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I'm a Guest, so that's a problem?

June 01 2015

it seems if you reply to flirts that you're a guest, then people won't reply with a message? Why? Is it because ladies think I'm too tight to pay membership? Far from it, nothing to do with money at all. I'm on a six figure salary so nothing to do with that. I know RHP is a business but I find the phone app so flaky I don't want to pay to chat to people!!! - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    find the phone app annoying, you can use the full site from your phone, much easier to navigate, so dig in money bags

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Why you feel the need to mention the six figure salary (bragging is a very unattractive personality trait). Maybe stop bragging.....and then stop whinging about a situation within your control. My 1cent worth.

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    11 years ago

    I'm a paid member who earns only a 5-digit salary and don't have any problems with using it as a paid member :-) I don't know what are your reasons for not wanting to pay for a membership spides, it is none of my business to know either, but I rather pay for a membership and have the access to send out messages instead of flirts because, when I send messages instead of flirts, I show to the other part my sincerity and true interest. Besides, I want to have the convenience to send regards to my friends, whom I have made on here, from time to time. I cannot and do not speak for other women spides, but for me, I do not care how much a man earns in his salary, it's his attitude that counts! I don't go into the Chatrooms at all, but I do want to chat to people in private message and it is rude to ask people to initiate the contact just because I want to chat to them, IMO! I don't know what type of chat are you referring to here, but I find your last line of saying: "I don't want to pay to chat to people!!!" rather unattractive and a turn off! I mean no offence at all, just stating how I would perceive a message like that from a female member perspective :-) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    then most of them are guests too and cannot respond with a message. As a man on this site you're going to have a very hard time meeting women if you don't pay for a membership. It's not necessarily because people will think you're a tight-arse (although some may), it's because two guests will never be able to do more than play flirt ping-pong with each other.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Seems you are. If you are replying to flirts that are a guest, then, are they a guest too? In my opinion I would not send a flirt if I was a paid member - I would send a message. Therefore how genuine are the flirts. On another note if you are receiving the flirt "You're hot, What do you think of me", this is an automated generation from the "Hot or Not" page. Some people are unaware there is a tick box on the page whereby,, it is automatically set to send a flirt if you think they are "Hot", you need to untick so a flirt is not sent. Sounds like you may need to re-evaluate your desire to be on here.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    You are looking for just flirty fun. LOL! In there lays your answer to your conundrum - wouldn't you think.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    yep I too do not like arrogance and if you met me, I hope that would be apparent, but yep mentioning my salary etc is arrogant. Not really inspirit, don't people read profiles before supposedly flirting with them? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    11 years ago

    If you take your leisure time seriously, you'd cough up since you can afford it. Then those you are seeking will take you seriously

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    The people you want to chat to or meet have nothing to do with the apps or the business side of things. If the phone app bugs you so much use a laptop. Personally I don't take male guests seriously. From experience I've found many (not all) are married men lying about their single status and they don't want any financial trace the wife can find. OR they don't want to part with their dollars because they are a cheap skate looking for a free hooker. That's just been my experience and doesn't mean all male guests fall into those categories. By becoming a paid up member it shows people you are serious about wanting to experience all the benefits this site can bring. I especially dislike the flirt "You are exactly what I'm looking for. Please message me I'm keen" - really! How keen? Would you go up to someone at a bar and ask them to buy you a drink because you are keen to talk to them? Pay for your own messages. As the saying goes: If you keep repeating the same process you will keep getting the same result. Become a member and get some credibility. Just my thoughts. Good luck LG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    and it seems you are married! Maybe you fall into the "don't want the Mrs to find out" category so I won't pay for membership! Good luck with that.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    If a guy's profile gets this as my reaction or this then I might overlook the fact that he is a guest. However if his profile gets this as my reaction or as my reaction then I will not overlook the fact that he is a guest. As a paying member I have 5 messages I can send a day-and why should be generous and overlook the fact that someone did not bother to "invest" the amount of a subscription - approx 20AUD a month to communicate with me - and others?20AUD is the price of a meal out in SYD - will not even cover the price of a takeaway pizza...this should not be hard to cough up..Not doing so -especially when you say you are on a 6figure salary- means to me that you are a freeloader and anticipate to be taken care of..I am not doing that. As for the mobile app - if a guy cannot log into RHP from a computer and gives me the BS that he never heard of skype then I will conclude not only he is married-attached whatever despite stating on his profile as single but is also trying to arrange for hookups behind the back of his significant other..no thank you.. so yes, it does matter..being a member shows some respect towards the other members - it is only fair

