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Immaturity
April 17 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't know about using word "immature"...Sometimes I think maybe different expectationstions are not met perhaps? People can be plain rude sometimes and throw dummy spits if their needs aren't meet- happens a lot on this site...and with your years of experience, one would hope you know that *insert thinking man*......FOXY
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RHP User
13 years ago
immaturity imo has little or nothing to do with age.One of the most emotionally immature men that I have ever met was a man in his 70's.The emotionally immature usually show little or no regard for others and indeed it is the ''it's all about me'' syndrome in full flight.
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RHP User
13 years ago
For me its the fact some use you or say try to use you as a wanking outlet.I am a woman who gives most people a go first and I chat. But you find out pretty fast this type of males, in my case only males, need to wank, and that's not a crime in my book, but that's only what they after. Why??? I am asking this stingy guys don't you pay a person, ring a number and get it over with. Don't bother me on here.I have not been verbally abused on RHP but on plenty of fish for sending a message and because I am a big women, the abuse I coped was so mindblowing it shocked me big times.I am not a person who takes this lightly but I was pretty shocked. I hope this type of males will never walk on my path, I will make em so small they will not come out from under their seat.I have to say men on here have never done this, even I am not there type of woman when I have send a flirt, it was just a thank you no.That's really all from me.Yes the not showing up or the ring at 10 pm can I come over I am horny, WTF, when you had no contact with me for month. But this doesn't make me angry. I just say I think you should stop contacting me and it stops.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I may make a few spelling mistakes on here and have a teddy bear sitting in my bed at home (mind you my mother gave it to me for my 16th), given thsee two examples in different environments, make one immature or not age appropriate for a grown woman? I would hope not- I would hope that one is not perfect rather than immature... Foxy
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RHP User
13 years ago
Online affords people a degree of anonymity and concealment.Some people, see this as an excuse to behave in a manner which is not who they'd behave outside of the site. Thats their first problem... theyre not being genuine.Some behave so differently, letting the horndog out of the cage in such a predatory manner, and then hide behind the fact that its an adult site so they should be able to do what they want. Well, a cocktail bar is an adult site too.... walk in with your dick out calling for someone to such it and see how well you get on!And then, others seem compelled to self promote to the point of advertising in its most blatant and ridiculous form, which is also to me a form of poor behaviour..... its pretty transparent.However..... after saying all of that......I like to believe that we are all capable of making our own value judgements and determinations, and can filter out the chaff for the wheat.DG
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RHP User
13 years ago
We came across a couple who felt like because we did not have daily contact (and send pics daily), they felt neglected and came to the conclusion we were showing other couples more attention than we were showing them. Seriously...the last time i checked i wasnt your babysitter! We also were approached by an individual who said if we played with them, we were not to play with anyone else but them. Oh my.....sharing is caring, i thought you would have learned that as a munchkin. :-). Well enough of my rant...this is an interesting post and cant wait to see the replies. Mrs Bi- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Guys, sending an initial contact message when you're high, is probably not going to work in your favour.
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RHP User
13 years ago
What he said :-)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
immature? does having your wife called a 'stick thin anorexic', or an 'overblown barbie doll' count? we'd say its the name calling. thats something we'd not experienced since primary school...but here, it seems to be rife, both in the forums and via inbox messages... it has quited down just a little, not before time tho....but i put that down to the fact that there are some names missing from here..........
