How to get wife interested

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  wanderlustQLD

  one year ago

  There's this thing called consent. She already told you she wasn't interested in doing it IRL. I suggest you spend some more time on that whole conversation about you mutual needs and relationship before you go trying to find a venue and stunt cock.

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  MrandMrsEss

  one year ago

  No, for all the reasons others will say below. Just no!

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  seekandplay

  one year ago

  So seeing as your profile looks completely fake, I’m guessing this is perhaps a little click bait. But because people actually read these things for their own ideas, let me give you my feedback. This is, on gods name, the most selfish idea. Go back and read what you wrote… ‘I would really love…’ not ‘she would really love…..’ This seems to be about you. Role play and bringing something to life are very, very different experiences and can be very scary. It’s role play for a reason, because you are doing it with someone who is safe and who you trust. She has literally said she wouldn’t do it for real. Putting her in a situation like that is extremely confronting and unless you’ve been to clubs or parties before, the first experience alone is quite overwhelming just being there. So you take her to a sex club. ‘Randomly’ bump in a big cock athletic black man, and pray she lets go of all her inhibitions so you can watch. All the while she has no idea this was going to happen? Just read that again. She. Has. No. Idea. The ONLY time this can happen, is if she says ‘one day I would love to get fucked by a black man with a giant cock and I hope you get to watch. Can you make that happen one day and surprise me?’. Boom - consent to organise. Still not consent to fuck a BBC. So, no. This is not a wise decision.

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  Flirty2020

  one year ago

  No!! You cannot coerce, push or “force” her to be interested in what you are proposing. And NO, do not try to set something up without her knowing or without her consent. Does she even know of your “couples” profile on here ? It’s full of “ask me’s” It appears that it all about your wants, your fantasy … and that you want to push her into doing something that she does not want to do. She did tell you NO once before. You need to respect her wishes instead of thinking with your penis. Red flags 🚩 all round with this one.

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  MsSuperFoxy

  one year ago

  Absolutely not on, dude! She's your wife, by actioning that you respect her, you ask for her consent first. Just because she had one conversation with you, means nothing! Let her decide. She will tell you when she's ready. Not when you are. Don't push the subject and hound at her either. Ms Foxy

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  BiPeggyGal

  one year ago

  There's many red-flags around your behaviour. Pleasethewife? Maybe more accurately would be PleaseMe - for your handle? It's all about you !! Coercive manipulative plans and ideas are not respectful, consensual or sexy.

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  FeistyFatty

  one year ago

  Good luck mate, you clearly need it.

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  Brian_Breynolds

  one year ago

  What an absolutely fucking insane idea. Talk to your wife about your fantasies dude.

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  Nightglider

  one year ago

  Agree with every other comment on here. You fail to realise that what you want to do also requires the consent of said BBC. To orchestrate this scenario without your wife’s consent, is also not being transparent with who you wish to assist you with this fantasy. It’s all about you, and compromises both your wife and your desired plus one. Fantasy and reality can be vastly different. I have not bothered to look at your profile based on previous comments. Couples profile? Good chance of your profile being fake. Hard not to be judgemental on something that is so selfish and disregards respect.

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  Blueflamingo

  one year ago

  One word... NO!

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  Ourmalibu

  one year ago

  She probably loved it because you were at the end of the dildo…not someone else.

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  justforfun76

  one year ago

  If she wanted to force you to take a BBC and set it up without you knowing because that’s what she wanted to see obviously you’d have no issue with that?

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  CallMeV

  one year ago

  If I am in your situation what I would do is. Communicate with her and make sure she is ready for that. ( Understand she wants to test the waters or dive in deep) Let her create a profile. (Sometimes she might be shy to talk and open up things in a couple profile) Give her the time and space to talk and choose one. And you talk to him. (First experience always should be a sweeter one) Start with a drinks catch up (Don’t rush to this step as it can keep away desperate one. Make sure the guy has patience and experience with newbies and willing to say goodbye if nothing happens) Meet in real. Explore the desires together and communicate how you guys (you & your partner) experienced everything. Cheers

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  wanttotry3some

  4 months ago

  We’ve never commented on any posts before but this one stood out to us. F had a similar fantasy, it was talked about during sex and when using toys. M let the idea just remain a fantasy until, after quite a while, F mentioned the desire to try it. F laid out the plan, the way she wanted it to play out, M did the ground work and after some time we met a guy for drinks. We caught up again a few weeks later, F was all ready to live out this particular fantasy. And it was fantastic. My advice would be to keep it as a fantasy until your F is ready, and if she never is, that is completely fine. The fun on RHP as a couple has to be about both wanting what is happening, not one feeling obligated or pressured. That’s what makes is so good. That’s our thoughts, hopefully no abuse to follow this 😐

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