M38
How many meets have you had?
June 08 2016
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RHP User
10 years ago
awesome, batting averages love it. I lost count a long time ago. Believe it or not, I used to aim for one a day and during my first summer doing this, I wasn't far off that, summer before last haha weeeeell I figured married people could have sex every day, just because I'm single now, why can't I have sex every day, at least once I am now however, a bit jaded by the online stuff, tired of the fakes, lying about every fuckin thing, real life is pleasing me more at the moment. I love things escalating quickly with someone I've just met, walk up and kiss, that sort of thing. If the attraction is there, both ways, no point in wasting time. I'm finding now when I do reply to messages, I'm half hearted, I don't believe any of them are real, and I'm too busy to have my time wasted, so I kind of wing it in the real world at the moment, and run with the odd existing contact. I haven't stopped looking but a bit over the online stuff at the moment. Just gave myself a ripping orgasm, still continue to have awesome sex with myself
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RHP User
10 years ago
Reading your OP made me feel a little uncomfortable I'm glad you're having fun, but as a newbie here, perhaps a little less boasting and a little more discretion But hey, maybe that's the difference between 28 and 38
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ahhh to be young again!! Plus you have the looks and body and obviously the personality and confidence to back it up. The young buck !! Yes it was fun when I first got on.I was offered a smorgas board of choice. Yes I was greedy. Yes I got hooked on the buildup of a first meet. I ended up chasing that.But my tastes changed and things got blaze'. I became bored. Re evaluated what I was looking for. Stepped back. Jumped back in with a different view of what I wanted to take from meeting total strangers on an uneven sexual platform. Basically, you will change, you will be led down different paths, and learn a lot more about yourself than you expect or want to see. Treat people with respect, be careful to not lead them on. People may seem tough in this sexual arena, but there are many people healing for whatever reason. Thats just part of life. Maybe you will get to a point where you just want to be with one or two people on an ongoing basis. You might get unfullfilled with the revolving door. Either way, enjoy you experiences and play safe. And be honest so you dont hurt people in the process.😋
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's a fine line, Jay. People value discretion in here. Just be mindful of broadcasting such things. 2c - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm slipping a bit.... hope June is a record-breaker!
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
LMAO! If you are happy to do it everyday, go for it! Apparently "everyone's doing it". 😁 Ms Foxy
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RHP User
10 years ago
What a lovely, insightful reply, couldn't have put it better myself 😚😚 - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
My eyes, fingers, arms and legs are crossed for you. Get those numbers up! Apparently 69 is the way to go. Ms Foxy
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DynamicCouple36
10 years ago
For us, it is not so much about the quantity/frequency but more about quality. We prefer to get to know people well, to form a small group of friends and to then meet when and if we are in the mood - something to look forward to. We think that if we had to meet every day, or every week, it may lose its "sparkle" for us. Less is certainly more.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' My eyes, fingers, arms and legs are crossed for you. Get those numbers up! Apparently 69 is the way to go. Uh-huh.... 138 scores a win! Two people whose favourite and lucky number is ''69''. Seriously though, I'll be up your way soon and if your could be so very gracious as to uncross those gorgeous legs? The rest I am happy to ... well, you know! Best........
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RHP User
10 years ago
Kiss and savour the taste on my own kinda guy..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I agree with above, casual sex does get a bit boring after awhile when you over indulge and quite often the sex is a bit mundane. For some of us our sexual development leans towards more unusual (kinky) pursuits which are enhanced when you know the person a bit or find someone who is into the same things. Not always so easy to find. Good for it Jack. Make hay while the sun still shines!! 😄
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RHP User
10 years ago
and come on MC you letting the team down with numbers like that.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I too think some discretion would be wise. Mr OP, you have a winning smile and looks, you're indeed positioned well for RHP and possibly, just possibly, with age and experience, your needs, desires and values may change. Until that time, just be mindful to avoid hurting or misleading anyone on your path there. That said, enjoy the ride
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RHP User
10 years ago
Fess up. You are the purchaser of Hugh Hefner's playboy mansion aren't you?
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RHP User
10 years ago
I only have 10 fingers so I have absolutely no idea. It's certainly more than I could count. All I know is that it is no where near enough xxxxx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Adelaide3some' and come on MC you letting the team down with numbers like that. It's only the 9th and I am on 11 so a reasonable effort considering my age. It's that ''trying hard'' part that starts to muck up once your past 50 ... thanks again to the SuperFox for insights into alternative solutions. Count you in and that makes it a 276... the mind boggles! Quoting 'Stirry' Kiss and savour the taste on my own kinda guy. There isn't a single mention of who your ''own kinda guy'' might be in your profile. Oh well... best of luck. ... live fast, die young and make a great lookin' corpse ya'all!
