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November 19 2009

Hi everyone I received this email from a guy from RHP today.He was responding to an email that he was sent by another guy about swngers clubs.He forwarded this on to us and asked us if we wanted to use it as a testimonial we could.But we thought we would post it here to let all you guys know not to be scared and to take the plunge, you just might like it.Have a read please.Hi , Mate ill gladly tell you all i can as it was so much fun. 1- The club i went to so i cant speak for all had a good ratio of men to women. The night i went there was prob about 80 people there i would say 30 were couples, 10 single women and about 10 men. Most clubs limit the number of single guys and they are the ones i would pick. I went to one the other week that was a free for all and unless you want to see guys watching porn and beating off in the open at a ratio of 15 men to 1 lady i wouldnt recommend it. 2-Yes there are ops for one on one time follow the rules i didnt. If a door is shut its private if its open then anyone can walk in and try (this was my first mistake i left the door open but ended up quite well as she didnt want anyone else so i performed in front of a crowd something i thought i could never do) 3-When you arrive it seems like a normal club or bar everyone standing around having drinks and mingling. I was lucky enough to meet another guy who was there for his first time as well. After a few drinks and a look around you see what it is all about there is no shyness and if your like me will be so shocked at what goes on around. After a few drinks and a very open mind you realise it is not daunting as it seems after all thats what we all go for. At first like i said i was out of my comfort zone but i realised the mistake i was making was i couldnt get out of the mindset of smalltalk and trying to get a girl interested and after losing a couple of girls to other more open and honest men i realised that is what i needed to do. Be upfront and honest if you like a girl and want to take it further tell them before someone else does. Saying that though its like anywhere else you can tell if someone is interested you just dont need to drink with someone for 4 hours to try to get them home. 4-There are all types of people like in any bar or club you would go to. Honestly i know what you are thinking as i thought the same. I was genuinly suprised at the people there all the men were normal and all the women like anywhere else had dressed to impress. There is alot of attractive women. Mate i was feeling exactly the same as you but the whole experience opened my eyes. I thought i was open minded before but after one night at the club it changed the way i thought about alot of things. I met a couple and ended up sleeping with another guys wife on my first visit. they picked up that it was my first time as i think most people would. You will also find the owners will be very helpful and most people will try to make you feel as comfortable as they can. Mate this is all based on my visit to couples international up here and i have been to others that are no where near as good. CI was selective and harder than most to get into but from what i know now it is well worth going to a place like this over others... Hope this helps Phil

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RHP User

16 years ago

I must say...I wholeheartedly agree with what Phil has written.I love coming to CI...because I am always made to feel welcome by both you and Bryan...all the staff...and of course...all your patrons....many of whom I now think of as friends.I love meeting people I chat to all the time in person!!I also like taking newbies there as the atmosphere of your club is very easy going. It is just like a nightclub...except you take your own drinks....have someone serving them to you....and you can have sex or fool around out in the open....not in the toilets (like some do at nightclubs...not that I have!).I also LOVE the "no touching without asking" rule. Makes everyone feel very safe. I would encourage anyone wanting to go to a swingers club for the first time to come have a look!!Just my opinion....BJxxxps...peeps...Im having my bday at CI on boxing day night.....so have a look on the events page and come along if you can!! Its gonna be a great night!!

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16 years ago

we have never been to a club before but intend on going to CI when we are in bris next. we have heard nothing but good things about it. not sure when we will get there but cant wait untill we do. Mrs Bal

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RHP User

16 years ago

to bad your in brissy..we would come otherwise Scott

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16 years ago

I agree with phil no wait i am phil.... So much fun guys give it a go

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