M56 F65
"I just wanted to say that I loved your profile".
December 24 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
Forumites have asked RHP time and time again for a flirt saying simply "Thanks for the compliment", but we still haven't got it. Maybe this Christmas? *Wistful sigh* Until there is a flirt response that doesn't sound like an invite to come do me ("Flattery will get you everywhere"? Really?), I choose not to reply. After all, that particular flirt is only a statement, not a question. If you feel uneasy about not replying: You could mention in your profile you can't respond to this flirt, but you're very appreciative. I've seen it a fair few times.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have no manners Buuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuut it is really an ice breaker to the following thought >>>> I think I am punching above my weight though I am an optimist. Soooooooo if they message me back then my proverbial glass is full. Just my thought.
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RHP User
11 years ago
when I've run out of messages....but for me it's not a sign of interest but just a compliment that needs no reply.... Normally though I just send a message and allow them to respond with whatever they choose. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I use the particular flirt as a compliment to indicate that I appreciate the effort that someone has put into their profile, particularly if I find a well prepared one from someone who indicates that their listed preferences would exclude me. Hence I don't expect any sort of reply, and don't take any offence if I don't get one. I also state in my profile that I am aware that it is inappropriate for me to approach people whose stated preferences exclude me, but sometimes send the particular flirt to show my appreciation for the work that has gone into the profile, and apologise for the intrusion. Whether they read the profile and find the explanation or not is up to them. I hate looking through profiles and finding ones where all of the itemised points are "Ask Me" and theer is the general template based garbage about being x years of age,other people think I am good looking but decide for yourself, likes shopping and drinking coffee and just wants FWB. By telling people who spend time on their profile that I appreciate it, I feel that i am contributing a little toward improving the general standard of profiles on the site without being negative or intrusive.
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RHP User
11 years ago
That's the only flirt I never respond to. Please RHP create a "Thanks for the flirt" flirt!
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RHP User
11 years ago
saying exactly the same thing, it is very confusing in how to respond. It is just a statement, not a question. Agree with Meander and JerseyGirl, we need an appropriate flirt to send back. I think all the flirts and responses need a revamp. That one with the Nooooooooo just sounds so bloody rude to me. Nobody has ever sent it to me thankfully and I have only sent it once when a guy kept harassing me.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I can't believe it's been gone so long and been asked for so often. . Maybe it's time to do another flirt comp RHP. There seem to be a lot of agreement on that simple, 'thanks for the flirt' flirt. That could be number 1? . There's gotta be a better choice than, yes, no, maybe... and top replies (top replies mostly include 'message me'), surely... . I really would just like a, 'thanks for flirt', flirt.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'sir_stir'....but for me it's not a sign of interest but just a compliment that needs no reply.... Same for me Sir. As has been said by others, it is a statement and doesn't require any response. Therefore, I generally don't respond if/when I receive them.However I've included a disclaimer in my profile that explains that I mean the flirt exactly as it says and that no reply is necessary.I use the flirt to show my appreciation of other's profiles that I find; interesting, well written, funny, the person's looks or quality/creativity of photography appeal to me. I use it on men, women and couples, trying to show appreciation for their work, whilst still respecting their 'Seeking' and 'Looking For' specifications.There are times when I'll refrain from using it though as it doesn't fully convey how much I love a person's profile or, that I love it AND want to strike up a conversation/meet with a person. That's where messages come in. I expect that anyone who sends it to me has read my profile (am I asking too much here folks?) and therefore does not expect a response. CheersRustyI just wanted to say that I loved your thread.
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RHP User
11 years ago
If you get one from me it simply means I think your cool even though we won't be meeting up anytime ever. Usually sent to people who use the forums or have somehow attracted my attention. I know how dreadfully precious a woman's time is, so no I expect nothing. So just take the compliment.
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RHP User
11 years ago
If I send that flirt I have no expectations of a reply, but it is a bonus if I receive a response. So just bask in the pleasure of being admired and lusted after. Oh and by the way I love your profile!
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RHP User
11 years ago
that I agree we need a decent response flirt. I put it on my profile not to expect a response. That way anyone who is truly interested will send a message. Mind you, if I think someone is rather attractive I will send a reply flirt, or if they have membership I will message them. Its about going with how you feel OP. Whatever you do, don't feel guilty about not answering a flirt. So many people, both men and women, don't answer flirts.