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Even if you think the app has its problems just become a paid member. Though there is no guarantee it will get you the replies you seek. The ratio to men and women are stacked against the men. But just fork out dude

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I think most qualified professionals are on 6 figures! Haha not something to run home about. Hell - I am on 6 and I can't afford a premium account! People don't reply to flirts for the following reasons: - lack of personable touch: a flirt says nothing about who you are- lack of effort: compare a flirt to a private message. Who's made more effort?- Spam: people get spammed with flirts, so they ignore them.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    My favourite thing! ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'spides' Not really inspirit, don't people read profiles before supposedly flirting with them? - Posted from rhpmobile Not always - Sometimes just a picture is enough and the rest you can learn later. However I did mention the "Hot or Not" area. I admit I do not always read profiles. Most say the same thing just worded differently. Besides what's in a profile - mostly bullshitaramous anyway. No matter what site you are on.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    That was like falling in a pit of venomous snakes....I'll put that down to a lesson learnt!!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    As a paid member I do not like seeing men as guests and I find it quite rude and kind of arrogant that they think women will contact or respond to them them as it is hard enough to find the attention I seek anyway even with sending messages. No complaints though before anyone has a spit at me lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'TisonlyI' As a paid member I do not like seeing men as guests and I find it quite rude and kind of arrogant that they think women will contact or respond to them them as it is hard enough to find the attention I seek anyway even with sending messages. No complaints though before anyone has a spit at me lol More for you LG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    What all the others said. Frankly I only look at my flirts about once a week (my profile says they go unnoticed, so everyone bothering to read my profile knows this), and usually send all of them a group reply. I've been a paid member since I joined and expect the same from the guys.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    However, Im happy to see men as 'guests' as it improves my chances :) Personally I love the App - works well for me, but Im happy to pay whether I find it good or bad :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    My only observation and I could put up what people put in the flirt in the first place, but I won't. But I only tick I'm a guest. I'd wager your response here is to come across as a guy with a heart in order to get flirts yourself. I wish you well with that - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It's about intention. A lot of the guest females are flakes and wishy washy and the same goes for the males. I'm not here to fuck everyone on the site and it's a small part of my social life, but if someone grabs my attention I will shoot off a message. I wouldn't waste my time being here just to be a guest and a voyeur

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It is a problem. I did a stint as a guest member on another site for the pure challenge of it. Over the space of about 2-3 months I had two people express some form of interest but did not manage to have any real life meets. I think that if I persisted for longer it would have been possible that I could have met someone. I think that you should really question why you are here though. If you are genuine about wanting to meet people off here you should really just pay. Work 1 extra hour of your awesome job and that will save you at least a 100 hours of tedium on here. If there is some reason why you can not be a paid member here but are genuinely interested in meeting people for sex, I would focus your energies on the old fashioned approach people at bars, in the street, at the beach etc. This approach has it's advantages and is definitely a more economical way to spend your searching for sex efforts. Perhaps you already do this and you are really just here to be a profile voyeur and forum participant. Then realize they will see that too and assume you to be a tire kicker when it comes to real life meets. Also remember that men fear that women will laugh at them, women fear that men will kill them. You are obviously a physically powerful guy and that can be intimidating. When someone pays money to this site it creates a paper trail which is hard to fake. As far as anyone on here knows you could be a serial killer in an internet cafe. If you still insist on not paying for whatever reason but you are serious about meeting people, I would suggest you add more info to your profile, get verified and add a couple more pics. Have face pics in a PG because you obviously don't. Because without investing some form of effort, you really just scream time waster to me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    You just got served - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Guest V Guest. Equality is a one way street. Yep, treat me like an equal but you pay and do all the work because I'm to gutless to face possible rejection. Why ? Because they can. Kudos to the female members, they are by far the minority as are the ones with an original profile.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'TisonlyI' As a paid member I do not like seeing men as guests and I find it quite rude and kind of arrogant that they think women will contact or respond to them them as it is hard enough to find the attention I seek anyway even with sending messages. No complaints though before anyone has a spit at me lol Why shouldn't women contact men ? Not their place ? Better than whingeing about the quality of the mens messages I would think.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It doesn't bother me if a person is a guest. But if they're relying on flirts to get my attention, then they're destined to fail. I might check my flirts once every couple of months, and I never ever respond to them. I have enough trouble responding to messages in a timely manner, without adding flirts into the mix. And it's not because I'm inundated with messages - far from it. But between work, family, friends and the forums, I'm just really time poor :( Why am I a paid member? Because I like the added extras I get with being a paid member. Simples.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    your six figure salary wouldn't look like this, would it...............$120.000?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I am a male guest but have been honest on profile, paid member on AM bur will probably move to this site as better value for money

