How to attract a lady playmate - newbie question

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Hey Natalia here , I have met and played with some gorgeous woman at swingers clubs, hubby laughs and says there is no way he could get away with my approach. Scorpio woman here .

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  OSS has couples and single girls attend and we have met chatted and played with a few single ladies at the club. They run a monthly mingle which is a great place to chat and get to know a woman before you go into the club! We are going on the 12th and happy to be your wing woman there if you like!

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Events. Clubs. Here. Wherever it may be just be respectful to her. I’ve made mistakes in the past and been very selfish and that hasn’t played out well for me.. Don’t let emotion and jealousy overrule the bare basic fact that everyone is a person and as such deserve to be treated with respect and kindness and consideration. When you find someone of interest - Treat her as a a wonderful beautiful lady. Be mindful that to her she is alone in what she is doing but that you both have each other to talk to. Hope it works out for you and you find that wonderful friend you seek!

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  As the single lady aka unicorn... I’ve preferred to meet couples via the site; and then some two on one social dates before play dates. It’s helped me feel comfortable but also understand their relationship dynamics. Last thing I want to be caught up in is someone’s messy relationship politics where one party isn’t interested! And it’s worth saying that sex is so much better when there’s a level of companionship or care. I have been to a club once but chose to go as a couple/pair. I felt this gave me a person to fall back on chatting to etc, but also that WE could be decision makers, rather than maybe me feeling like prey? I did notice some single ladies the night I went and they didn’t get much attention however, so perhaps my concerns are misguided? The club worked for me couple swapping and four way which was much like a threesome with an additional person!

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