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFox' I don't know about using word "immature"...Sometimes I think maybe different expectationstions are not met perhaps? People can be plain rude sometimes and throw dummy spits if their needs aren't meet- happens a lot on this site...and with your years of experience, one would hope you know that *insert thinking man*......FOXY Well people should communicate their expectations up front as to not confuse instead of sitting and hoping and just playing along. Im well aware of dummy spits and in my experience, again it comes down to communication and not needs being meet...especially when it is emotionally tied emotions and seeing that this is not Eharmony, RSVP or similar, one should relate to reading others profile and what themselves communicate as appose to being coerced into. Maybe coerced is a little strong there. Then again, people find life-mates from such casual/ friendly gatherings and good on them for such a thing. Going in and expecting that would be down right wrong however.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Online affords people a degree of anonymity and concealment.Some people, see this as an excuse to behave in a manner which is not who they'd behave outside of the site. Thats their first problem... theyre not being genuine.Some behave so differently, letting the horndog out of the cage in such a predatory manner, and then hide behind the fact that its an adult site so they should be able to do what they want. Well, a cocktail bar is an adult site too.... walk in with your dick out calling for someone to such it and see how well you get on!And then, others seem compelled to self promote to the point of advertising in its most blatant and ridiculous form, which is also to me a form of poor behaviour..... its pretty transparent.However..... after saying all of that......I like to believe that we are all capable of making our own value judgements and determinations, and can filter out the chaff for the wheat.DG Totally agree that the online concept allows for that and now we cannot take people on their word front...sad!FOXY - no one is perfect.... its our imperfections that makes us unique (in my eyes)Sensible BI - It is quite a thing when one demands that much of you. I've had one ask for photocopy of my license just in case...like WTF!Luckydragon - going by your message and the fact the song "because I was High" came right to my head when I read it is a little funny and shear stupidity as the chances are slim.Litoya - I'd apologise on behalf of all men that treat you or anyone in that way...then again I dont consider myself as from the same tree as those Neanderthals... those guys should really get to meet Misses Palmer (either theirs or the back of your hand).
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quote "Online affords people a degree of anonymity and concealment.Some people, see this as an excuse to behave in a manner which is not who they'd behave outside of the site. Thats their first problem... theyre not being genuine.So true... I've been around long enough to witness this. Probably part of my downfall is I'm the type of person who says it as it is and how I see it. It's not always what everyone wants to hear. But if your true to yourself, thats the best you can do..There was a time when my popularity was on the crest, but alas' the latest wave of contributors over the last 6 months think quite differently. A But the law of averages works them out in the end.. so its just a matter of time before what went around comes back around again..I never want to judge anyone until I meet them face to face. There's alot more to a person than what and how they write... Some may be good with words, but have bad communication skills once face to face.. I found this on more than one occassion...
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RHP User
13 years ago
What I find immature and annoying are the people that are happy to dish it out to others but when you question something they have written or disagree with something they have written they make it personal and respond in a nasty manner. I know I am opinionated but I hope that I am usually reasonable in my responses. 👎👎👎
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RHP User
13 years ago
One child here and i will never change !I like being a big kid on line and in real life.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Just because I refuse to grow up, does not mean I have not matured.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Online affords people a degree of anonymity and concealment.Some people, see this as an excuse to behave in a manner which is not who they'd behave outside of the site. Thats their first problem... theyre not being genuine.Some behave so differently, letting the horndog out of the cage in such a predatory manner, and then hide behind the fact that its an adult site so they should be able to do what they want. Well, a cocktail bar is an adult site too.... walk in with your dick out calling for someone to such it and see how well you get on!And then, others seem compelled to self promote to the point of advertising in its most blatant and ridiculous form, which is also to me a form of poor behaviour..... its pretty transparent.However..... after saying all of that......I like to believe that we are all capable of making our own value judgements and determinations, and can filter out the chaff for the wheat.DG This is a really good post, and something that needs to be emphasised is that written forms of communication are lacking compared to talking face to face. Growing up with MSN, ICQ, and SMS has made me look at a lot of messages here (and in day to day life) in a "positive" light - I read them assuming the author has good intentions simply because a lot of social and somatic gestures are not present. This really helps to distinguish between someone who isn't versed in online communicating (I LOATHE text speak - so much is lost - but I don't judge others if they use it) and someone who is an immature arsebag.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' What I find immature and annoying are the people that are happy to dish it out to others but when you question something they have written or disagree with something they have written they make it personal and respond in a nasty manner. I know I am opinionated but I hope that I am usually reasonable in my responses. 👎👎👎 Well that comment is quite interesting...The gravewine tells of another story. hmmmmm.I say if you can dish it, then you bloody well can take it...otherwise grow up would be quite accurate
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RHP User
13 years ago
What Mischievous lad said...all valid, also...Immature annoying people who level personal comments at others who have posted an opinion that is not implied towards or directed at any specific individual. Often they are notable for their inconsistency with anything they do or say as their beliefs jump tracks and change tack on a daily or even hourly basis dependant on their personal prejudices towards others and their level of self esteem at any given moment. Just being out to tear others down without regard or respect for an OP or staying on a topic is pure narcissism and in fact antisocial. If it ends up that this is to be the only consistent trait they are known for then it would have to be put in the category of 'lacking a social conscience',or in big people speak, 'sociopath'.