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Sad to see you feel like that, I have been here on the forums since I joined and if you read all my posts you would see that that is definitely not the case or who I am. But seriously you should join just to give yourself a wider audience and make your time here much better for you. Cheers

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I paid for the 3 months ultimate. But then needed to start a chat so I forked out another $70 for 1 month. There's now discount from one to the other it's bullshit I had been dying to talk to all these pretty ladies and gues what, I'm not their type. So I'm out 150 something, on Austudy figures. So suck it up. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Totally agree why wouldn't women contact men and I am sure some do and that is great, equality to all my friend. Must watch my wording in future so it is not misconstrued in some ways. Cheers for the insight on that.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'spides'I'd wager your response here is to come across as a guy with a heart in order to get flirts yourself. I wish you well with that Tis's true self shines through in his posts, just like yours does in yours.

  • MysteryMr

    MysteryMr

    11 years ago

    Were the women you winked back with "I'm a Guest" also guest members? Maybe they couldn't send a message either.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Slickz' I think most qualified professionals are on 6 figures! Haha not something to run home about. Hell - I am on 6 and I can't afford a premium account! Humble brag.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    6 figure salaries just dont have the pulling power they used to have. The reason women do not respond to flirts has nothing to do with being a paid member or not, its because they receive a million flirts a year and its next to impossible to write a personalized "Dear horny, Thank you for taking two seconds out of your life to ask for a fuck. Your extraordinary effort to make me feel so special has rejuvenated my faith in man kind. Here is my address, join the end of the line 12 sharp as I am more than happy to fulfill your 2 second needs. Yours truly, Random Female. XXX" Its not your fault OP, its hard to know what its like on the other side of the gender fence.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    i do genuinely hope you find what you are looking for here, I'll quit while I'm behind 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Guest or full member aside... If you scored a potential bonk from someone on here, what would you tell the wife? Just nipping down the pub with the mates? Or do you hope the woman will be keen on a quickie during your lunch break? Keep using you phone for pie dude, and keep it locked so wifey cant see what you get up to. Seriously, she wont give a toss if youre a guest or a paid member hey? Either way you will be paying half your 6 figure wage to your lawyers and her ,after she divorces you. 👋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    6 figure salary and he can't afford a shirt lol..... dude, flirts are a waste of time. They get lost in the warm n sticky crowd and they say nothing abut you. Put your $ where your desire is and send a contact that CONNECTS :{

