RHP

RHP User

M29

I NEED HELP!

February 24 2017

So I have no clue what I'm doing! I don't even know what the first thing I should say to someone on here is! So time to suck up my pride and ask for help! Any advice for this bambi! - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    9 years ago

    You need to treat this place no different to real life. So start a conversation/message as you would face to face. If you can't instigate an approach out there, then you won't do very well in here. It's not for the faint hearted for guys around here. Brutal even.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Chill, take a look at the different threadw on the forum & then post once you find a subject that tickles your fancy and start fancy. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Then search for fourty something women who are looking for your age group. Alternatively fly to the USA and go mountain trekking, if you're not looking for cougars take some of the other advice. Either way be careful out there, good luck.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Expert ^^^^ Dont listen to hank.. hes trying to make you jump the queue haha - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    So you've been on here for a few months at least. I remember you posted about finding dominant women? So is writing this post expressing your frustration in not finding what you thought would be easy to find on here? If so, I really dont think anyone can give you that special key to opening the door to your own personal harem. In the end, you can only be yourself. If you approach women the way somebody else has suggested, then its not really you. And the lady will soon work that out. Online can be no different to meeting someone in the reals. Its not going to happen every time you go to a night club. Same as online, you wont be picking up every weekend. I have been looking for a new fbuddy since october. I am on multiple sites. I also go out to venues most weekends. Im looking. Im proactive. And Im waiting for the one that clicks. But Im in no hurry to just settle. So I dont get frustrated. But then Im much older. I look at it differently that I did at your age. And life seems to be flying past at a great speed, so Im enjoying other aspects of my life while I search out a new play mate. Just enjoy what you have and dont focus on what you dont have. It will happen when its the right time.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    If you are intelligent and patient enough you will listen to EVERYTHING Willow has just said and try to adjust your mindset and approach to your current situation. (Ms)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    It will happen when its the right time.. never fully understood that. I dont believe in patience .. sometime. You make it the right time or you bring your self to the right time - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Something along the lines of "What do you get if ..." or anything that invites a reply. It's also good if it is an uncommon one they are unlikely to know. That way they will want to know and it increases your chances of getting them to reply. You will also get an amusing variety of attempts at answering it, occasionally some will be funnier than the actual punch line. By getting some mail back and some funny ones at that you will start to enjoy this process much more, even if you aren't having sex yet. This is important because if your whole purpose for being here is to get sex you will come across as desperate and desperate doesn't get sex. Once a girl replies once, it's more likely she will talk to you but don't get your hopes up. Have fun making people laugh and having a laugh yourself. Then be yourself and be friendly, positive and normal. Also, don't use this as your only avenue for meeting women sexually, hit on women in real life, make it clear that you want to fuck them but be cool, don't hassle or act like you need to, same goes for here. Finally, know that 95% of it in here is about your pics. You aren't a lost cause, so knowing that your efforts are best put towards taking better pics. Writing long personalised messages is not efficient, sure its nice but realistically its such a low percentage game you can't afford to put that effort into each one, you'll get bored and cynical.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Eay you could always hit the brothel lol save time. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    So a month ago I aloud my mates to kinda control my dating life they set profiles up on every app or website possible. It did work and I had some fun. My issue was it wasn't me, I felt terrible so I deleted all of em except for two (this obviously being one.) I actually want this one to work, everything's legit here and I feel like I could do a lot better here. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I really am a bambi - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Hound hunter, you're delusional. Wake up to your self