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Dryphuz
11 years ago
if i send that flirt, that is all i want to say. I looked at your profile and i liked it. If you want to flirt back or message me that's great, but I'm not sending it just to get a reply. Flirts are like in real life flirts. You put it out there and if you get no response you take your cue from that. I understand some peoples need to say thank you without implying that "it's on", but i dont care if I'm thanked for a compliment. Having never recieved a flirt i don't know what the replies are, but i should think a simple "Thanks! smiley face" would be included as a neutral option. RHP really should do something about that.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well as simple as thay are we have met may nice couples and hot singles and yes I enjoyed all there time and still meet some of them from time too time the flirts should be up dated yes but thay do work I would rather receive a few flerts but if you boys could understand we couples realy like honesty do if your looking too want to meet up with couples please OPEN YOUR PICTURE GALLERY S WITH YOUR FLERTS it would make it easier for all too be open and see if everyone like what thay see as for myself im a busty curvy woman and some guys in there 40s plus have no real intrest .. all good because the one's in my pics ate under 40 and thay we're hot I mean all hot real nice talkers and as I played most said or asked if I was ok during sex and coneversated like freinds after woulds we so the flert simbols work as we ( l still get them after I've met people its just a way that people can say im looking forward too catching up 😜😜😜 so if you guys really want your flert to work open your galleries us girls will respond with some answer and dont think its just about the sex you might ? Receive its about the difference the thrill and your personality our minds need too be stimulated just as much as our bodies im sure this is the same for most guys as well oooh and you guys we like it when you keep flirting when togeather it makes us smile and laugh and sends a message that your a nice guy so carry on flerting 😊😊😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Flirts are much the same as if your out an about and someone smiles at you? You have a choice to either walk over and chat (simple hello) or continue on your path? A flirt to me is just that an ice breaker to check if there's an interest to continue?
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RHP User
11 years ago
for your comments to my "Thread". Meander, I will take up your suggestion and amend my Profile appropriately. MrsPeachyPear, what is a " flirt comp RHP" ? ralf74, I think I've used that " Nooooooo....." flirt for the same reason as you have done. lil_bit_rusty, thank you for your compliment. I looked at your Profile, liked what I read and sent you the appropriate "flirt".I notice that you are into "Art". Dryphuz, I'll send you a "flirt" so you can see the "replies" lovman8, Thank you for your "flirt". I read your Profile too. You are an interesting person and I'd love to continue chatting with you. willysnuts, your "good intentions" are commendable 50zcool , I don't think my time is that "precious" !!!If it were, I wouldn't be spending most of my time on my laptop.If you've sent me a compliment, then "Thank You". I'm just getting too "old" to remember. GypsyWildNT, thanks, I won't feel "guilty" anymore.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Generaly speaking, most flirts are sent from non paying members who don't even read your profile correctly in the first place!.. I often receive flirts from single gay or bi guys and my profile clearly states that i am not interested in them and that i am straight! In those circumstances, it is not rude at all not to reply!.. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sorry, that was a little bit vague. There are a couple of threads by the RHP_Editor in the forums a few years ago. . http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/The-RHP-Flirt-contest-23616 . http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/FLIRT-CONTEST-WINNERS-23797 . The, 'Thanks for your flirt', disappeared around that time, I think. . I'd like to see something entirely non-committal as ok as a reply flirt... like it used to be. Deb :-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I send one of those flirts on occasion butmostly to ladies over east it is just as a complimentI admire a woman who takes the time to look afterher appearance.
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RHP User
11 years ago
You gave us the "Like" function after a few months of asking. We've been requesting this simple flirt reply for several years now!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Its a flirt I send when there's a profile I like alot but due to age or distance or other reason couldn't manage but to still simply say "DAMN IT missed out again " lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' You gave us the "Like" function after a few months of asking. We've been requesting this simple flirt reply for several years now! This is a response I made to a question about flirts in 2009 lol. "I would love to see a response to "I just wanted to say that I love your profile' along the lines of...'Thanks for the compliment :-)'. We really hate replying with either the 'Thanks, flattery will get you every where' which is probably the best but hard to explain that flattery isn't going to get them anywhere :-( or the 'Sorry, I don't see our planets colliding but good luck with your search' when it might just be a genuine compliment. Cheers guys ;-) The planets colliding flirt is long gone and we stillll don't have a reply that makes any sense. Maybe tune into the confusion of mixed messages vs clear signals in this day and age and get rid of the, 'I love your profile' flirt altogether RHP. Peachy
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RHP User
10 years ago
I just called to say I love you. :-) Peachy lolol
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