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How many woman DONT masturbate?
April 29 2018
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RHP User
8 years ago
She tells me she still rubs one but only rarely.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Hi. I,m one of those that its almost impossible reason being because of corrective surgerys, and being intersex makes it in my case a non effect, if a guy was to be with me for a long time = months , it may work or come back to life, hardly any thing stirs my female part,s though strange as maybe, I do come on heat and go into sexual over drive, and that my whole being , so with the right person = male = maybe it may come to gether . when.., lol,s..........doubt any one wonts to be in a long term relastionship...... so quess it wont happen.Fact of life I,m facing. ...noeleena...
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RHP User
8 years ago
Give her sum of ya MOJge
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RHP User
8 years ago
In my experience from chatting with friends over my adult life, not many of us women do master bate. For woman we’re a little more complicated and require more than just a physical “rub” especially with oneself. I had read an article during a time my libido was practically non existent. It has suggested that the more arousal we received, the more we wanted and needed. So I tried. Nope. Zilch. Nudda. I then bought the bestest toy ever invented, the womaniser! 😍 Boom 💥 hello!!! I found it certainly did raise my libido more and more each time I played. ( now I secretly think I’m an Addict 🙊) I now need to as part of my daily ( or every other) daily routine lol 😝 Go shopping my man!! Now! 😁 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
are you married or single ? you seemed a little confused about your relationship status on your profile and your forum posting. Not judging, just asking why cant people own their relationship status ? Moving on I masturbate a lot but no necessarily for sexual pleasure. Stress relief, bringing me down when I'm a little wired after working all night, it helps me get to sleep, so most of the time its has little to do with sexual pleasure. More for a physical release, those sleepy hormones kicking in when I need them most
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thanks for the advice, it's worth all that I paid for it. Exactly nothing. If I want advice Aunty Annie makes a better choice, now go back to what ever it was that you were doing and stop pissing me off.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Not just for sexual pleasure either. One could say I am addicted and if so, I couldn't think of a worse addiction. So I rub one out 2 - 4 times in a 24 hour period. Like Pip, I do to get to sleep most nights too. The morning it starts my day off relaxed. If I having a doona day..... don't ask. I am single tho. 😛 - Posted from rhpmobile
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MissRedFox
8 years ago
I had no interest in masturbatiom. When my hormones kicked in with my second pregnancy it was like a discovered masturbation because unfortunately when I turned to the ex expecting a enthusiastic reception I was turned away Now it's part of my sleep routine so at least once a day - 3 times a day or more if I'm extra horny and it can depend on finding the time and privacy XX - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'MrMojoRisin' Thanks for the advice, it's worth all that I paid for it. Exactly nothing. If I want advice Aunty Annie makes a better choice, now go back to what ever it was that you were doing and stop pissing me off. Pistols at dawn between you two? That escalated fast!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Are just not comfortable with their own sexuality. The only two serious relationships I have been in, they both have been very sexual women but would not dream of flicking the bean (a truly abhorrent saying that I nonetheless love, kind of like ''blue-veined custard chucker''), by themselves or otherwise. As I mentioned though, they had an otherwise very healthy appetite for sex (the first one though, that appetite was directed toward another). This sounds quite different to your situation, and it sounds like you are in one of those diabolical ''sexless'' relationships. And yes, they are diabolical. Your thoughts start to stray, and given enough time I think most would stray. It is a terrible feeling, to be a sexual being in love with one that is not. Sometimes it is poor self esteem issues, or body image issues, or they have fallen out of love with you, or they still love you but you've packed on the kilos or whatever. Whatever the cause, only by talking to her (the go-to solution offered up by nearly everyone here) can you ascertain this and possibly correct it. It may be that it is insurmountable, that will provide its own challenges, but it may just be something you can fix.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I can’t remember a time when i haven’t masturbated... what can I say, I’m a horny fucker!!! Lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Most people who have been on the forums for a while will know that I am in a sexless marriage. Two things I will not tolerate are people getting on their high horse, or taking the PI55.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Sometimes i can go a week without it but sometimes twice a day. De- stresses me and yes it does make me hornier. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Thanks OP, The question raised and responses have been really interesting. I masturbate regularly. For different reasons which are never lack of sexual fullfillment because I am quite satisfied between hubby and playmates. I find an orgasm relaxes me and energizes me at the same time. I have to start my day with rubbing one out. Depending on the free time available during the day; there would often be another one or two longer little self plays (vibrator) then one quick one to go sleep. But if Hubby away and no playmates available and im horny..... could be as many as 10 plus times in 24hours. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Sorry forgot to answer your other question OP. I find the more i masturbate or have sex...... the more i want. To the point of becoming quite obsessed by it. I can get a little frenzied and completely preoccupied with sexual gratification quite often. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Service_man
