I wish to get wife involved in swinging but don't know how to discuss topic.

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  be honest with her , tell her that it would interset you and why . have you shown her red hot pie yet ?? my husband introduced me to the site after a friend had told him about it , we both had a look together and i was the one to initiate putting up a profile for some sexy fun . I'm a very shy person but not having that initial face to face contact has made it easier to ease into things at our own pace . why not but two tickets to prima nocta as it sounds like a great place to start and if she doesn't like it you can leave and if she does well baw chicka wahh wahh . goodluck and just remember be honest as you need to have her trust before anything will happen . i hope this advice will assist you in fulfilling your fantasies

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  Often it is all just a matter of confidence. My partner and I have discussed it a number of times. But these days she feels unconfortable with her body as time to take care of ones self is taken up by the endless task of rasing children and study. She has been very adventerous in the past with a few fun nights with a girlfriend of hers. This must be a common thing with many couples. So your wife may be interested but the time might not be right.

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  Bring up the topic in fantasy first. Suggest having someone watching you could be fun, do it when you're both getting right into it, and don't be specific, just say it could be fun. Then take it a bit further, suggest doing it in the same room as other couples and then doing her while she's kissing another girl. Baby steps that will ease her into you telling her all out. After you've got her a little interested in it, maybe buy a magazine or something with an RHP add or something in it, and 'stumble' across it. Then bring up what you talked about the other night and suggest having a look and ee what it's all about. Show her some testimonials or stories about first time success stories and see if it sparks some interest... As we don't know your wife, we can't say if it will work or not, but the more suggestions you get on here, the better it may be for you!

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  How about just being honest? Tell her how you feel. Listen to swingercast.com through pc or onto ipod/mp3 Once you have discussed things take her to Lotus lounge and just dance, nothing more nothing less... then communicate again.

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  RHP User

  18 years ago

  she must have fantasised about women or two guys at once almost all women have thought about it ask her fantasies when she is horny and you are making love the hornier she is the better then well start with couples only clubs if you wanna chat more email me Richie

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