How to be involved in a group party?

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  DynamicCouple36

  9 years ago

  As a single bloke, it is best to have no expectations when going to a party or a swingers club. There is no guarantee that you will get laid or get any action at all. Often there will be a high number /ratio of single guys to women (if its a club that allows single guys in). Our advice is to be respectful, polite, and non pushy.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Hi JOJOF The best way of getting invites to group parties or go to swingers clubs would be to find a fuck buddy to hang with. It opens up a lot more to you when you are a pair in comparison to a single male. Yes I know, easy to say but maybe not so easy to find. Have you looked on the events page here on RHP? You never know that might be some parties you can attend. Just depends if you are confident enough to attend on your own. Good luck. CD

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  Seachange73

  9 years ago

  As a single guy, you have stiff competition to get into the scene but keep at it. Good advice above to register your interest in the events section in your area. You may be invited but having a fwb or fb who can vouch for you can be helpful to get into the circuit, specially if they are already in the scene. a good point to attend swinger clubs with your fwb/fb. Opens up a lot of doors, among other things. As you know the ratio of single men to available space in the group parties is not to your advantage. Organizers of said events would also do a rigorous screening process to make sure they don't end up with pushy disrespectful men and ruin the experience for everyone in attendance. As well, see if the age limit applies to you or you are what they are looking for (bi-curious, bisexual, kinks, safe sex practice, etc). Have your profile verified. I know that this is one of the checks they perform when selecting single male participants to a group party. You have good pictures there and you are an attractive man. your profile does not say much but at least it is not a template profile. not sure how relevant or pertinent it is to the organizers. maybe they can shed some light on that. certainly if i have to check the invite list, I will read their profile and if none of the men interest me or repel me, I will decline to attend. Lastly, it is all about networking. Get to the meet and greets to meet other RHPers on a social basis. These are not orgies but really just a social drinks meet in a public bar. Make yourself known, chat, connect and network. Get their numbers or give out your numbers, invite people for drinks if you see you really connect and go from there. some of the attendees of the meet and greets are potential attendees to thge group parties if they are not already so. And most likely, some of the organizer attend the meet and greets to 'source' or scout future players. I wish you the best. just be patient. Rome was not built in a day.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Thanks a lot to everyone for the good and positive answer!! I'll try to do what you suggest and let's see how I go!! Thanks Hope to see you around!! 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Can I give you a heads up, and I am sure you probably would not do this anyway, but when speaking to women online don't bring up going to clubs in the first message or two. Nothing worse than feeling like a guy is only using you to get into a party or club. Most of the time women can pick up on that and will not talk you if they think this the case. So, even though you might be impatient to get on with it make sure you appreciate the women for who she is first. No doubt I am telling you what you already know. :)

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  If you were in Melbourne. I don't know much about your area for events. But all of the above advice is correct.

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  Newinterests

  9 years ago

  You could check to see if any single ladies are interested in attending and suggest pre party meet n greet and offer to attend with her and keep an eye out for her to help her feel safe. If I am interested in going I put that on my post so I can meet someone to attend with, bit like wing 'buddies' . Upside can be having someone looking out for you (important for single gals) a new friendship that could develop into regular party couple or FWB. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Has been used by a single guy to get into events! I was a cheap option for him and was dumped the minute he got in! I have hesitated to take others since then! Be considerate of your 'date' but considerate of everyone you play with. Don't touch unless you are asked! Take cues from those around you :) Mary xx

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  Seachange73

  9 years ago

  That is just plain dick. Totally disrespectful and I hate users. May his cock be covered with the fleas of a thousand elephants. Shaking my voodoo chicken bones. There. That should fix him.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Thankyou beautiful 😘 Mary xx

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Thanks for the post and comments guys and ladys :) ... definitely eases the nerves - Posted from rhpmobile

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