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Than quantity over here. It's all about standards which is why we have each other. We could get 20+ meets a month but really.....easier to stay in and have a wank without the grief that that many hookups would involve. Yeah call us fussy and discerning..... not desperate
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'CandyDelicious' Fess up. You are the purchaser of Hugh Hefner's playboy mansion aren't you? ... damn if you wouldn't look sensational in a pair of bunny ears! I'd happily fluff your bunny tail any time.
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RHP User
10 years ago
well said. I agree with mooche too , if i were one of the girls who had met you I'd be quite annoyed that such a post was made ..despite the fact that you have not named names.. but that's just me, I'm a very private person and value discretion . Make sure you are being up front with everyone .
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RHP User
10 years ago
on how many meets I've had - I dont kiss and tell ;)
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RHP User
10 years ago
the odd troll turning up here, just ignore and have fun
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RHP User
10 years ago
but that's because I'm older.. One at the Hyatt , 1 at the Swissotel , and 1 at Mc Donald's in Pitt St... God I wish they'd leave me alone .. 😜
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RHP User
10 years ago
You should try pop rocks lol Meh you probably have :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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MissBishere
10 years ago
Been here three years really haven't kept a tally. Enjoy your time I say but be mindful of people's privacy.
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
OP, you can do it anywhere your litle heart desires. Back seat of cars, to hotel rooms even rooftops....Heck! even your place, as you said. 😝 I'm sure there are lots of places to do it in this big wide world, within reason of course. I do not need to give you recommendations, as I'm sure you can make your own choice, with whom and where. I do love suggestions from a lover tho. ;) It's whatever I/we decide/agree upon at that time. Sometimes it planned, sometimes it's spontaneous. As long as no one is hurt/bragged about or its breaking the law, it really is ok. There's more to life than having sex in weird and wonderful places. Ms Foxy
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Jay_London
10 years ago
Appreciate the responses and also the concern. Anyone's privacy is paramount but I was genuinely asking out of curiosity not to boast. We're on a forum after all. For anyone knows you can just make stuff up. I have to say though, I'm enjoying my stay here so far and good on the mods of the site, because as an avid user of a soccer forum back at home I know there are a lot of "troll" posts that probably don't get through into actually making the thread so nice one on keeping it tidy for the rest of us. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Welcome to the murky waters of the forum 👌😎 you apparently won't be judged here by apparently like-minded, sexually open people ahaha 😜
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RHP User
10 years ago
...would never disclose. 🍌 - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsJonesy
10 years ago
Less than 100...maybe ;-) That depends on the way you define "meets". Do you define it as new people? Or anytime you meet and play, regardless of whether they are new people or not? I am very fond of regular meets; I could blow that 100 out of the water with just one fwb ;-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Interesting topic OP I've met a few people her on RHP, mostly at the Kings Park Sundowner. I've found lovers on the net but not from RHP...but obviously things are different for a fit young buck
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RHP User
10 years ago
THIS many! I tease.. (sorry Summer, I just had to run with your theme, although yours is much more appropriate!) Not a lot, because I like a connection of mind and body and this is much harder to find Good luck in your pursuits, stay safe and don't eat yourself silly at the smorgasbord, you might get a belly ache!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Im still laughing about pop rocks......
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RHP User
10 years ago
If I jumped up with both my arms and legs wide open, then looked down... well, a few might get confused and think THAT meant only one. It really just means I really ummm ''respect'' all of you gorgeous women on the forums. If not now, ask me again in the morning!
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RHP User
10 years ago
About a year ago, my record was set at three meets in a week, which was the most regular sex I'd ever had! But of those, two were commercial swingers parties, and one was a private meet. But of course I couldn't keep that rate up, I'd go broke! Lately my priority is focused on finances around a business (and a decent loan to repay), so as far as play is concerned the higher cost parties are out, so I'm now trying to establish private/ongoing connections, so actual play now is nearer to once a month. But still, IMO that is doing well for being single, and much better than nil! :)
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Dorey12
10 years ago
Donuts sums up my answer to this topic
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RHP User
10 years ago
We had a very negative time on RHP and met nobody after 2 weeks, and chose to not send or receive any more messages. We had a very negative experience on here. The cap to it all was a message we received from a single lady who is quite vocal in this forum, and I quote; "For you I'm sorry I do not see any snaps of you in a bikini so I can only assume that your fat, and as far as your hubby goes, once he has been to the gym every day for a year, and has a 6 pack, strong muscular arms and shoulders, message me again". We look like most on here, between average and good looking. So to receive a message like this was enough to tell us that there are far too many couples and singles ladies on here that are way too superficial. Not for us.