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RHP User
13 years ago
The grapevine Frisky? I see. Fair enough you are implying I am unreasonable and can't take criticism and that is the what you are talking about. Well of course I don't agree but I am not going to go on a rant like some. ;-) I know some people don't like being questioned at all and become very defensive. Not too sure why maybe it's a self esteem thing? Anyway doesn't matter... I will continue in my way which is me and unfortunately that means I will occasionally offend some. Not going to worry about it. :D
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RHP User
13 years ago
Don't have to like me cause lets face it everyone has people on here that they can't stand. It's the way of any big group. I will do my best to not address those people. (˘❥˘)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'The grapevine Frisky? I see. Fair enough you are implying I am unreasonable and can't take criticism and that is the what you are talking about. Well of course I don't agree but I am not going to go on a rant like some. ;-) I know some people don't like being questioned at all and become very defensive. Not too sure why maybe it's a self esteem thing? Anyway doesn't matter... I will continue in my way which is me and unfortunately that means I will occasionally offend some. Not going to worry about it. :D i for one dont agree...Meeka, you've always struck me as being both fair, and considered...you certainly dont come across as unreasonable at all, and, i've seen you criticised, and your responses were always appropriate. for us, you are a standout, and i always read what you have written, even if i dont always agree with it. Mike.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Some find power behind a keyboard put them in a real life ... very different
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'friskyeatin' Quoting 'Meeka100' What I find immature and annoying are the people that are happy to dish it out to others but when you question something they have written or disagree with something they have written they make it personal and respond in a nasty manner. I know I am opinionated but I hope that I am usually reasonable in my responses. 👎👎👎 Well that comment is quite interesting...The gravewine tells of another story. hmmmmm.I say if you can dish it, then you bloody well can take it...otherwise grow up would be quite accurate Well said Frisky! People have to realise that sooner or later they have to be held accountable for their actions and just suck it up when called on it. Touche' my friend.... touche'!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Mixing reality with a virtual world.Some people become caught up by the virtual world and try to become something their not. Some do the opposite and show their true colours in which they hide in real life. Some are genuine, others not. Some conscious of their behaviors and so on. Break downs in communication and the inability to express your self clearly can also occur. Do you best to filter out people that don't meet your criteria. At the same time be lenient because how a person appears on a dating site may be a little different to the real world. First impressions are not always accurate.As per your question. Yes. (online) My first forum. The direction in which the forum traveled wasn't close to the direction i intended. (my inability to express myself with words.) I was out of line a little and felt ganged apon. Soz.For people being abusive, i hope they learn that this is not the right way to treat others. (Even the most beautiful butterflies were ugly caterpillars once. Fb 19/04/2013)In all walks of life people can be rude, pushy, immature etc. It's how you deal with it. Thats what counts.This has been My say Fb DISCLAIMER I think that disclaimers are an incredibly sad statement about our society. Nonetheless, nothing that I say can or should be construed as having been said by anyone. Ever.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thank you Mike, it's very nice of you to say. :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
"Opinionated" and "immature" tend to get a bit of crossover. For example, I'm opinionated as fuck, but I assure you, I'm quite ripe ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
*cyberhug* considering how many times I've seen you cross swords with Meeks in the time I've been here, I found this a really lovely and mature response. :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'Meeka100'The grapevine Frisky? I see. Fair enough you are implying I am unreasonable and can't take criticism and that is the what you are talking about. Well of course I don't agree but I am not going to go on a rant like some. ;-) I know some people don't like being questioned at all and become very defensive. Not too sure why maybe it's a self esteem thing? Anyway doesn't matter... I will continue in my way which is me and unfortunately that means I will occasionally offend some. Not going to worry about it. :D i for one dont agree...Meeka, you've always struck me as being both fair, and considered...you certainly dont come across as unreasonable at all, and, i've seen you criticised, and your responses were always appropriate. for us, you are a standout, and i always read what you have written, even if i dont always agree with it. Mike.
