How many ppl are u seeing?

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  oops.....lol.. xx SnS

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  Seems to be the same whether its a f'Buddy or a long term thing. I dont share that info, as i ashamedly type this in...I would feel alot cheaper and that neither nor any guy would have any respect for me unless it was a 3some etc. Does it work the same in reverse?? If you are only seeing one person, do you tell that person they are the only one? Are we leaving ourselves open to similar disrespect as the guy would know he was the only one and try to use that to his advantage and also the game playing when he has us wondering how many ppl he is seeing and Are we the only one?? I think its all part of the mystery and nervousness that comes with something new...Either way my lips are sealed to any opposing parties! Short of a reltationship when I would tell a guy he is the only one LOL even then Id still make him say it first.....

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  only one.......but i think he is schizophrenic..........so who knows!!!!! Personally wether its FWB or otherwise.......its just common decency to let the other person know if your seein someone else........init?????? Just my thorts..... QT

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  well now let me see theres um and also oh her then arh who am i kinding im not seeing anyone at all im to old or live to far away or something mal

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  Open and honest and good communication always worked for me, If they asked. Who you were seeing, well...Thats your business. We dont kiss and tell. Leelee

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  wow look at the silence in this thread... LOL but you are right kiss... i think your body is your bussiness. btw; smart... FIVE!!! who the hell are the other 4?? LRE

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  I don't ever assume that I am the only lover a person has at any given time, and I expect my lovers to assume the same. If they ask, I will tell them the truth, or I will tell them it's none of their business (depending on my mood and the person who's asking), and they can do with that information what they will. I don't believe it is really any of my busines what they do when they are not with me, and in fact, I would rather not know :) xxSoubiii

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  Soubii-----very good point..... ;-) It's a case of Honesty vs Risk isn't it? You can be honest....answer the question as to exactly how many ppl you're playing with.....only to have someone shut you out coz it turns out they really DIDN'T want to know (and yes I'm speaking from experience here)...... Or....you can choose not to give a completely honest answer and have accusations of infidelity levelled at you from all sides anyway....... Personally I find it a lot easier to just be honest (you don't have to give your life story by any means)....people can either take it on board or say no thanks....it's that simple...... My two cents' worth again...... ;-) M_S x

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