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If you don't like fingers, why not?
December 16 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
..... because of bad past experiences with guys and how they used theirs. Watching with interest.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I completely do not understand that lol Each to their own I guess lol
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On_Safari
11 years ago
I enjoy having my clit fingered to orgasm, it's just a shame so few men (in my humble experience 😇) know how to rub such a delicate piece of flesh 😳 seriously!! Treat it like an eyeball until it's hard then apply a little more pressure. *Tip if it remains or goes soft try something different. If the Lady moans don't stop what you're doing, if it starts to get wet don't stop what you're doing, if she grabs your hand and thrusts into it DON'T STOP WHAT YOU'RE DOING!!!! (This applies to oral as well dears) It's not rocket science!!! 😎 On a personal note when it reaches that stage I enjoy a finger or two inserted rubbing my centre of pleasure as well, so many parts of my anatomy to explore 😄 ~ Indy, just sayin'
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RHP User
11 years ago
and rub a dub dub,at the lil ' man in the tub...that's it just go faster,that will surely make her moan,or just want to leap out of bed,punch you on the schnoze ,pull your dick really hard....So PAY ATTENTION...no don't continually ask her if that feels good ,pay attention to her body..Lots of stroking of her skin,lots of kissing and licking,sucking her nipples...Foreplay...until she is moaning and wet,wet,wet...then when you do finally get to her little nub,remember it is as sensitive as the tip of your penis,a soft tongue swirling,fingers gently mimicking your penis,entering her by now very wet cunt..Well ,that's what works for me xx Freya
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RHP User
11 years ago
Cheers for the responses so far. I meant specifically vaginal penetration with fingers, though I understand On_Safari's comment about bull in China shop approach to clitoral stimulation too. In the words of the boys from South Park during their brief adventure as a boy band: "I'm gunna fingerbang bang you into my life." Appealing? Not so much?
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MissBishere
11 years ago
rubbing, probing, circling, pinching. One finger, two finger, three fingers, four... mmmm fist... the only time I haven't enjoyed fingers is when the guy gets so focussed on making you squirt it becomes mechanical.
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RHP User
11 years ago
But at the first sign of long or dirty nails (men and women) I will run a mile.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Lady fingers, finger foods... Can't stand Butter Fingers though. ;-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm thinking of two lovers in particular. One who didn't have much of an idea and no real finesse. The other who, while he had only been with a handful of women, was a naturally exceptional lover and had fantastic instincts for listening and responding to signals. Dry, rough finger action is common in my experience, and frustrating. Dry is rarely good. Rough is great but at the right time. I like it when exploring is filled with awe and a real lust for me. I've had the 'pull this, tweak that' routine way too often, where guys seem to have their (incredibly dull) routine, which lasts about 2 minutes before they're DTF. Perfect example - they go straight for the nipples without any thought for stroking or teasing the sides and underside of my boobs, or my cleavage, all of which are intensely sensitive. By finger-action, you probably meant clit and vagina, but for me, fingers belong all over my body in gentle tender strokes, or firm gripping grasps, or slaps and smacks, and so on :) Perhaps these women have simply never been treated to lustful fingers in a way that rocked them. Or like all of us, perhaps they have things they like and things they don't. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
YES........ Ok I'll give you more than a simple yes....tease me with them, touch me with them, play with me with them, caress me with them, fuck me with them, place them in my mouth so I can lick them, pleasure me with them, squeeze me with them, run them all over my body, leave your finger prints all over me.....💋
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MissBishere
11 years ago
this one guy I know recently only used his hands and fingers to pin my arms and cup my breasts as his mouth and tongue did wicked things to my nipples... He didn't touch my clit or finger my vagina in anyway... He flexed rolled his hips and and pressed a firm thigh tightly against me... He had me so close to orgasm without any direct stimulation... It's the closest I have come to begging to be fucked ever! gotta love firms hands and strong arms when used exactly right.
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
Arms and hands........💋
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Hottie1
11 years ago
When exploring a woman's vagina. I hate the jack-hammer approach for the prize of a squirt. The best part of the play for me is when my whole body is being explored, I am a very tactile person and love touching and being touched. All the lovely ladies who have responded above (particularly on safari and BL) have nailed it, read the signal ladies and gents and act accordingly. 😘 Mary xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
I love a soft touch EVERYWHERE but often find it is all squeezing and pinching and finger banging......is it that men don't realise how strong they are, or in the heat of the moment they just don't watch for the signals like "hey I'm loving that" or "OUCH". Just because one lady likes it rough....doesn't mean we all do. I've often grabbed a hand and removed from whichever part of my body it was roughing up - male and female!!!.