8 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' Why would you think its a worse addiction? You're just a horny woman. If it helps yo u get through the day with wind in your sails surely that can't be bad?? Not just for sexual pleasure either. One could say I am addicted and if so, I couldn't think of a worse addiction. So I rub one out 2 - 4 times in a 24 hour period. Like Pip, I do to get to sleep most nights too. The morning it starts my day off relaxed. If I having a doona day..... don't ask. I am single tho. 😛 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Service_man
8 years ago
Quoting 'OkeyDoke45' 'blue-veined custard chucker'') You cracked me up with that -- Are just not comfortable with their own sexuality. The only two serious relationships I have been in, they both have been very sexual women but would not dream of flicking the bean (a truly abhorrent saying that I nonetheless love, kind of like ''blue-veined custard chucker''), by themselves or otherwise. As I mentioned though, they had an otherwise very healthy appetite for sex (the first one though, that appetite was directed toward another). This sounds quite different to your situation, and it sounds like you are in one of those diabolical ''sexless'' relationships. And yes, they are diabolical. Your thoughts start to stray, and given enough time I think most would stray. It is a terrible feeling, to be a sexual being in love with one that is not. Sometimes it is poor self esteem issues, or body image issues, or they have fallen out of love with you, or they still love you but you've packed on the kilos or whatever. Whatever the cause, only by talking to her (the go-to solution offered up by nearly everyone here) can you ascertain this and possibly correct it. It may be that it is insurmountable, that will provide its own challenges, but it may just be something you can fix.
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nightingale8
8 years ago
But not very often due to lack of time alone and a surplus of available means (my partner). Had this not been the case, i dont think it would be nearly as much as some here and I consider myself a very sexual being. Yes I definitely think it helps with libido but as others have pointed out above if it's not there in the first place it's really hard to get going. I think it's about cultivating libido in all other areas of life, not just in the bedroom. I watched a TED talk a while back where Esther Perel spoke very pointedly about getting the energy back into the relationship. My partner said it didn't resonate but he's a man! Exercise, particularly weight training for me, never fails to bring rev my drive. - Posted from rhpmobile
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EarthQueen
8 years ago
Have experienced low libido a few times and also tried to use masturbation to fix it. It didn’t work. Loss of libido is complex and connected to body and mind. The way I fixed mine was go down tantric path, gain awareness of my body and also try to drop my level of anxiety about losing it because it is sad and frustrating for me and many women when it happens. I’ve gone through periods where I would masturbate a few times a day, once a day it varies. But I’ve done it regularly since I was a teenager. I think it’s just good in general to focus and get in touch with your body. Doesn’t always have to end in orgasm either. When I wasn’t single I could experience lack of desire for my partner but still want to masturbate. So again maybe not always connected. Don’t put too much pressure on your partner to “fix” her libido. She probably feels enough shame and guilt about it already. Talk about it for sure. She will probably take any questioning as a criticism though. Nobody really wants to live in a marriage without connected sex I don’t think ? But it can be hard to fix. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Mrs Fresh says she Doesn't need to as we have such a great sex life, but when we play she loves to touch herself and goes wild . Mr mojo so sad to hear you have a sexless marriage. But im sure theres a story to it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I find it impossible not to masturbate, I feel I was suppose to be born a man or something because I seem to get aroused easily and masturbate quite a lot, I have a partner who more than satisfies me, and I can get it when I want, I just find sex by myself is sometimes better, I can get off and finish when I want lol I suppose I'm just a horny person, and no I'm not addicted, I just enjoy it ☺ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I love sex but never really bothered to play with myself until my late twenties at my then husband's insistence. I guess I am a lazy masterbater too; I would much rather use a toy than "rub one out" myself. It's infrequent, depends if I am having a lot of sex or not. If I am getting a lot of sex I tend to masterbate more.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'MrMojoRisin' Most people who have been on the forums for a while will know that I am in a sexless marriage. Two things I will not tolerate are people getting on their high horse, or taking the PI55. I have been in a sexless relationship too and it is very difficult.
