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How to make my fantasies become a reality? When the woman I fantasize about are out of my league?

August 17 2019

Hi all, I'm Olivier. I have a French background. As many men of my age, I have many fantasies unfulfilled. (1)Every fantasies I have has a specific kind of woman in it (Physical appearance). A particular look that turns me on thinking about a fantasy. For example, I have a fantasy of eating a white pussy while having a joint. (I'm black I'm attracted to the opposite I guess) and I have never been with a pale white girl. I even think of the details, like pedicure, eyes colour body type etc. Is that normal to go in such great length for details? Another one with curvy dark skin ladies with a white manicure and anal plug or business attire blue eye tall skinny blonde with high heels and the list goes on... But every time I think or want to fulfil these fantasies I can only picture a specific type that I imagined and that turns me on. If I change the type it just doesn't turn me on anymore. My point is that I'm an average guy with regular life and I'm not always in the best position to pick up the ladies I picture in my fantasies. I have the problem of liking women that are out of my League usually. How to go about this? Should I lower my standards and just focus on crossing it out on the bucket list? (2) Is it normal for a man to want to have sex with different types of woman he never had before.? I don't want to sound like a pervert addicted to sex but where I grew up there was a specific type of physique, now that I live in Australia I'm soo attracted to different types, blondes, petite brunette, Mixed Asians, Afghans, African, Aussie, curvy, Latin American body and tan. The list goes on. Not having fulfilled the longing lust is what brought me here to ask these questions No judgements or hate, please. I'm no perve. I just fall in love every 5 min lol Apollo for the bad grammar. I speak French lol Would love the ladies opinion on this too - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Firstly there is no "normal"..we all have our preferences.You initially sounded very specific in your fantasies but then you say you are attracted to a very diverse range of women.Racially and physically. The women you seek to meet may be looking to meet someone like you but perhaps initially leave out the very specific details of your fantasies.Most women don't want to be seen as an object to fulfill a fantasy,they are much more than that. Hugs Q

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Dude, the way you have just classified and objectified women here, I don’t think asking for no hate is actually going to cut it. It just screams me, me, me it’s all about me! Hope you had covered yourself in bubble wrap, I am thinking this is going to be a bumpy ride for you.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    The diversity you seek is out there obviously, so it just depends on how much you want it. The easiest solution is to simply go to a professional, realising a clients fantasy is part of the job description. If you go to a quality establishment you can choose a suitable person for each fantasy, have a chat about the details and the rest is easy. Finding what you want on here and sites like it will be an exercise in frustration.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Why are you here ? Is it for us ? Or you you you ? Google “virtue signalling” 😃

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  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    6 years ago

    .. open my mind to the virtues of women of different races. I never purposely went looking , but i never shy'd away whenever l meet a lady from a different culture. Attraction is attraction no matter where that person hails from. So no , i dont see that as abnormal. Actually ' l found you explained yourself quite well , but here on rhp ? As they say ' some fantasies should be left a fantasy. Me thinks you might have set yourself up for a hammering from those who enjoy ripping ppl apart..

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    So why hide yourself? If you don't ever be honest about your race, this will remain a fantasy. I have African men ogling me every time I go shopping and it makes me want to puke. Are you one of them?You say you have 'French heritage', not that you are French, that you are not Indian quite abruptly in your profile, and state you are black and your women had the same physiques? And hiding behind a generic profile.Jeez mate, i'll take a wild guess you're a creepy married African looking to cheat on his wife, having come to Australia expecting a smorgasbord of white women to choose from. Just go pay a professional and don't hang around my shopping centre lol

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    He's gone. Disappeared before I posted my comment. The fantasy lives on lol

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I think being French was one of his fantasies. Olivier Martinez

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Have no idea where you got the notion of virtue signalling from, we weren’t pulling the guy apart nor were we implying some sort of moral code on him. Just pointing out that the way he expressed what he was wanting in his post was certainly going to earn a fair bit of criticism whether he asked for it or not.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Don't post brave topics. Oh well there's always word games. Ooooh how sexy.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Nothing wrong with brave topics, lol ..... it makes things interesting. If you are the OP, you may just need to be well padded is all 😊

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Virtue signalling is a construct of the right wing..Particulary readers of the Spectator Hugs Q

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  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    6 years ago

    I don't think it's out of the ordinary to fine detail a fantasy. Fantasies will evolve each time you use it, particularly if you have a firm grip on your cock or a good rythym flicking the bean. But in the heat of a moment when real sex comes your way, the finer details get forgotten about until later when the mind reviews the event, it will extract some relevant bits and maybe transfer to the fantasy. Problems occur if the real thing never occurs and the user is lost down the rabbit hole

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