F103
I am puzzled as to why
March 29 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
Why not? May as well see how it plays out. Well only if you are interested that is. :D Besides some naughty men just need their bott botts spanked. ;-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Why not? May as well see how it plays out. Well only if you are interested that is. :D Besides some naughty men just need their bott botts spanked. ;-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
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RHP User
13 years ago
Freya,ya never know to you try.Did you stop to think that he finds you attractive and intelligent.Back to your original question,i don't think that i would send one but hey if one was sent to me i guess i would give it a crack,whats that old saying,opposites attract,like i said ya never know to you try jsk
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RHP User
13 years ago
Maybe he saw your awesome forum posts and was attracted to your positive personality. Maybe when he saw your pic something stood out for him. men aren't always attracted to girls just because of their hot bods, plastic boobs and Barbie doll faces you know. Sometimes it can just be that sparkle in a girls eye, their smell, or their hair that can do it for us.
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RHP User
13 years ago
who cares why...but rather why not? variety in the scene is amazing.... people you might not normally date, could turn out to be great friends or teach you cool things about sex "lets see whats out there"
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RHP User
13 years ago
I wouldn't be interested in the contact Freya, unless he took the time to tell me something about himself that wasn't in his profile and that showed we had more in common than our profiles suggested. If he didn't make the effort to close the gap between our obviously different profiles, I'd assume he was just spamming me in the numbers game of trying to get laid on here.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Perhaps he reads the forums and secretly hangs on your every word Freya?"Our Job Is Not To Reason Why, Our Job Is Just To Live Or Die!" Anonymous
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RHP User
13 years ago
Woman! Go for it!! Faaark!! A variety of reasons he might be into you...You might just be his cup of tea. Send him a reply and see if you have more in common... What have you got to lose? Sounds like you're just being hard on yourself.
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RHP User
13 years ago
but lil _bit is closer to it.I am not being hard on myself and he offered no further enlightenment even after exchanging a few messages.I doubt he reads the forums, if he had another dimension then I would have been more interested.It didn't fit and I am still curious as to whether or not most people would go there when clearly there is little to connect you...even what would seem to be the obvious....
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RHP User
13 years ago
could be a dozen or more reasons WHY he wants to communicate with you. Play it out girl!! You know.. " A stranger MAY just be a friend you haven't met yet" He COULD be totally full of shit.. and have NO confidence at all.. and the people on his list MIGHT have been there before, and can not remove their names from his list. He might be a fake with all fake photos on his profile.. and conned those on his list to add him.. the ones who validated him, might be his own alter egos.. Shiiite Girl... "Who knows??' Go find out.. might be the best sex you EVER had.. OR the best friendship... OR you might end up getting MARRIED to him
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RHP User
13 years ago
Only regret the things you don't do. Life my dear friend is too short as we both know. Never query why but always ask "why not" . Leap of faith my friend, leap of faith ...:)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Here's the thing ... if his profile isn't true, if he has much more in common with Freya or she's much more his type than his profile suggests, the onus is on him to say so. Ideally he'd do this in the first message but if not, certainly in the next one or two. If he doesn't then they're either not on the same page at all, he just can't be effed making an effort, or he's a total nuff nuff. We're grown ups here, presmably reasonably intelligent, and making contact is not rocket science. If he can't get that bit right, there's not much hope for him. Just my view, of course.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Freya, sweet Freya, I had all the thoughts above - don't underestimate you, or he, and go for it as he might dearly long for poetry and intellectual challenge. But it sounds you've already danced a merry dance with him and are still no wiser as to his purpose. Is it time to ask him directly? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya77'but lil _bit is closer to it.I am not being hard on myself and he offered no further enlightenment even after exchanging a few messages.I doubt he reads the forums, if he had another dimension then I would have been more interested.It didn't fit and I am still curious as to whether or not most people would go there when clearly there is little to connect you...even what would seem to be the obvious.... by your pink bits , thats enough aint it? ohhhh you want to talk to them before and after sex...........silly me I would pin my ears back and go for it woman he may just have a very high IQ to match yours so you never never will know unless you give it a go
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RHP User
13 years ago
his dad hacked into his profile .........if it was sent to me
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'deepbluesumthing'Perhaps he reads the forums and secretly hangs on your every word Freya? "Our Job Is Not To Reason Why, Our Job Is Just To Live Or Die!" Anonymous Alfred, Lord Tennyson Charge of the light brigade. (with poetic license)
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RHP User
13 years ago
thank you all for the kind thoughts but HONESTLY I dont find him attractive...and he has now sent me 6 messages and his phone number .......he has given me no reason to find him attractive...deeply shallow me...so I guess most people would go for it if someone like that messaged you?....
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DonnaBrett
13 years ago
....is the spice of life. Why not follow through, if it goes nowhere so what..if it does it could be great for you. We've had messages from people that we didn't think were our type and there'd be no chance of our paths crossing outside of this scene ..but have ended up super playmates and good friends too! What do you have to lose?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Maybe it's some kind of weird kayak or palandrome thing. Or perhaps he really is a Greek god and is looking for a Nordic god companion! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Would I go there if there is little or no connection? Well sex with a good looking man if there is no connection at all is just boring from the few times I have made the mistake and have gone there. So no, would not do it again. Some people live by the motto that any sex even bad sex is better than no sex. I hate bad sex ... It's a waste of time. :D
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RHP User
13 years ago
All those people that are saying go for it. Well it depends on his messages, and to be honest Freya if he hasn't captured your interest at all after a couple of emails, well you know the drill. NEXT!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I hate bad sex ... It's a waste of time. :D
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RHP User
13 years ago
If I would have received a msg from a drop dead gorgeous younger women I would immediately think either scam or fake profile! So yes, some of the responses here do make me chuckle! Freya, all of this is up to you and no one else. Yes he might be genuine, or he might just be what you are suspecting. The only thing you can do to solve this is to send a very innoculous message back thanking him for the contact. His response will then tell you what you want to know.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting '1SmilingASSASSIN' Quoting 'deepbluesumthing'Perhaps he reads the forums and secretly hangs on your every word Freya? "Our Job Is Not To Reason Why, Our Job Is Just To Live Or Die!" Anonymous Alfred, Lord Tennyson Charge of the light brigade. (with poetic license) I knew it was somebody cool but couldn't remember who!
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RHP User
13 years ago
He's not pushing your buttons... there's a difference between unexpected attraction and trying to manufacture an attraction. You ask what we'd all do? I'd let it slide. Maybe speak to him, but don't create what isn't there. This medium, online, is about attraction through images or words (or both), not pheromones or physical presence. Perhaps if he'd walked into the bar the same night you're there for "poets in the pub", you might have that "zing" moment and find yourself in his Ute in the carpark 3 mind later... but that's not how it usually works here. But you know this already. I'm telling you how to suck eggs. More fool me, perhaps. (For the record, I made the poets in the pub bit up... that tendency to fill in the gaps... although, it is comprehensive - Tuesday nights, from 8pm, at the Imperial hotel... front bar, which a lot emptier since they put in the by-pass.) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' All those people that are saying go for it. Well it depends on his messages, and to be honest Freya if he hasn't captured your interest at all after a couple of emails, well you know the drill. NEXT! Yeah agree after a few messages you'll know if he's worth catching up with or not. P.S. Meeka like ur easter theme profile pic
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes, yes & yes!!! Variety is the spice of life!!! What is the harm In a few a few emails I'd u don't hit it off😱😱😱- Posted from rhpmobile
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