M33 F30
Im the male and i run our account
January 10 2019
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RHP User
7 years ago
As no doubt plenty of others here will tell you, many ''couples'' interested in you and your partners account are most likely single males, so thus they will focus on your partner more than you. I'm not going to start in on your previous posts about beautiful people, but you once again in this post hint that you are seeking validation for your stunningness - and thus you are inviting some ''hate''.
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RHP User
7 years ago
And the 11 friends haven’t told you anything??
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RHP User
7 years ago
Maybe the girls just feel they’re ‘not in your league’ 😂
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RHP User
7 years ago
Thank you all for your kind comments and yes in a way i doubt myself every day. Most of the people focusing on her are couples
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Rlee552
7 years ago
You ask for help. However, you cannot change or control other people’s behaviour. You certainly won’t be able to alter the demographics of this site. The best you can do is inform people of your expectations. Do this in your profile. Include information as to what you want when people communicate with you. If they then do not follow this, this will then inform you of whether they are for you. You have put a lot of information as to who you are in your posts ... but your profile itself is incredibly basic. That is fine - many others are. However in keeping it basic the law of averages say you will generally get the average response. Which is from a single male looking to catch up with your partner.
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Rlee552
7 years ago
and people will comment on this. There are some good pictures of yourself as well. I would lose the superman boxer photo though.
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
Contradiction in terms Yet in your previous forum post “ We are searching for dirty talkers” you clearly give the impression that your “female” half will also be receiving / wants to receive dirty messages? If your profile was not verified (which it appears to be) , we would assume that you are simply a male posing as a couple. Reading between the lines, of this post and your other posts, there appears to be some insecurity with you, the male, with regards your looks. Previously you boasted about your good looks and that it was hard (and frustrating) for you to find anyone as good looking as you are, and the anger certainly comes through loud and clear. And then in this post the emphasis has shifted. Too many contradictions
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RHP User
7 years ago
You make up for it by letting everyone know just how super sexy you think you are
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RHP User
7 years ago
Turns? This concept is new to me lol. Dude you need to just accept the reality of this website and life in general. Women have high standards, (most) men do not. If they aren't into you then they aren't in to you, there's no turn for you if you're not attractive to them. And FYI, having a cry about it in the forums is only going to make you less attractive.
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RHP User
7 years ago
It may just be that women are more comfortable talking in person? I know that if I am attracted to a man, I will speak face to face about what I think about him, but certainly don’t in texts. Texts to me are more about getting to know whether we are on the same page with what we are looking for. Maybe this has something to do with it? Also I would assume if people are messaging you, it’s clear without saying anything that they find you attractive.... Mrs LAL
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FredAndGinger2
7 years ago
Here's Fred's tip. I'm in a similar situation with a very attractive wife - verified, validated and confirmed face to face at many RHP events. Stop putting any emphasis on messages and put all your effort into going to RHP social meet and greet and swingers clubs/events. That way you are both conversing face to face with both partners of the couples you are meeting.
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RHP User
7 years ago
It's your turn when you make it happen. You want people to gush over your appearance, make it happen. That pic of your sloppy rig in the superman undies is highly underwhelming. You're 25 you should be getting close to your physical prime, you look like the heaviest thing you ever lift is an xbox remote and the hardest thing you ever do is decide between coke and sprite to go with your snacks. Lift some weights, grow some muscles, do something strenuous, shed some fat and, most importantly, produce some testosterone. People aren't attracted to you because you aren't attractive to them. It doesn't matter whether you think that is right or fair, it remains a fact. So you can claim your power and control what is within your control or you can continue to moan about it like a child and hope daddy comes along and makes it all better but that isn't going to happen here because it's clearly titled "Adult" forums, not "Make a child feel better" forums. I don't think you fully understand the wolves you are running with on here. If you continue to lead your woman down this path don't be surprised when she runs away with one (or more) of them because very few women have a fetish for insecure complaining man-children.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I have not now and doubt I will ever tell a strange male on a first or second message what I wish to do with him. I need a connection first. Many girls want more than just the physical. We want a spark.
