RHP

RHP User

M50

How to gets ones attention

January 15 2013

One for the ladies, how does a guy about getting your attention on this site. How do we make ourselves stand out above the rest? Curious to see what works best and is it the same for all or just some… What flirt works the best? What is the worst type of flirt? What flirt gets you thinking?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I don't look at my flirts at all. So that would be a none from me... No flirts work. To stand out for me you would need some interesting pictures of yourself. Playing a sport or one of your travels possibly. If there is no picture I don't bother to go further.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Nice pic! ⊂(◉‿◉)つ

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I am a good listener, goes to show...   shame you dont flirt then i would really know its a nice pic :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    FLIRTS = BORING.... WORST FLIRT - The one where it says...What do you think of me?? I can't remember what is at the beginning of it ...EMAILS...If you are able to send emails...use them as an advantage..For me it has to be a pretty awesome email that catches my attention...Something that stands out...You don't want to BORING!!Most ladies can smell a rat with cut and paste emails...so forget them!!Good Luck :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I may be screwed here then, but certainly not literally!I know a fair few people here, and RHP has knocked back every single non-face pic I've put up, so yeah. Guess I'll keep mining the forums for good information and experiences :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I wanted to reply to a flirt because I am a guest ,I can't message, just flirt back.I recently received a flirt from a couple,the ''I really like your profile one'' ...I sent back''thanks flattery will get you every where''...they then MESSAGED me ''well that was not much of a response''... I am a little puzzled as to what they were expecting. OP you are a guest,most women are guests,we have one message per week,the odds for you my friend receiving a message are low.Perhaps an upgrade so that you can be more proactive in your searh might help.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Flirts say nothing about yourself, it doesn't express who you really are so for most it is a no for them.   The "I am horny get em down!" approach is a bit in your face.   A geaneral hello is a start with a bit about you ie wanting to meet like minded people and see what goes from there, something in that line and what sort of person(you perceive to be).

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Hey :)   For me (and I've only been here for a week and a half) the worst is not the flirts but the emails I've received. They range from extremely bad text talking to extremely gross and disturbing emails. I figure if they can't be bothered to put 2 correct words together not to bother. I've also worked out that I would prefer a "Hi, How's your day going?" to "I'm extremely well hung and will make you squirt, when can we hook up?". So although the flirts can be pretty lame they're also relatively pleasant :)

  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    13 years ago

    The flirts don't mean anything to me... If you send a message - works better! But also yes this is a sex site, but messages do not need to contain sex sex sex talk! Tell us about yourself n be truthful. Good conversation can go a long long way xxx Good luck

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Ok firstly....you need to have your shit together....secondly you need to be just YOU....too many people make the mistake of wanting to be seen a particular way....this leads to the conversation being fake and believe me women CAN AND DO pick up on it....so be the man and just be you....let them choose not YOU.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Best flirt: Damn, you sure are hot! What do you think of me?Worst flirt: I'm a guest and can't contact you. Please message me.Gets me thinking: The short answer is yes. The long answer id yes, yes, OH GOD YES!PS You'd get my attention by having a really good, cheeky DP. (giggity)