  • FinerLife

    FinerLife

    11 years ago

    Or maybe I'm lucky but I haven't really had this issue being a guest

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    my wife knows I'm on here and I'm not looking for anyone. Very happily married. Happy hunting for yourself - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    If you can't send me a personal message then that shows a lack of individuality and creativity. I'm not into these silly template messages, this site is superficial enough. If you can afford it then what's the issue? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    send em messages like "you're cuntastic!!" Or "yummy I bet you taste like a roast chicken roll with gravy no cheese!!" That'll work it's arse off 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    If you cant even approach someone with a message how are you going to strike up a conversation. First impressions always count even in a message. And i think its very polite of people even to message you back and tell you your not what they are looking for good luck with your search. At least you know they read your message. It only takes a minute to respond. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    The app may not be perfect but it's worked for me :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I fall in the married up section but at the same time I also pay for a membership. I find you get more out of it by paying that little bit, I send both flirts and messages mostly message though, the flirts are too friends for a bit of fun mostly. If you're a married man you're going to find it very difficult to find a woman or women that will actually want to meet up with you let alone speak to you. Since being on here for 6 months now I've met up with 2 women, but that's mostly because of my free time. Moral of the story if you're married and a guest then you're in for a bad time - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Oh my apologies... Waves to the wife 👋.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    ..... the best fun that money can buy ...... like a coffee is $4.50 near me (good coffee!) ..... so at $1 a day the value is sensational ...... Spides the paid experience is way better than being a guest ... whether your male or female. Maybe moderators ... that we could pay by the message ? ...... she/he's so hot ... I'll have $20 on her /him ? ...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Fuck you stir. You made me laugh while easting breakfast and now my computer screen looks like pebblecrete. So......spides........ whats the "take home" message from your topic? DG

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Fit73' It's about intention. A lot of the guest females are flakes and wishy washy and the same goes for the males. I'm not here to fuck everyone on the site and it's a small part of my social life, but if someone grabs my attention I will shoot off a message. I wouldn't waste my time being here just to be a guest and a voyeur Judgmental and cynical much? Obviously you had some really bad experience from the female and male population here to make that call. I am sorry you had such uninspiring and bitter experiences but not all of us are in that same basket. What a big wide brush you weld. Dear me.... Be well.

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'spides' my wife knows I'm on here and I'm not looking for anyone. Very happily married. - Posted from rhpmobileWhat is the point of responding to your flirts at all since you really dont want any connection with anyone? sounds to me that their message to you will be a waste of their time and hard-earned money when you just want to do some tire-kicking?If you want to just have some flirty fun without pursuing it further, I recommend you go to the chat rooms. You can have fun there, chats only, banter or salacious whispers if that is your thing. Or even a voyeur like so many there. I am more into the social chats with people on chat room, some I have met for a laugh or two in the Meet and greets. This may be a better and suitable experience for you.Have fun. And good luck.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    We used to be a paid member but because of so many non replies and pretenders and fake profiles on here we never will again.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'spides' my wife knows I'm on here and I'm not looking for anyone. Very happily married. Happy hunting for yourself - Posted from rhpmobile Maybe this is a new type of cuckold flirt fetish ... send flirts but cannot cum until you receive a return flirt. LG