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RHP User
13 years ago
and I think many of us would have played chinese whispers at school.Pity many havent left it in the past.
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RHP User
13 years ago
"I ducked for cover" turning into "I fucked your mother" was always funny :P
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RHP User
13 years ago
You did what to my mother?!?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Like your style... Right up my ally.... Say it as it is... Luv it
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RHP User
13 years ago
This is hilarious that this has all happened on a thread discussing immaturity. I love the irony it has given me a really good laugh. :D Enjoy your Friday night peeps.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Incommunicado'*cyberhug* considering how many times I've seen you cross swords with Meeks in the time I've been here, I found this a really lovely and mature response. :) thanks... just tellin it like i see it. if Meekas had a shot at me, chances are i deserved it, or i was just plain wrong. never felt a sting from her words, but she's given me cause to stop and think, more than a few times. wise lady this one, and a great catch for some lucky guy one day......
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RHP User
13 years ago
...or a really good fart?hey incommunicado...what was that about plucking your brother?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Trust and respect is earned in this sand pit. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Trust and respect is earned in this sand pit. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Trust and respect is earned in this sand pit. - Posted from rhpmobile
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13 years ago
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'EuropianBliss'.- Posted from rhpmobile damn!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Some behave so differently, letting the horndog out of the cage in such a predatory manner, and then hide behind the fact that its an adult site so they should be able to do what they want. Well, a cocktail bar is an adult site too.... walk in with your dick out calling for someone to such it and see how well you get on! DG And Desperation for sex. Anyone who is so at the mercy of their sexual cravings that they're not able to conduct a normal conversation or they can't see another person as something other than a sex object for them to fuck needs some help. And The lynch mob mentality I see on the forums far too often.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am sorry your first thread went that way. Which one was it? You know people get very heated at times and threads go way off course in ways you didn't even imagine. You shouldn't take it personally. Every thread takes a life of it's own. Most of us know that it's a debate and a bit of fun. :D
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think I understand now why you made that comment. But can I say someone calling you names and being rude and vindictive is not constructive nor does it make a debate nor is dishing it out. I mean are you saying that people can make rude personal comments and I have to take it?? What ever you may think of me, and yes I can be abrupt & probably rude in some people's eyes but I never make personal or slanderous comments against people or certainly that is never my intention even if it has been taken that way. By the way you should know that it all depends on what grapevine you listen too and I for one feel misrepresented by your "grapevine". But then again gossip is never usually nice. :P
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'lil_bit_angelic' The lynch mob mentality I see on the forums far too often. This. Though to be fair, I see this on every online forum, not just this one. It's like somehow we all revert back to highschool with the cliques and the discrimination against individuals and..Well. We've already seen an example in this thread no? Peoples names, their handles get known just through being active and people either like them or not and suddenly it is less about WHAT they are actually saying and more about WHO said it.That is the most child-like thing I notice on a regular basis. I try to read every post from every person as if it is the first thing they've written, I try to think about not only what they've said but also what they meant. I do not agree just because of who's saying a thing. I do not agree just because I like a person. I think that as adults we should be able to disagree and debate some topics and still be friendly and agree with each other about other things.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I do sometimes wonder how some people function in real life, sure none of us will get along with everyone (either on here or in real life) and despite all my looking i still havent found a block/ ignore button for real life (but if anyone has a spare think of me for a xmas pressie) As someone said above maybe it all comes down to expectations, and not been egotistical saying this but been 6'6" and having a but of personality/ charisma I dont get ignored in real life very often and seem to bring some of that with me online. But then I see or use this site only as a medium to make that initial contact & not to spend days/ weeks/ months messaging. And there is the difference in each of our expectations, some do want to message for days/ weeks/ months, which is fine but not for me.