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curiousgirl35
7 years ago
Female ran account here and i like to get to know people a bit before ever talking dirty etc. I would say great pics or something similar. To be honest id probably still only say it to your face to see your reaction! Stop stressing :)
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RHP User
7 years ago
Omg thanks everyone even the brutal comments helped wake up call for sure basically you cant always get what you want . Thanks dynamiccouple i didnt even read one work you wrote i suggest you put the phone down your a clear hatter of me
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madotara69
7 years ago
Have you expressed to Taneisha the concerns troubling you ? I set up our profile years ago, spent the next few years active premium members, aside the time spent with meeting folk and playing up, I became fond with the forums, the people writing to the forums, the topics and the raw emotion when the sandpit full of tis and arse amongst chest beating dirty fuckers mind fucking all or whoever entered the playing grounds, who is who was established and on topic also established. good ol fight and fuck ending in a tangled mess of writhing dirty fuckers orgy. 'Eve said to Adam, "catch me if you can" it's been the same old story ever since the world began' Eddy lives :) I woke one morning, logged in wrote a poem and posted it. I think most of the women of the sandpit days sent a message expressing a personal thought for the love I shared in Tara on that morning. Apparently a simple little thing like a poem, even all about Tara, she herself her own.... women found attractive and messaged me in saying so, compliment. Also, Matt..Smile. (that too) Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
7 years ago
Don’t know about all the other stuff but now my lady wants a ride on mower cheers Geoff 😎
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RHP User
7 years ago
So, I dom't blame you for wondering if you matter as much as she apparently does. It's fucking rude. If it was my hubby copping that flack, I'd cease communication, and maybe explain why, or not, lol. From what I read onsite, most husbands would resent all the attention going to the missus and would react in pretty much the same way. You look pretty darn cute to me, Peachy
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RHP User
7 years ago
Women are more often than not more popular onsite though personally, I prefer men. Maybe it's the men you're talking to who might or might not be actually part of a couple and in that case, not what you're looking for. It's about you as a couple, you have to both be happy or it ain't going to be a successful journey together. Peachy xo
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madotara69
7 years ago
Quoting 'bender904' Don’t know about all the other stuff but now my lady wants a ride on mower cheers Geoff 😎 Did your lady say "hey babe, can you tell that guy I want a mower just like his one, his wife is riding ???......" Anything about me at all, just wondering ???.....
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madotara69
7 years ago
Quoting 'DynamicCouple36' Contradiction in terms Yet in your previous forum post “ We are searching for dirty talkers” you clearly give the impression that your “female” half will also be receiving / wants to receive dirty messages? If your profile was not verified (which it appears to be) , we would assume that you are simply a male posing as a couple. Reading between the lines, of this post and your other posts, there appears to be some insecurity with you, the male, with regards your looks. Previously you boasted about your good looks and that it was hard (and frustrating) for you to find anyone as good looking as you are, and the anger certainly comes through loud and clear. And then in this post the emphasis has shifted. Too many contradictions I remember the thread too, he Matt was'nt saying no one as good looking as him, he was saying he felt that everyone else did'nt find him good looking. I also remember Matt explaining any misunderstanding at the time and pretty sure it was to your resent. Why you bring 'talking dirty' into this thread and again, perhaps with intensions to back up something that aint right. Fair suck of the sav. hope you're well and enjoy the new year :) Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'deepestpurple' You're 25 you should be getting close to your physical prime, you look like the heaviest thing you ever lift is an xbox remote and the hardest thing you ever do is decide between coke and sprite to go with your snacks. Lift some weights, grow some muscles, do something strenuous, shed some fat and, most importantly, produce some testosterone. I would say that insulting peoples physique is a bit unfair. Not everyone is into buff guys.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'OkeyDoke45' Quoting 'deepestpurple' You're 25 you should be getting close to your physical prime, you look like the heaviest thing you ever lift is an xbox remote and the hardest thing you ever do is decide between coke and sprite to go with your snacks. Lift some weights, grow some muscles, do something strenuous, shed some fat and, most importantly, produce some testosterone. I would say that insulting peoples physique is a bit unfair. Not everyone is into buff guys. No, not everyone is into buff guys. Well done OkeyDoke for your contribution of that fact, it is indeed true and you can have a gold star. Here's some more facts; the overwhelming majority of Matt's target market is into buff dudes, Matt wants people to comment on his appearance, presumably complimentarily and I gave him some useful advice to achieve that goal. Thanks for quoting that section of my post though, I did enjoy reading it again.
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curiousgirl35
7 years ago
Great now i want a mower! Haha
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DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
MadoTara We guess that you did not see the posts in which the OP hurled abuse and profanity at all who commented? Calling us all cunts and losers and a lot more ? Fortunately admin quickly removed the offensive comments
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