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RHP User
8 years ago
One sexless marriage here too! We’re still very good mates, work together, play together, she’s never interested, now I’m that way too. However, I have found a therapist that helps me! M_D4 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I’m sure there are! Maybe there should be a separate section for us? “Dud Root Club”? “Too Nice To Complain Club”? “Short Straw Club”? “The Victims Of Apathy”? What rings true for you? M_D4 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
No I don’t agree! I love sex ! But I prefer the real thing compared to some battery operated machine. I love everything about sex. The intimacy .. the sensualness . and yes I have tried many toys ..but I need a little more than just a rub — for me it’s a tease I’ll be begging for the D in no time! but for me masturbation doesn’t do anything for me it’s merely a tease where I’ll be sorely dissatisfied! People are actually quite shocked to hear I don’t masturbate like its foreign... but hey it happens. - Posted from rhpmobile
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canberrahot
8 years ago
I agree its essential and enjoyable. You don't live far away good luck
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RHP User
8 years ago
Why is this perceived as taboo? It feels good and is fun, even moreso when you do it together :)@lovedance
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RHP User
8 years ago
i do it almost every day. usually after work in the shower haha. some mornings i wake up with the urge and i let my partner join in. instead of having to fuck whenever we're horny, often in the morning i just take his hand and put it under my top so he can play with my boobs while i getmyself off. its healthy and yes it does help your libido
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technologic
8 years ago
But much less often now that I have a partner. I think it helps improve my sensitivity now that I do it less. At the beginning when I used to masturbate more frequently I often needed a vibrator on high to cum. But that might also have been affected by being on the pill?? Too many unknowns.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Tracey Moore, melmagazine, about 24% don't masturbate. There's enough of a clue to find her article if you're interested.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Woman who lives nothing more than a good "wank" and sends me the pics while I'm at work . Grrrrrrr.. lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
My earliest memories of masturbating would have been around 5-8 years old. Definitely Masturbate. Have different toys for whatever I feel like and it’s kept me going over many a dry spell and particularly horny periods. Still do even if I have regular Sex with others. I’m having sex with myself.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Not on me anyway....and dont do it often at all. But it certainly doesnt dull my sexual appetite when Im with a playfriend. I need the intimacy, closeness and a warm naked body to fire me up.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Haha, not me! I do it all the time, and I do believe it helps the libido but I also mainly do it for the reasons mentioned by pipsqueak. However, I wouldn’t do it nearly as much if I was having sex with another person more often (which of course I enjoy for many other reasons as well)...I don’t need to do both.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Outrageous! I would never commit nor condone such an act!
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RHP User
7 years ago
From my experience girls explore their bodies and sexuality from a fairly young age (think stream of water in the pool/ from a shower hose) but then... it's always a kind of taboo so we perhaps feel ashamed even later in life. Anyway - it feels great to touch own body and push own boundaries - mental and physical. And yes - some women have very low libido. On the other hand, a friend of mine complained to me the other week that her bf of 3 years hadn't slept with her for 3 weeks (it was apparently TOO hot, TOO cold, TOO whatever). He - early thirties, nice body; she - mid twenties, curvy body, big beautiful boobs. Oh well, we all are different :-) I had to take her out to nudie beach from where she sent him some photos - that night was finally THE night :-)) Is this helpful at all?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yes I masturbate...regularly...daily... my Mr who is FIFO gets regular video footage... Mr Purple is my toy of choice but just as happy to dry hump a pillow before bed 😇
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RHP User
7 years ago
Can be important in determining your pleasure spots.If you don't know you who else will know you. It's also the ultimate in safe sex..well as long as you wash your hands :) Hugs Q
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RHP User
7 years ago
Daily. I'm highly sexual & find it lowers stress levels whilst feeling amazing at the same time. An orgasm a day keeps the Dr away lol. In relatiinship, time prevails, exhaustion, difference in libido's etc, I don't rely on anyone for my sexual satisfactions it's a personal responsibility I feel. So rub away ladies guilt free 😉💋
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RHP User
7 years ago
Masturbation is part of our sexual play both alone and together. My current partner and l live 2hrs from each other, so naturally l miss a daily sex routine and masturbation helps to relieve sexual tension. I don't plan a time for it, sometimes l get horny in the middle of the night when l get a drink or go pee. Masturbation does not relax me, it just makes me want more sex and it wakes me up totally so then l masturbate until I'm exhausted enough to go back to sleep or until lm that sore, l have to stop lol. Masturbation has a weird psyche with me as l was bought up Catholic and this tended to warp my earlier views on the subject but that all changed after l went to boarding school lol and thus began a lifetime of enjoying this pleasure. Even today after numerous relationships with men, non have been able to help me achieve orgasm thru sex alone thus masturbation is always included so l can orgasm. Also there is also nothing more exciting than watching a man handle his Cock, no matter how much l've tried to do the same thing to him it just can't be replicated.
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usnow
7 years ago
I would really think your asking the wrong people who are on a sex site .They have already shown they have a bit more " life " in them than most . Usnow .
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RHP User
7 years ago
I do but it does nothing unless my partner is there with me if he is coming down after some fun and I feel the need then I do it but without him around I feel nothing
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