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'fbudi2011'Some people become caught up by the virtual world and try to become something their not. Some do the opposite and show their true colours in which they hide in real life. Some are genuine, others not. Some conscious of their behaviors and so on. Break downs in communication and the inability to express your self clearly can also occur. Do you best to filter out people that don't meet your criteria. At the same time be lenient because how a person appears on a dating site may be a little different to the real world. First impressions are not always accurate. Immaturity takes many forms. I've been known to comment on the bitchiness and so on that happens on the forums, and how unappealing that is. It goes without saying that I think it's immature, though I accept as many have said it's also normal in forums and in groups of people. I find it especially immature, and downright nasty, that behind the scenes the bitchiness, gossip, judgments, half-cocked conclusions and mean-spiritedness is even much greater than the snippets on the forums. I think a lot of people really are two-faced. People I know in real life. People on here. Men who say whatever they think you want to hear so they can get into your pants. Just people in general. Such a shame. Be yourself. Be true. Play a straight game. Don't be mean. Do be kind. Don't jump to conclusions. Don't lie to get what you want. Be sure of what you stand for, and stand for it. Don't say you're one thing, but act like you're another. Do accept people and see what makes them great, rather than looking for ways to tear them down. I could go on ... these are what it means to be a grown up. To be mature.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_Me' Like your style... Right up my ally.... Say it as it is... Luv it Start as you intend to finish.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Don't worry about peoples opinions You know who you are .... their just Jealous & Immature And No you don't have to put up with it Just remember Karma will bite them on the ArseAlthough I do send them Love as I feel they need it as I see so many unhappy people here Happy People never put others down ... True to say
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thanks Jensta. :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'jensta' Happy People never put others down ... True to say
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFox'I may make a few spelling mistakes on here and have a teddy bear sitting in my bed at home (mind you my mother gave it to me for my 16th), given thsee two examples in different environments, make one immature or not age appropriate for a grown woman? I would hope not- I would hope that one is not perfect rather than immature... Foxy Foxy, if your teddy bear has a zip in his back so you can store mr buzzy, then you're not immature
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thank you for your words. Its ok, as I said it wasn't on RHP. The men I med on RHP are all very polite even the once I send a flirt and not interested in me. I have to say I like it here, and I have been for nearly two years. The men I med in person I have enjoyed.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Highpriority' Foxy, if your teddy bear has a zip in his back so you can store mr buzzy, then you're not immature The bear I saw online had a compartment in his back that contained breath spray, condoms, a flashlight, vodka, cigarettes, a lighter, rope and a copy of The catcher in the rye.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think Kevin Bloody Wilson is fucking hilarious!!! And seriously, as for what other's say ... DILLYGAFF!!! BA HAHAHA HA!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
can kiss my butt oh dear ... paintme's inner bogan has raised it's scary head ...
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13 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Quoting 'Highpriority' Foxy, if your teddy bear has a zip in his back so you can store mr buzzy, then you're not immature The bear I saw online had a compartment in his back that contained breath spray, condoms, a flashlight, vodka, cigarettes, a lighter, rope and a copy of The catcher in the rye. Anyone want to join me for a "Teddy Bears Picnic" ... FOXY
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RHP User
13 years ago
There is a difference between immaturity and a sense of humour.This place has become so serious, people seem to have forgotten how to have a laugh and how tolaugh at themselves.C'mon folks, have a giggle at the silly things now and then.
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RHP User
13 years ago
deepbluesumthing. "Start as you intend to finish.. " Yes.... If more ppl adopted this, there would be a lot more happy ppl around...
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have an age limit mainly due to the bad manners and all about me syndrome I have experienced with younger guys the attitude that they are doing you a favor yea nah keep moving thanks !!!!One younger guy being 30 told me Im not like other young guys give me a chance Ill show u etc etc so after chatting on RHP and thinking yea he seems ok I get a message one morning "Hey babe Im lying in bed with a big hard throbbing cock would you like to come over and suck it ?" wow I felt considering I haven't met you yet what an honor being so kind as to let me come suck your cock !!!!!!!!! And so another immature wankhead gets blocked easy ! older me so far have been more what Ive enjoyed manners and experience, I like it hard nauty and dirty so if you say you into it do it if not go find someone who meets your needs please I am not into giving step by step instructions either..... Another annoying immature thing is when they show you pics and you meet up and it looks nothing like them I mean ffs be honest its not hard and the truth will come out when u hook up lol...
