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In the dark
March 24 2016
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Katkat
10 years ago
Not that I don't want to see their face it just puts me in that mood somehow candles gives it nice reflection of their face. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I love leaving the lights on sometimes but mood lighting is definitely more flattering and sometimes I feel gross/fat/ugly and just want darkness. Candlelight is definitely more romantic but all can be sexy in different ways...and doing it in the dark can mean you have to see with your hands, or mouth or... Miss Little xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm always left in the dark when it comes to sex.
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DynamicCouple36
10 years ago
In the dark, one relies on ones sense of touch , taste & smell and as such one can really get close and intimate without having visual distractions. One needs to use ones imagination. On the flip side of the coin, we are visual beings and find the visual images of naked bodies very arousing. Perhaps it's good to combine both, in ones lovemaking ? To enjoy the contrasts ? Light and dark . Hot and cold. Hard and soft. Smoothe and rough etc - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Says it all, anytime day or night, im always in the mood
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hello Freya. I do enjoy a bit of play in the dark on occasion. I have an intimate group of friends who I see from time to time and we have darkened the room to as dark as possible and I will also wear a blind fold too. Feeling all those bodies slithering over each other. All those hands and mouths over my body is delicious. Everyone looses their inhibitions and the moans and groans... Well, it's amazing. It's a wonderful experience to let yourself go and just allow your senses to take over. Candy - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
if there's only dim lights, I get too tempted to make shadow puppies and bunnies on the wall lol :p But to be serious though, like everything sexual, everything has its place, and too much of the same thing gets uber boring :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I would say I look much better at night, but that's just my own opinion :P
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RHP User
10 years ago
In generally I am more of a a lights on and rough kind of person. However i must admit every now and again doing it by candle light can really set a nice tone. Especially when the mood is more slow and sensual :-)
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madotara69
10 years ago
Quoting 'Obi1Kenietzsche' I'm always left in the dark when it comes to sex. Obi, Dark Invader, The Force, Closed Eyes thing, Crossing Light Savers...."always" ? it appears the sunburnt buttocks has been left right out when it comes to sex up there in about's the Dark Side Obi.
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RHP User
10 years ago
i was just thinking about this the other day , i dont think i've ever had sex in complete darkness. I do like candlelight but I find some casual guys freak out over candles and seem to think i'm trying to make it all romantic when in actual fact i just like the flattering lighting it provides and the smell of vanilla candles lol.
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sweetgem
10 years ago
To have some lights on while having sex because, I like to look at my partner's face when we get intimate and combined as one 😊 That way I would know if he is genuinely into me like he claims to be, or if he is faking and just misleading me on in order to get his penis wet. Beside that, I also like to know if my partner is enjoying my company or not and I can usually find my answers from looking at his face 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Out here, if there's no moonlight, it's pitch black. You can't see your hand in front of your face. So there would be no need for mutual blindfolds :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
is far superior than putting a paper bag over their head and a lot more romantic. Joking of course. A couple of low voltage bedside lamps on a king size bed inevitably leads to high voltage sex.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm not sure how I feel at the thought of Yoda and Darth Vader "crossing light sabers" in the dark. I think it would probably lead to further combat activities and a completely different interpretation of the phrase "feel the force inside you". I'm pretty liberal minded, but in light of my recent extraterrestrial experience, you are taking me to a place that I really don't want to go. Obi1
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RHP User
10 years ago
more often than not as I prefer to indulge my other senses, especially taste and touch.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes. I agree..
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RHP User
10 years ago
So hot about being in complete darkness and tuning into your other senses more. The anticipation of not knowing where you're going to be touched next, focusing on your partners breath and feeling their body swell and heat up. Yum! But staring into someone's eyes while your fucking or giving a BJ is fabulous too! I love soft lighting - it can be romantic or it can be sexy as hell depending on the colour of the light bulb 😉
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'SoftandCurious' So hot about being in complete darkness and tuning into your other senses more. The anticipation of not knowing where you're going to be touched next, focusing on your partners breath and feeling their body swell and heat up. Yum! But staring into someone's eyes while your fucking or giving a BJ is fabulous too! I love soft lighting - it can be romantic or it can be sexy as hell depending on the colour of the light bulb 😉
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madotara69
10 years ago
Quoting 'Obi1Kenietzsche' I'm not sure how I feel at the thought of Yoda and Darth Vader "crossing light sabers" in the dark. I think it would probably lead to further combat activities and a completely different interpretation of the phrase "feel the force inside you". I'm pretty liberal minded, but in light of my recent extraterrestrial experience, you are taking me to a place that I really don't want to go. Obi1 Toeymore us taking the extratesticles close encounter of the third kind and "feel the force inside.....This is phasing into quite a healthy debate, enjoy ?
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think less about lighting... and more about sensuality and the person Im with. If that happens to be in candle light, moonlight or the spotlight.... thats secondary to me.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I found myself quite flustered while typing that.....reliving some finer intimate moments that popped into my head 😉
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RHP User
10 years ago
Is hot. Plus you can make your really ugly orgasm face without scaring anyone.( you know, that tripple chin one where you go crosseyed and gnash your teeth) And Im in twinge excitement to try Summers suggestion of a "no lighting small group experience" how thrilling would that be? Might get an eye poked out at some point but you wouldnt know what body part poked you. Haha.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yesssssssss
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RHP User
10 years ago
...were having sex in the dark last night. We headbutted each other in our enthusiasm. I don't mind a bit of light... 😖
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RHP User
10 years ago
Can you imagine trying to be romantic under bright lights ? I can't. Definite passion killer.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Whilst it's not my primary consideration, I do prefer soft lifting, or almost complete darkness - just enough light coming through the cracks in the windows, or from the candles in the other room, that I can make out the outline of my lover's body. I do love being able to see the expressions on their face, too, though, so darkness is a "sometimes" thing. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sex is good in broad daylight and in the dark too. Actually any lighting in between is good too! After all variety is the spice of sex?
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RHP User
10 years ago
It depends on the situation at the time. Lights on is usually the go but, waking up in the middle of the night to the feel of my partner's skin against mine is enough for me to get things started again but this is a time where darkness is a part of the scene.
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