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LeMerovingien
10 years ago
Quoting 'up4funnotkinky' We had a very negative time on RHP and met nobody after 2 weeks, and chose to not send or receive any more messages. We had a very negative experience on here. The cap to it all was a message we received from a single lady who is quite vocal in this forum, and I quote; "For you I'm sorry I do not see any snaps of you in a bikini so I can only assume that your fat, and as far as your hubby goes, once he has been to the gym every day for a year, and has a 6 pack, strong muscular arms and shoulders, message me again". We look like most on here, between average and good looking. So to receive a message like this was enough to tell us that there are far too many couples and singles ladies on here that are way too superficial. Not for us. Having read your profile it does say you're interested in single men both in your description and profile info. I can't speak for anyone else but there's nothing telling me that I shouldn't message you if I happened to be interested. Nothing is preventing you from not responding to unwanted messages, I believe there's a separate section of your mailbox for people that don't match what you're looking for (although with the settings you've chosen I'm not sure if many if any messages you receive will go there). I'm far from an expert at using this site, but all the people that I've exchanged more than a few words with have proved to be lovely and apart from a few stumbles along the way I've found this site to be great (and I'm by no means a prize specimen). If someone starts insulting you just block them and be done with it. My advice would be rewrite your profile to state what you actually want. If you want the odd single guy then you can go find them yourselves and don't list it as something you're looking for. Also verifying your profile wouldn't hurt. Keep in mind that this is the internet and people can get away with a lot more than they might try in public. Don't let the minority ruin it for you.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'LeMerovingien' Quoting 'up4funnotkinky' We had a very negative time on RHP and met nobody after 2 weeks, and chose to not send or receive any more messages. We had a very negative experience on here. The cap to it all was a message we received from a single lady who is quite vocal in this forum, and I quote; "For you I'm sorry I do not see any snaps of you in a bikini so I can only assume that your fat, and as far as your hubby goes, once he has been to the gym every day for a year, and has a 6 pack, strong muscular arms and shoulders, message me again". We look like most on here, between average and good looking. So to receive a message like this was enough to tell us that there are far too many couples and singles ladies on here that are way too superficial. Not for us. Having read your profile it does say you're interested in single men both in your description and profile info. I can't speak for anyone else but there's nothing telling me that I shouldn't message you if I happened to be interested. Nothing is preventing you from not responding to unwanted messages, I believe there's a separate section of your mailbox for people that don't match what you're looking for (although with the settings you've chosen I'm not sure if many if any messages you receive will go there). I'm far from an expert at using this site, but all the people that I've exchanged more than a few words with have proved to be lovely and apart from a few stumbles along the way I've found this site to be great (and I'm by no means a prize specimen). If someone starts insulting you just block them and be done with it. My advice would be rewrite your profile to state what you actually want. If you want the odd single guy then you can go find them yourselves and don't list it as something you're looking for. Also verifying your profile wouldn't hurt. Keep in mind that this is the internet and people can get away with a lot more than they might try in public. Don't let the minority ruin it for you. Actually, we were going to add this to our last post, we did get an enormous amount of messages from guys. I am sure that most ladies and couples do. We have listed that we are also looking for guys, and we have lots of choice on RHP. However, in bucking the trend that we see on the forum (of guys getting slammed for doing this or that), only the guys seemed to respond on every occasion and the bulk were great to talk to and put in some effort to impress. Out of guys, ladies and couples that we chatted to, we give the Guys on here a massive thumbs up because I think most try to be conscious that as a couple you do get heaps on messages out of the blue, and I think that the guys do a much better job of impressing than the couple or ladies do. This is what we have found in our experience. Good job to all of the guys on here keep up the good work !! We will leave our profile as is now, as we just did not think that we would encounter this, but now that we have I doubt that we will be back for more. On a side note : We would like to 'HI' to one couple on here who we we have been chatting to on here and KIK and we (as of last night) have both have agreed to a future meet that we have planned and they are fantastic, and a very attractive couple great to chat to and we are looking forward to this meet.....(You know who both of you are as you read the forums and we can't wait to catch up). So add us down for 1 future meet....