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RHP User
13 years ago
FriskyI think I understand now why you made that comment. But can I say someone calling you names and being rude and vindictive is not constructive nor does it make a debate nor is dishing it out. I mean are you saying that people can make rude personal comments and I have to take it?? What ever you may think of me, and yes I can be abrupt & probably rude in some people's eyes but I never make personal or slanderous comments against people or certainly that is never my intention even if it has been taken that way. By the way you should know that it all depends on what grapevine you listen too and I for one feel misrepresented by your "grapevine". But then again gossip is never usually nice. : Hi Meeka dont know you at all but I often read the forums and enjoy your comments as well as those from other "Strong Independent People" with manners and honesty, I think most of us can luckily pic out the bullshit artists before we hook up, I just wanted to say chin up chick and remember some grape vines ar extreamly sour others way to sweet and some full bodied and just right !!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Quoting 'jensta' Happy People never put others down ... True to say I agree too, life is to short we are all on here to have fun mainly sexual fun so lets be mature and respectful while we have fun surely that's not too hard, every one has feelings the good the bad and the downright nauty lol !!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I've been called out out on what I've said. My thoughts challenged. Even been called a few names. Does it matter to me?? Not in the slightest. My heart is bigger than my ego, and my stubbornness can be sometimes bigger than my heart lol, but it's not the person that people question. It's what they've SAID. Until people learn to see that, you're always going to have hurt feelings, and immature reactions. Meeks....you're a darling, have always called me out when my point is either never clear, or just incoherent, which that happens from time to time. Mikeandshell....that's horrible that people have called Michelle that. I've seen you stick to your guns on points you're passionate about, but I've never felt disrespected by any of your comments. I'd love to write something about all here, but I don't have room....so I'll generalise. I love being here, I've never felt disrespected or hurt by ANYONE challenging my thoughts. I love debate, and the passion that's shared....perhaps my inner hippy is coming out, cos I think I love everyone!!!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Agree Sirlurk, that is horrible the comments made about Shell. Did you know that she won RHP hottie of the year last year due to her awesome photos? I think that is amazing considering all the gorgeous young girls we have on here. Shell.... She's still got it! ;-) Sirlurk sounds like you do have a bit of hippie inside you! Oooh I want details you bad boy! ;-) Thank you naughtymuma. I like your example too. Of course you should have felt honored that he would allow you to come suck his cock. LMAO! I wonder what goes through their minds when they do this. It is bizarre sometimes, you talk to people and they seem really great and BAM! They say the dumbest thing completely out of he blue and leave you gob smacked. Hahaha
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RHP User
13 years ago
thanks meeka and sirlurks....we try to not be deliberately offensive and have only really struggled with a few others here....and usually for very good reason (dont like bullies)...the comments directed at Shel were a/ from a long time user (female) who we honestly feel was jealous ...she's still here, lurking, tho under a different name...and b/ from a once prolific poster with a fixation for hats, ropes and cigars, who was pissed, when we rejected his advances...neither of these were 'once only' events...they were repeated again and again...which is a real shame..... (lol Meeks.... not HOTY...but she did win a prize for some pics we posted...lol....she's HOTY every year for me tho)
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RHP User
13 years ago
received the most vitriolic message from a woman....apparently she hates my posts...gee I must be doing something right
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RHP User
13 years ago
Are you sure? I thought I saw some sort of prize for the year! I am sure of it.
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13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Are you sure? I thought I saw some sort of prize for the year! I am sure of it. DelicioucplBris? She won hottie of the year I think. And while I'm here: Great of you to stand up for Meeka, Mike.
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RHP User
13 years ago
You stated that this is an adult website - but as adults we act differently in terms of the environment we are placed in (online vs real life). I agree to a certain extent...in as much as, this site affords me the ability to discuss some facets of my life with other like minded people. That I guess can be seen as acting differently dependant upon the environment.What i don't agree with is the some peoples apparhent lack of manners and need to be offensive. These forums are meant to be for open discussion, not character assasination. If someone takes offence at a post, it's fine to return a comment and voice your disagreement, but making personalised commentary on how someone lives their lives or the choices they make is plain wrong. If you want to make a personal comment, messgae them. MikeandShel, and Meeka, you guys rock. I love your commentary, and value all your views. If this was the school yard, I'd have your backs.Any
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RHP User
13 years ago
Are you serious??? What's the bloody world coming to?!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya77' received the most vitriolic message from a woman....apparently she hates my posts...gee I must be doing something right Gee.... I get a few of those every weekDG
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Are you sure? I thought I saw some sort of prize for the year! I am sure of it. imagine for one moment she did.....and i missed it? i'd be in ten kinds of trouble.....and world of hurt....lol... nah she placed in one of the comps, which was an incredible feeling for her..........