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Whether they are soft or callused BUT if they have yucky chewed nails down to the quick even I'll pass. That kind of nail biting in my opinion is a sign of nervousness/agitation in that persons everyday life and no man is laying his spitty chewed up fingers on me! Sorry
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RHP User
11 years ago
If both are in the right mood ' go with the flow.. If you need to be more aroused it will take a little longer . I prefer to explore all things not justs the clit, but once it's erect and wet Im not about to waste it. If she wet and wants fingers she will give some sort of signal , might be as subtle as her breathing.. or full on asking for fingers.. gets back to mood..
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RHP User
11 years ago
isnt there a sign that say "insert hand here!!"? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
i don't like finger as it is not soften than lovely penis.LoL
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meander'But at the first sign of long or dirty nails (men and women) I will run a mile. I have been told by many ladies the same thing so guys trim and clean your nails.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Lady fingers, finger foods... Can't stand Butter Fingers though. ;-) Butterfingers are great ! Check out Everytime on youtube, bloody funny !
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RHP User
11 years ago
Psst! Did you hear? She let him finger her!!! Errmerrgerrrd! Yeah! Then she gave him a wristy! Haha, brings back memories of back seats, awkward fumbling and waiting for something to happen. I love fingers, especially when they work together - like poetry in motion.....firm, focussed, flexible.... Nothing like it!!! Yay for 2 in the pink, 1 in the stink! A X - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
If used properly can be better than cock sometimes 😁 Hell ... Most of the time 😜 MUST be used with tongue though 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Foxy
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Paradisepair
11 years ago
I am easily prone to cystitis and pay for the pleasure days later.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Paradisepair' I am easily prone to cystitis and pay for the pleasure days later. I'm probably preaching to the converted, but I'm also very susceptible to UTI's, so will always ensure I pee within 15 minutes of having sex. It works like a charm, but as soon as I forget I pay the consequences.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting '50zcool' Butterfingers are great ! Check out Everytime on youtube, bloody funny ! Evil Eddie... I love fingers, if I don't have at least two (or something else) inside me then I'll never cum during oral. But it's crap when a guy is on a mission to make you squirt and seems to think that involves mimicking a dog digging frantically for a bone .
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RHP User
11 years ago
I love fingers so i can't comment.. I like them in, out, around, in again, all over the place...
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RHP User
11 years ago
I thought the shocker deserved a mention here, not my style just mentioning it.I believe mechanics wives get more than their share of cystitus...be clean boys.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I enjoy just one mostly, a little teaser before the main event. I do not like guys getting over excited at the prospect of making me squirt. It turns me off, not on, and comes across as desperate. I want to relax and enjoy the moment, not be a performing seal! I have had a couple of guys make me bleed from going too hard at it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Tongue on the pussy, moistened finger in the bum, hang on girlfriend it's going to get bumpy !
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Lil_Spermaid'Yay for 2 in the pink, 1 in the stink! A X - Posted from rhpmobile This wasn't there when I made reference to 2 in the goo &1 in the poo
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'ralf74' I enjoy just one mostly, a little teaser before the main event. I do not like guys getting over excited at the prospect of making me squirt. It turns me off, not on, and comes across as desperate. I want to relax and enjoy the moment, not be a performing seal! I have had a couple of guys make me bleed from going too hard at it. I agree.. A little circular, light teasing on the outside is far more enjoyable then a furious jack rabbit trying to make you squirt.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I love fingers... Confident fingers are the best. Fumbling fingers not so much.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting '50zcool' Quoting 'Meander' Lady fingers, finger foods... Can't stand Butter Fingers though. ;-) Butterfingers are great ! Check out Everytime on youtube, bloody funny ! Lol butterfingers 50z
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RHP User
11 years ago
Are the best. ;-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have enjoyed the before, during and after stages........ Before, making sure the girls is ready, nothing worse than going in dry............ During, when the don't concentrate on the signs and just start pumping you, or when they wiggle their hands and catch you on the inner lining, ouch.......... After, when they have been rough or over eager and nobody else can come near me :((((
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RHP User
11 years ago
Gents before finger action Step 1, wash and clean nailsStep 2, buff and file nails and skin so they are super smooth. No rough edges or dry skin ever!!!!Step 3, moisturize handsStep 4, lubricate fingers well before application of the stimulationStep 5 amp up the joy with more fingers, vibrators and tongueStep 6 when you get the right mojo keep going and get her to ride the waves:)Keep steady application and encourage her to move her hips and will help with the fingering application. My kids laugh at my manly manicures, fortunately my wife backs me up.
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