a light heart and some short term hurdles and hardships over all desires satisfied through dishonesty any day.
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RHP User
18 years ago
I must be a bit out of the ordinary here... but a quick sexual encounter with a gal that leaves me feeling worthless & used??? hell yeah.. Use me baby.... & quickly :-) anyway.... back to the grind stone cheers
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Loveknot
18 years ago
thoughts create feelings! xx
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RHP User
18 years ago
There are definately times when that quick hot sex is wild! Never dispute that some of the best times ive had were encounters like that. If thats what ur after tho id rather the person be upfront and not pretend, if im in the right mood it might be what im after to!! Its all about getting what we want when we want it, todays craving could be tomorrows turn off. It might not be realistic but if we all dropped our guard and were honest i really think we could all find what we are looking for, why are ppl makin up bullsh*t online when the beauty of anonimity is there. Even if im being told something i dont like i would prefer honesty, although there is a big difference between brutal honesty and subtle truth but i think there is a happy medium there with ppl just being politely honest.
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RHP User
18 years ago
Guess there is a simple truth is if the guy doesnt really care, he will wanna get orgasm as soon as possible (thats considering a guy isnt some horny bag that blows as soon as he sees tits) However if i was fucking a hotty hell i wouldnt want it to end, you'd wanna please that ass so it comes bak for more later, in long relationships sometimes u just need to try spice it up a little bit =O (lets talk about some korny ideas hehe) I would compare it to ladies givin blokes blow jobs, they will do it awesome, swallow it and everything only to a "special' guys as I been told. The other times it will be just a thing to get the guy hard and get it over with. aah thats my 5c
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RHP User
18 years ago
I agree with that, I will only give blow jobs to certain guys and never the first time i screw them. For me just knowing them a little makes a difference, if i dont really like or connect with the person then i wont be putting his c**k in my mouth. I dont expect men to give me oral the first time either so it works both ways. If i like the person and i want to give him a blow job then i put everything into it, if im going to do it im going to do it well. It makes me want to give him the blow job of a lifetime and i really enjoy it but that connection has to be there first.
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RHP User
18 years ago
Well, it looks like there's an answer to the question. According to sex experts the best sex lasts for between seven and thirteen minutes and even a three minute quickie can be satisfying. So there ya go.
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RHP User
18 years ago
God sometimes I read back over my own posts and *SHUDDER*. How friggin embarrassing - and I wasn't even drinking. Anyway, in answer to the question...I tend to prefer seven or eight minutes myself. That's if I'm feeling fit and horny and endurance is high.
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RHP User
18 years ago
Cos I sit back & SHUDDER at your posts too. BUT...thats the ones I've managed to get to the end of BEFORE I say "Fukk this CRAP" and read summat else more palatable to my atrophied neuron pathways. E-r-r-r-r-r, only KIDDIN Maittte, YOUR posts always raise a snigger from me. Keep up the good work..Haw-deeeee-har-hah ~~F~~ **Well, at least we got the Tree-Climbin thing, eh mate**
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RHP User
18 years ago
For me it is all about chemistry. There has to be an attraction to then generate a sexual feeling. The more attracted you both are to each other I think the longer you want to keep that explosive feeling going and going and going. If the attraction is not the same, that is where the problem lies. If a guy is really, really into you he will go to the ends of the earth to please you during foreplay and of course intercourse. If you feel the same way you will want to do the same for him. Time stops still, before you know it you have been feasting on each others bodies for hours and hours ....... Well that is how it works for me ....... maybe I'm just lucky :-) Then you all live happily ever after...............lol :-P
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RHP User
18 years ago
if you're truly attracted to that person, and into it, time is irrelevant. a five minute fuck with an INTENSE orgasm for both people beats a one hour slamfest anytime, okay most times?
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RHP User
18 years ago
If im wondering how much longer he will take do u think that means the guy is thinkin the same thing? Its not that im not enjoying it, its just a particular guy that has made me analyse it all.... Until this guy no man had ever really taken long with me unless they were full on relationships, I had always been told that I was tight and was always given that as the reason they couldnt last, it never bothered me its not the time taken but both ppl enjoying it and being satisfied....just this guy took ages the first time and still does, it makes me even more paraniod as he is the first younger guy i have been with so of course im thinkin that he cant be that attracted to me to begin with. I know he must be enjoyin himself or we wouldnt still be hookin up but sometimes after a while i find myself wondering how much longer it will be and become self concious. I can only explain it the way ive felt it and the experiences i have had that the more the guy was into it/me the quicker he'd orgasm and if he wasnt really into it/me then it would take him longer to build the momentum and reach orgasm.......?? because that initial hightened attraction and the nervous excitement you feel whenn you are about to see/screw someone wouldnt be there if you werent really in to the person so then im thinking he would have to rely souly on the foreplay and sex, not the connection between 2 ppl. Please guys if i have this wrong let me know, like i said i can only comment from my own experience and it isnt exactly alot but thats just the way i see it. I know i over analyse and read way too much into things but its because i want the sex to be the best it can, I like pleasing a man and having awesome sex rather than having something unsaid standing in the way of us both having a good time...... Anyway, let me know what u think about that!!
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RHP User
18 years ago
Untill I'm exhausted, because I rarely cum. Unless I do it myself lol
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RHP User
18 years ago
Whys that? Ive found lately with a guy i have been seeing that i can feel him building up but cant quite get there and sometimes it really does go on for ages before he cums.. I have heard that from a few guys lately that ive chatted to that it isnt as uncommon as i thought it was. Id like to know more about why u cant come unless you do it yourself....does it depend on the woman at all??
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RHP User
18 years ago
It depends on a whole lotta things, I am the same it take a lond time to cum, sometimes its the woman sometimes its the position but for me its the feeling if it feels absolutly fantastic I just keep going & going I want to be satisfied so much that I just will not stop. Lavish
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RHP User
18 years ago
If you masterbate to often do u think that it can cause you to take a long time? A guy told me that he keeps building up to orgasm but then it doesnt happen so we keep going and going so i thought id pose the question.....i know a wank before meeting for sex is normal for some guys coz they dont want the sex to be over to quickly but on the other hand if you are constantly masturbating (i have no idea how many times a day the average guy wanks so i cant comment here) but if you are doing it way to often then would it cause you to have trouble reaching orgasm quickly? Another thought.....if you are used to wanking alot then obviously you would be perfecting your art and if you are used to it being done properly by yourself then is it harder for a woman to please you becasue you can do a better job yourself?
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RHP User
18 years ago
gday Sugar, a good question but also almost impossible to answer. my experiences vary a lot and it does completely depend on who you are with and the chemistry you have together. (no i'm not talking about love) it also depends on the attention I get and give. so it can go from minutes (or less) to half an hour or more. sometimes (as with women) you just cant cum no matter what. I think the trick is to keep your brain away from it and let your body tell your brain its having fun. of course we (men) would all like to be able to go for as long as it takes to please who we are with, but hey we are not all adonis's and if you are one now believe me it will fade, but that doesnt mean its the end. I enjoy sex a lot more now than i did 30 yrs ago, for various reasons. so dont worry too much about how long, but more "how good". hope you get what you want
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