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya77'received the most vitriolic message from a woman....apparently she hates my posts...gee I must be doing something right I got some extremely long angry emails yesterday from a lady here who hates everything I am. You got off lightly!
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RHP User
13 years ago
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RHP User
13 years ago
Mmmmm
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm up, but you'll have to message ME !
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RHP User
13 years ago
A feeble woman like you must be shattered about that reya....... not !
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RHP User
13 years ago
perhaps it is the same person....immature and slightly unhinged rant, although grammatically perfect
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RHP User
13 years ago
Good lord is all I can say. High Priority... not sure what you are saying?? Nice profile pics by the way.
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RHP User
13 years ago
i'm shocked... seriously who could hate your posts? your always lovely and you never seem to get involved in any kind of forum drama. to whoever it was
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RHP User
13 years ago
It really doesn't matter. Meeka, you made a great comment on the Everything thread about posts mentioning other RHP-ers seeming anonymous enough to most, while us regulars all know who's being discussed. It makes me incredibly uncomfortable, as I know it does you. I agree with you in saying these people may NOT be okay with it and should be asked first. That would be the mature thing to do.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Can't please them all.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes i have met a few not so likeable adults on this site but that's why they never get my number lol. They know who they no names need to be spoken but more then 2 messages before asking for me to suck their cock really lol. Not even rhp inches are bigger enough to reach me from where some are - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Look like someone(s) reported my last comment to be abusive and etc, seeing that I said no names rather just stated the OBVIOUS...I'd say I hit the nail on the head and they couldn't take it....Rest my case...
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RHP User
13 years ago
If you are insinuating that I have reported a comment you have made then I can tell you quite honestly that I have not. In fact I never even saw it? Did anyone? Maybe it never made it past the moderators? I really don't know. You certainly have proved your point. People are immature when they are online.
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RHP User
13 years ago
In my opinion all comments should be left there as it is usually the person making the comments that ends up looking bad. It is frustrating when they disappear. :(
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yep, I have to be honest I love a good fight and I can't keep my mouth shut sometimes so I agree that sometimes I look like a trouble maker. Sometimes my comments are bitchy. I own up to it. This is why some people don't like me and absolutely fair enough. ;-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Yep, I have to be honest I love a good fight and I can't keep my mouth shut sometimes so I agree that sometimes I look like a trouble maker. Sometimes my comments are bitchy. I own up to it. This is why some people don't like me and absolutely fair enough. ;-) these are the very reasons i personally like what you write, and take on board the things you say, Meeka....its obvious you have conviction and courage enough to own your own words...from what i've seen, you just telsl it like you sees it....and hey........ what bitchiness? what troublemaking?
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RHP User
13 years ago
telsl = tells...... bloody fingers....
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RHP User
13 years ago
are the Meekas not the meek
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RHP User
13 years ago
FFS look at her profile pic, her head is getting bigger and bigger and bigger!
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RHP User
13 years ago
One thing for certain, my head will never be as big as my arse. ⊂(◉‿◉)つ
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Devious' FFS look at her profile pic, her head is getting bigger and bigger and bigger! perhaps we can praise you a little as well....have to say, am liking the threads you have posted, including the happy birthday threads....am yet to see anything that was offensive or confrontational....'thoughtful' and 'topical' are 2 words i'd comfortably apply to what i've seen....well done!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'deepbluesumthing' What Mischievous lad said...all valid, also...Immature annoying people who level personal comments at others who have posted an opinion that is not implied towards or directed at any specific individual. Often they are notable for their inconsistency with anything they do or say as their beliefs jump tracks and change tack on a daily or even hourly basis dependant on their personal prejudices towards others and their level of self esteem at any given moment. Just being out to tear others down without regard or respect for an OP or staying on a topic is pure narcissism and in fact antisocial. If it ends up that this is to be the only consistent trait they are known for then it would have to be put in the category of 'lacking a social conscience',or in big people speak, 'sociopath'. Thanks for sharing your thoughts, you give me a new way of looking at things. xXx
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