  • Goodvintage

    Goodvintage

    11 years ago

    I agree TarzannJane. Have been on RHP on and off for nearly 10 years. In 10 years I have always been the one to initiate the conversation by sending a message.Why don't women message men first...?There is nothing wrong with sending a flirt to show interest.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    What a strange fellow. Tells us how much money he makes but apparently is not arrogant. 6 figures, but apparently membership is too expensive. Wants paying members to reply to his flirts but has no interest in meeting. Wonder if he's getting the idea this place is not for him. I am.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    You naughty old thing 😘xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'MrsTri' What a strange fellow. Tells us how much money he makes but apparently is not arrogant. 6 figures, but apparently membership is too expensive. Wants paying members to reply to his flirts but has no interest in meeting. Wonder if he's getting the idea this place is not for him. I am. Give it a rest. I think the salary comment was merely to emphasise that guest was a choice not a financial consideration. As for your other comment, that could cover a significant percentage of the female population ! It's a public forum, variety is the spice.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'want2now' I agree TarzannJane. Have been on RHP on and off for nearly 10 years. In 10 years I have always been the one to initiate the conversation by sending a message.Why don't women message men first...?There is nothing wrong with sending a flirt to show interest. That is not my experience. I have been a guest for over two years, member near 8 years, my profile is constantly changing and seldom with any semblance of reality and even common niceties yet there is a regular supply of lovely introductions from nice ladies. I dont even go to look at profiles, And flirts. Eeew I think I would rather be noticed picking my nose than sending one of those slime covered boggers One would hope there is not a filter you accidentally set 10 years ago and forgot about. That would be a shocker. 10 years Wow imagine all the frustrated booty you laid waste too with an unintentional ignore. Let me know if you need counseling?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'MrsTri' What a strange fellow. Tells us how much money he makes but apparently is not arrogant. 6 figures, but apparently membership is too expensive. Wants paying members to reply to his flirts but has no interest in meeting. Wonder if he's getting the idea this place is not for him. I am. Indeed, But more to the point Bravo a delightfully polite and refreshingly sweet, garroting. Nice to see the feminine touch still has its deadly charm. :) Can not wait to see what you do to the next stray...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'spides' yep I too do not like arrogance and if you met me, I hope that would be apparent, but yep mentioning my salary etc is arrogant. Not really inspirit, don't people read profiles before supposedly flirting with them? - Posted from rhpmobile You're very right!!! Many people don't read profiles at all, before they begin to 'flirt' (as you call it). But I do have to admit that I did initially see your post as a means to simply mention your salary. Personally, I prefer a Lady who doesn't CARE what a man earns or has or owns... Of course, I understand the concerns we all have about future security and lifestyle (ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU GET TO MY AGE... LOL). However, I still have no time for women whose main concern is how much a man has (In the bank or in his pants!!!... Hehehe)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I can see why you might not want to join a site with a dicky (oops) app. Entirely your prerogitive imo. . Quote Spides; "it seems if you reply to flirts that you're a guest, then people won't reply with a message? Why? Is it because ladies think I'm too tight to pay membership?" . Apparently, some do. It's hardly fair considering women guests get a free message to send every 7 days from the last one, and free entry to the chat room once they verify their profile. To prove they're female I suppose. :-P . I think though women just don't pay a lot attention to the flirts except to complain about them in various ways. From the number they receive to how they don't get to say exactly what they want with a 140 character limit. . There's a lot I like about this site but the glitches are becoming part of the makeup for the place now. It's disappointing that I believe RHP could be a much better experience but it seems to be more about the money than customer satisfaction.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Mrs.Tri ...50z and BM,is she not entitled to her opinion..the OP is indeed enigmatic..he doesn't want to meet anyone because he is happily married,won't pay for membership because he just wants to chat and expects women who most likely get inundated with flirts to respond to his..phtt xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Lots of money honey don't mean your arse ain't tight..😝xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I think everyone needs to stop being so vitriolic to this poor guy. So what if he mentioned his salary....don'f hate the player, hate the game.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'm amazed that people think one of my points is that I'm too tight to pay for membership! Hell six figures could be including cents too...pretty amazing reactions too be honest. Clearly yes this isn't the place for me so I wish you all well. Some ladies responses stink of 'damaged goods', so I hope I've exposed them to some guys who should avoid them like a certain Glenn Close character ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Kattss

    Kattss

    11 years ago

    The stats are not in your favor as far as man to woman ratio... And you are married and only looking to flirt... Which narrows the odds even more... Some women like flirty text chat and nothing more. At least you're honest about that.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting '50zcool' Quoting 'MrsTri' What a strange fellow. Tells us how much money he makes but apparently is not arrogant. 6 figures, but apparently membership is too expensive. Wants paying members to reply to his flirts but has no interest in meeting. Wonder if he's getting the idea this place is not for him. I am. Give it a rest. I think the salary comment was merely to emphasise that guest was a choice not a financial consideration. As for your other comment, that could cover a significant percentage of the female population ! It's a public forum, variety is the spice. That is exactly what I came in to say! . It is a public forum, but it looks like Spides has decided the forums are too flaky for him. Clever man. . The responses to men being guests never ceases to shock me. . Very rarely is anything said about women being guests, and I can assure you women are the majority of guests on RHP despite being the minority by a long shot. . The opposite side of the coin. God forbid someone should ask if the forums mean so much to you that you'd pay a membership to access them. That's an innocent HYPOTHETICAL question I asked a few years ago which most didn't get either. . Hope to see you back in the forum sometime Spides. Peachy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    well said you beautiful creature ;-) I'm sorry was that a flirt 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya79' Mrs.Tri ...50z and BM,is she not entitled to her opinion..the OP is indeed enigmatic..he doesn't want to meet anyone because he is happily married,won't pay for membership because he just wants to chat and expects women who most likely get inundated with flirts to respond to his..phtt xxFreya ?? I was complementing the lady. Really its sad when preconceptions taint peoples view making them so quick to see bad where they want to see bad. phtt.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Unfair. I have a great boiled rabbit recipe. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Just putting the saucepan on to boil.... Call me Mrs Fudd

