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How long does it take!?
December 21 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
You did not ask for advice, so: About a week.
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RHP User
11 years ago
so you can actually contact people, that might be a good start.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Twas about 3 years.... I'm quite fussy who I meet though...if I were one to just wanna fuck anything that moved and possessed a vagina then maybe that would be a slightly better outcome.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
But we were on here as a couple and couples are just under women on the ladder, and way above men. ;-) . It is particularly difficult for men who are guests. . But buying a membership doesn't guarantee anything either... . I'm sure this thread'll get more advice than you want or need.
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RHP User
11 years ago
if you pay for membership, contact people that you fit with, add decent photo's and a better worded profile about you...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ummmmmmmm..... you've got a 10-friends list....... so unless you're simply one of those pointless collectors.... you must be doing something vaguely in the right direction. So..... I say it takes as long as it takes.But if you keep posting comments of dissatisfaction .... and your profile is as enticing as the vanilla strip in a tub of Neapolitan...... I suggest its going to take you a bit longer. There is no such thing as luck in tis place....there is good fortune resulting from good communication..... and there is a vast ocean of discontentment from poor communication and poor selection.
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RHP User
11 years ago
In South Australia..Everyone is in church..But to answer your question about two weeks xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
Really, don't ask the girls here.... Silly question to them, its easy pickings. For guys its a totally different story. I had a single profile here before and it can take a while.... Guess it depends on how good you are at picking a profile that you like, if you're lucky she likes you too and how well you can string a few sentences together to impress her.... Once I had a paid membership, I was probably fairly lucky with only a few months before the first meet.... Get some nice pics up, leave the close up cock shots on your phone.... Good luck! Be patient....
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
But as MrsPeachy says, all depends on your position in the food chain. Men are are the bottom dwellers. Makes a nice change to every day life........
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have now probably met over 120 people from RHP at events and meet and greet nights in the last 5 yrs. I don't do the online dating thing for one on one meets.
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RHP User
11 years ago
get to some events and meet people. The beauty of the events is you know people are available, that is what they are there for so it is just like a night out at the pub if you can get over the nerves of attending not knowing anyone. You only need to do that once before people know you and have met you and you are more confident to go again and again. If you actually organise your own even then people know who you are before you even get there :) You will communicate with them before the event and they will come to you when they get there. Good luck.
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MissBishere
11 years ago
was in a matter of days of joining
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RHP User
11 years ago
About a month. With a membership
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RHP User
11 years ago
Women get their pick because there are lots more men than women in this site. So you should listen to the men if they answer.... Can take months, years & some never have any luck. Depends what you are looking for.
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RHP User
11 years ago
The first person you met... Was it someone you knew from the forum or chat rooms? Or was it from an email of a total stranger?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Not me, I'll bask on the surface thanks. 😎
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RHP User
11 years ago
Meet only a handful of great people :) more bout choice then numbers game...
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goosebumpsx
11 years ago
Total stranger. Seduced me with his words 😍 - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
Mmmm. First thing that came to mind was the movie Caddyshack. The foreboding soundtrack of Jaws in the background........
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RHP User
11 years ago
Have been on and off this site and have had varying degrees of 'success'. It is certainly harder for guys, for every 10 messages you send you may get 1 or 2 replies. Have not done the actual stats though. But in the end have met some great singles and couples and will be meeting more in the future. You really need to pay for a membership as a guy though or you really limit even further your chances. Good luck. Oh and not everyone in Adelaide is at church ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
So you know how hard it can be, do you help out any genuine decent guys now you're part of a couple? I'm a single guy but won't go to a nude beach, swingers club, party ect by myself. And wondered if there was any help/ understanding for guys in this situation? I understand there are plenty of creeps out there, but aren't all us single guys who attend these events automatically branded a creep even though we may not be. I may be single but would rather meet one or two couples or ladies as regular playmates than a heap of different people. Especially when new to the scene it's quite nerve racking going to a meet by yourself, learning what they do or don't like or want, wether you measure up being new and not one to make first moves ect, did they genuinely like you or just say that cause they wanted to fuck an you won't hear from them again.
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