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hardnslow
10 years ago
Hey touch myself if you blocked me I am real unblock me please xxx
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
Wait...did I read that right? Someone in this forum sent you that message? Is that correct? Ms Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
A single lady sent you that message?? Ms Foxy
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ooops ... were we supposed to count? LG
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RHP User
10 years ago
I just did a double take Up4fun I don't usually condone people quoting verbatim because I do think exact wording in private messages should remain exactly that, private, but that message, if correct, is very unkind and even cruel You dodged a bullet and it goes to show, a public face is not necessarily a private persona (and yep we are all wondering who it is). Some people are so brave behind their monitor and keyboard and to the messenger, I say "Really ?" "Really" ? I see you have no class". I hope the meet you mention works out and even though you have encountered one particularly nasty person (we all do) I hope you will remain here and chalk it up to one of RHP experiences.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm yet to meet anyone but I'm keen so if any lovely lady is interested in meeting up please let me know. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Nothing stell looking newer giwe up - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Dont know why ppl Have to be mean and rude with replies. A simple "No thanks Im not interested" would have been fine. And it was a forum user? Hhmm. Shame you cant out them. Thats just fucked to bring up someones size in a negative/hurtful way.
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RHP User
10 years ago
no, did you forget to put the notches in the bed post? rookie mistake
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Willow_1' Dont know why ppl Have to be mean and rude with replies. A simple "No thanks Im not interested" would have been fine. And it was a forum user? Hhmm. Shame you cant out them. Thats just fucked to bring up someones size in a negative/hurtful way. I'm sorry but I couldn't imagine anyone in here doing that, in that detail. Just in case you're wondering, it wasn't me, and I'd be the most likely to lay it out for them. I have been very blunt with some home truths I've told guys. But seriously, we're expected to believe that just out of the blue, this forum person let rip with the home truths? Yeah whateva, I think it's probably more likely to have been fueled by what happened in their communication leading up to that. Care to elaborate Up4fun ? And what exactly do you hope to achieve with your negative rant in your profile, says more about you IMHO and goes someway to explaining the possible reasons behind this, my 2 cents
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Seachange73
10 years ago
No wonder you were disillutioned. Terrible thing to say and criticize you personally. A polite 'Thanks, but no thanks. best wishes' will suffice. Rejection can be harsh but to further insult you is uncalled for and undeserving. But as Mooche said, don't let that one negative person ruin it for you. Bullet dodged. There are a lot of good and fun people here. Those that you find that are toxic, manipulative, rude and condescending, block them and move on. Most of us will get the occasional rude reply or whinges after we say 'no thanks' to a message or flirt. It comes with the territory. Like in real life, there are assholes everywhere. Don't let them spoil your fun. Good luck here.
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RHP User
9 years ago
A lot, maybe too much!! My ex was a sex addict that's her fault I wasn't like this before!!!! :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
A quote..... isn't always a quote if it can be copy & pasted... with the potential for either some embellishment, or total artistic licence. That on to of the 'private' part of private messages us why I feel they should stay in your mailbox and go no further. I do wonder, though.... what inspired such a response. People are not unmeasurably mean in a reply if they have nothing to reply meanly to. However, all of that said, I feel there's no benefit to anyone here in finding out why. Keep it private Forge your own path. Don't sweat the small stuff from anonymous people 😎 D.
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RHP User
9 years ago
a question in my opinion. I would never ask a complete stranger about their sex life & if Im asked, I ignore the question. In my experience, some people become very insistent and have almost demanded to know. If it gets to that point I haven't hesitated to let them know that " I dont discuss my personal experiences with complete strangers & I think it is very inappropriate of them to pry". Some people think it's ok to leave their manners at the door simply because they are participating in a public dating site. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I find that meeting people on here go through feast and famine (for me anyway). I don't know how many people I have met.... so have been great and others not as good (and maybe people may say the same of me). In the discussion about nasty responses, I think that that is a part of life (not condoning it though). I have had some too and felt that it was uncalled for. I get that people have likes and dislikes.... if a profile has not been specific and I make an approach, yet I meet the criteria contained, then to get a negative response is unreasonable... people need to accept some responsibility to how they word their profile. If, as I have, I have approached someone and been cheeky knowing I don't tick all their boxes, then to be told to bugger of would be fair. That said, as a bi bloke, I have sent guys messages who's profiles give no indication of wanting an MM contact and had some great encounters.... I had couples where what has happened in reality is not what was in their profile at all. Sometimes I think it is a mood thing.... sometimes people may say "fuck it, why not", other times the may say "fuck off". I'm of the opinion if you don't ask you don't get, but I'm also of the opinion that if I'm not interested I have options..... ignore, say no or block... all work.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Oh alright, I'm not really a gentleman and I love a good brag so I'll list them................ Hmmm lets see........mutton, beef, turkey, chicken, kangaroo, goat...............
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RHP User
9 years ago
Will elicit a non response from me.."So,how are you finding it here..any luck?"..Why would a person expect me to respond,and more importantly what do they expect me to say? Nah,haven't had a root from here in four years..or,Yeah,been rooting me self stoopid every night since I got here..puhleese 👿Q
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RHP User
9 years ago
But then it dies off with a good week every so often.LMAOLets see if you do as well as I do when your my age.
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