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Damaged Goods & 6 Figure Salaries Quoting Spides "I'm amazed that people think one of my points is that I'm too tight to pay for membership! Hell six figures could be including cents too...pretty amazing reactions too be honest. Clearly yes this isn't the place for me so I wish you all well. Some ladies responses stink of 'damaged goods', so I hope I've exposed them to some guys who should avoid them like a certain Glenn Close character ;-)" Well , that's your good deed done for the month Spides - rescuing all those poor. (Philandering =Michael Douglas) Souls from the (Damaged Goods=Glen Close) Women who rudely insist on NOT tolerating the unenlightened MT-heads & Numpty's who unfortunately, do mingle with the Humans. So, judging by your regular displays of extraordinary Emotional & Social intelligence, coupled with that 6 figure salary ,.......you must surely be someone as eminent, astute & evolved as a Psychiatrist or Psychologist? !?? Ok, half time Spides , change feet. 😅 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'spides' I'm amazed that people think one of my points is that I'm too tight to pay for membership! Hell six figures could be including cents too...pretty amazing reactions too be honest. Clearly yes this isn't the place for me so I wish you all well. Some ladies responses stink of 'damaged goods', so I hope I've exposed them to some guys who should avoid them like a certain Glenn Close character ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile That's only going to set of a new sense of indignation backed by the glorious notion that they were right about you all along. . Sigh... some people are their own worst enemies.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    *off*

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    11 years ago

    I answer flirts with messages all the time, if I get one from someone that appeals to me. But the trick with me is to keep me interested enough to keep messaging them back, if they can't do that them I get bored quickly.... Now in saying that I've been actively talking to a guess, who I enjoy our banter, our chitchat about anything, the bullshit we go on about and it's been going on for probably 6/7 months or more and no we've never met lol......💋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Yuda yuda yuda.......Same old shit!, I did laugh just a little though.....knots

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    My subs are due in a few weeks and with my well crafted personalised messages being generally met with silence l figure l might as well park this up, become a guest (yah say some), go find my abs and pecs and get me some saucy pics that will do it for the ladies, l mean work on my core strength and improve my posture of course. But then l remembered one of the replies from the eva helpful M. Woods RHO support that has responded to my needs many a time. "Hello, Thank you for your feedback. RedHotPie is an Australian owned and operated website so please rest assured you're dealing with staff that live here. Melanie Woods" So l'm gonna hang around, improve my posture another time and renew my subs (sorry ladies haven't given up yet) and do my bit to stimulate the economy buy subscripting local. cheers

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    id like the body of Patrick Bateman at least and I guess I am painted as such a person lol...I don't actually blame people for subscribing here, when I joined I imagined it to be a bit of light hearted fun....hell it still can be. I guess people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    "My subs are due in a few weeks" That just sounds so wrong... ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I had to check if it wasn't a Chev post !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Appologies to those offended. I was trying to abbreviate "my subscription fees are due for renewal in a few weeks". Thanks Meander for pointing that out. Cheers - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    No offence taken... but I had the same initial reaction as 50zcool and had to do a double take lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Because you've all been Chevied😁 xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Been there...chev'd that

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    That's all because some have limited minds

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Who the hell is Patrick Bateman? And unless he's well-endowed (at least 6 inches plus, and not 6cms!!) & cut , who cares about his body! A muscled, cut, roid-assisted body will im afraid , never be an adequate substitute for a generously endowed manhood, in my opinion . And anyway,.. none of that matters without a character rich in integrity, honesty & healthy degree of humility overarching it all. Just saying,...... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Patrick Bateman is the protagonist in American Psycho. Played by Christian Bale.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Personally I am a premium member & no am definitely not on a 6 figure salary, however I can still afford a membership. The only downside of the mobile site I can say is that you can't see cock pics you have to go onto the website to have them come up. The extra pics you get from it all more than pays for a small membership cost. The majority of the time I do not even respond to a flirt unless I am interested and as for messages I will never message a guy straight up. If a guy is interested in me then he will message me is my motto. I believe it is the guys job to hunt & lure their prey not the other way around. Men should be real men in my eyes.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Minxyxxx Many women do take that view of not pursuing men. A real man must be a hunter, a doer, proactive, and assertive. Men that know what they want and set about doing that, do seem to be more attractive, more successful, and desirable. There are also the men that latch onto attention. Send them a message and you may as well have given a time and place. Try to back away and it is your fault with associated baby dummy spit. Good reason to avoid disturbing them But it does pay, from time to time, to take a risk.There are many men who are not hunting, treat this site as a casual investment in time and effort, another site to browse from week to week in a little free time. They are looking, but the need to rush is not there.They know chance in the real world will bring opportunity, they will see it and take action. One could argue that such a more relaxed man has more confidence, less desperation, and less need to lie, deceive, manipulate to get what he wants. A far better catch than the sly online profile hunter, an expert where semi anonymous rapid fire approach scores the trophy for the friends list wall, and the bed post notch. The real gold to be found among the rubble of male profiles will not always find you, he is way too fine a catch in the real world to spend endless hours prowling late night computer screens. Look for the infrequent online male, not a poor hunter, just looking out onto the real world rather then into the seedy game world. There are many fine catches here of which the best do not play computer games. Say hi and take control, or let the roll of the dice decide who you get. Just a thought, nothing more.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    there is men and there is wannabe men what happened to being mysterious charming and intriguing and letting her discover that u have money and u have a big p.... and all the rest letting her be pleasently surprised rather then over selling yourself well whatever is offered is not wanted the saying goes - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Yes agree to spides .... we don't care about your salary - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Ahhhh...Christian Bale,....now you're talking. 😉. Thanks Astrild - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'kimbakandi' Who the hell is Patrick Bateman? And unless he's well-endowed (at least 6 inches plus, and not 6cms!!) & cut , who cares about his body! A muscled, cut, roid-assisted body will im afraid , never be an adequate substitute for a generously endowed manhood, in my opinion . And anyway,.. none of that matters without a character rich in integrity, honesty & healthy degree of humility overarching it all. Just saying,...... - Posted from rhpmobile I think you just described my corkscrew....

  • Seachange73

    Seachange73

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Minxyxxx' The majority of the time I do not even respond to a flirt unless I am interested and as for messages I will never message a guy straight up. If a guy is interested in me then he will message me is my motto. I believe it is the guys job to hunt & lure their prey not the other way around. Men should be real men in my eyes. I don't believe that their membership status, guest or premium, is indicative of the men being real men. Maybe some of them don't really want to meet anybody. Just like the OP. But it should be the respectable thing for these men to spell out their intent on their profile. Then the onus is on the people they contact to decide their next course of action. Being respectable and honest is more indicative of a real man, in my personal opinion. Just their preference. The reality is that being a guest member limits their ability to connect with their target audience. This topic has been discussed ad nauseam. Now they should not be crying foul if they don't get favourable results when the competition from gorgeous, available and paid-up men is steep. We try to avoid complications when we can.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting your distinguished self : "I think you just described my corkscrew...." Goodness me!? Sounds like yours is a "fun household" ! 😈 So is that the manual or battery operated variety? 😉 KK xx🍒 - Posted from rhpmobile